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Any opinions??? - 10/5/2013 12:08:58 PM

sibs33

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I have always been the dominant type sexually and have always been curious about this lifestyle. I am now looking for a very obedient female that is willing to submit her every control to me. I have been talking to one slave girl, but I was wondering how fast I should go with this. In the first day within a few hours she started calling me sir and master. I want to do this but I am just not sure how fast this should be pushed?

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RE: Any opinions??? - 10/5/2013 12:27:57 PM

DarkSteven

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Okay, when you say "talking", I assume you mean online.

There are lots of fakes that say they are slave girls and will do anything you want. And they'll call you Master almost immediately. If she's gorgeous, has lousy English, and is willing to relocate to you, be very suspicious.

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RE: Any opinions??? - 10/5/2013 12:34:01 PM

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She is online from this site but she is from Lebanon Indiana. She is submissive on the site but she said she's a slave just can not live it 24/7 and that's fine but just trying to make this real eventually.

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RE: Any opinions??? - 10/5/2013 12:36:56 PM

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I agree with DarkSteven, tread carefully, & be aware, there are people on here that are looking to fleece the naïve.

Having said that, there are some really great people on CM too. I hope you find what you're looking for, & have fun.

All the best, Gary.

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RE: Any opinions??? - 10/5/2013 12:42:25 PM

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Thanks very much just kind of new to this whole thing.

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RE: Any opinions??? - 10/6/2013 4:47:38 AM

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Having been very successful at an online to real life relationship I can say: get to know her friends and make them your friends, too. Learn things about her family and job that you can verify. Do the same thing in return, of course. And also, go get some real life experience outside of the bedroom yourself.

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RE: Any opinions??? - 10/6/2013 5:18:36 AM

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It is always ideal as SaffronDuchess said to get to know them as a person first. When we come to sites like this most people are so excited about getting their wants and desires. However, you have to be careful with whom you jump into this with and if you feel she is going to fast- tell her she is going to fast. That has nothing to do with you being dominant or her being submissive. It sounds like you're uncomfortable of how fast she is moving things. Slow it down and if she doesn't want to slow it down...then get off the train ride and wait for the next train until you get someone who has your equilibrium. This is about relationships and you're allow to pick who you want to have one with.

< Message edited by SweetAnise -- 10/6/2013 5:20:00 AM >

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RE: Any opinions??? - 10/6/2013 7:33:24 AM

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You have been given great advice so I will just say welcome and hope you enjoy your time well here.

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RE: Any opinions??? - 10/7/2013 8:44:00 AM

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Welcome sibs, careful with this person, they may start asking for relocation fees, etc.

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