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an open discussion - 10/5/2013 5:11:42 PM

ErinsEroticYouth

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Hello everyone

recently, a thread was started about me, saying I was fake, underaged, or an old man. Im newer to the site, but have met so many wonderful people already.

So im here to clear up any confusion. I am 19. i have a cam for anyone who needs proof that i am who i say i am. i have a facebook,and a Fetlife. [contact info removed by moderator]
my skype is also [contact info removed by moderator].

I really am looking for a Dom in my area, and this slander went way out of hand. If you want to chat via cam tonight to clear ip confusion ONLY, i am glad to do that tonight. I Will be online all night

good luck everybody.

< Message edited by VideoAdminRho -- 10/5/2013 5:22:02 PM >

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RE: an open discussion - 10/5/2013 5:34:20 PM

lovethyself

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Apparently I missed that thread. I wouldn't worry about it too much op, as any attempt to blacklist will be cleaned up and dealt with by the Mods. They frown on that sort of behaviour here.

I'm not sure that offering to cam with people is going to attract the sort of people you may want. Most of the people on the boards here don't care for blacklisting and slander, and find that it says much more about the person saying it than the person they are trying to slander.

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RE: an open discussion - 10/5/2013 5:36:06 PM

ErinsEroticYouth

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thanks for your kind mesaage. i dont mean to keep in contact with these people, i just want to show that i am who i say i am, so im not dealing with ridiculous trouble.

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RE: an open discussion - 10/5/2013 5:41:54 PM

VideoAdminRho

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If there had been a post about you, it would have been removed as we do not allow blacklisting on this site.

Please be aware that calling new female members fake is a common ploy by some to get a free cam show. They will often say there is a thread or people are talking in the chatroom, both of which aren't really true.

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RE: an open discussion - 10/5/2013 5:42:34 PM

poise

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ErinsEroticYouth

recently, a thread was started about me, saying I was fake, underaged, or an old man.
i have a cam for anyone who needs proof that i am who i say i am.

Please don't fall for this trick, Erin.
The people that are claiming you are fake are doing so in order to get A FREE CAM SHOW!
Block, delete, ignore, etc.

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RE: an open discussion - 10/5/2013 5:43:27 PM

angelikaJ

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Being told a thread was started about you is not the same as someone doing it.
That happens all the time... people saying it, not people doing it.

Personally, I don't think you should feel obligated to cam or skype to anyone just to prove you are real.

Demanding proof that someone cam to prove who they are or what their actual gender is a common scam to see your girlie bits.

And if you are camming those images you are sending can be captured... and posted in other places.

If you are an exhibitionist and love to Cam, then have at it.
But don't be bullied into proving yourself.

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RE: an open discussion - 10/5/2013 5:57:50 PM

jlf1961

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ErinsEroticYouth

Hello everyone

recently, a thread was started about me, saying I was fake, underaged, or an old man. Im newer to the site, but have met so many wonderful people already.

So im here to clear up any confusion. I am 19. i have a cam for anyone who needs proof that i am who i say i am. i have a facebook,and a Fetlife. [contact info removed by moderator]
my skype is also [contact info removed by moderator].

I really am looking for a Dom in my area, and this slander went way out of hand. If you want to chat via cam tonight to clear ip confusion ONLY, i am glad to do that tonight. I Will be online all night

good luck everybody.

I am sorry, but a cam wont cut it.

I need the following:

1) DNA sample to prove what species you are (wouldnt want to hook up with the wrong species of aliens, it could get me executed by my superiors.)

2) Video of your reaction to catnip (must make sure you have not been placed under the control of Felus Catus)

3) MRI and CT scan to make sure you are a biological lifeform and not an android.

4) Birth Certificate to prove what country and planet you were born on, see number one for reasons.

5) A cross section of your femur so that I can verify age (gotta count the rings)

6) A recent IQ test to verify that you are smarter than the average rock.

7) Upon meeting in person, you have to agree to a EEG and EKG to make sure you are not a zombie or any other form of undead.

8) Current psych eval, need to make sure you are not crazier than I am.

9) List of any subversive organizations you may have had contact with in highschool, FFA, FHA, ACA, Girl Scouts etc.

10) Current list of comics, anime, manga, and favorite super heroes.

FYI, I am a real sarcastic bastard at times.

Welcome to the boards, the site, and if there is anything I can do for you, as long as you are not a part of the Felus Catus conspiracy, feel free to contact me.

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RE: an open discussion - 10/5/2013 6:22:20 PM

MAINEiacMISTRESS

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Oh please, the demand for cam chat to "prove gender" is the oldest trick in the book. Don't fall for it.

I have NO PHOTO, won't cam chat unless they invest the time to get to know Me a little, and Phhhht, what do I care if the dweebs think I'm not female? I consider their suspicion ENTERTAINMENT. Hell, some of them have gotten themselves BANNED from social networks for using abusive language to try to provoke Me, accusing Me of being gay or an old man...or even of being a 10 year old kid. They'll use the foulest language they can muster (LMAO, falling right into My trap when the Mods ban their asses). The fact that I'm a classic car enthusiast who plays video games typically considered aimed at the male gamer only confuses them further. I'm enjoying Myself at their expense, although it doesn't happen as often as it once did. Perhaps I've been too good at this and have culled them all from My audience.

Grow a thicker skin, sit back and enjoy the show. Laugh a little. If they lose their cool as easily as you say, they aren't Dominant material. The same goes for the ones who demand you kneel even before a relationship has formed and an agreement has been worked out.

--MM

quote:

ORIGINAL: ErinsEroticYouth

Hello everyone

recently, a thread was started about me, saying I was fake, underaged, or an old man. Im newer to the site, but have met so many wonderful people already.

So im here to clear up any confusion. I am 19. i have a cam for anyone who needs proof that i am who i say i am. i have a facebook,and a Fetlife. [contact info removed by moderator]
my skype is also [contact info removed by moderator].

I really am looking for a Dom in my area, and this slander went way out of hand. If you want to chat via cam tonight to clear ip confusion ONLY, i am glad to do that tonight. I Will be online all night

good luck everybody.

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RE: an open discussion - 10/5/2013 6:27:38 PM

ErinsEroticYouth

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there was a real thread, i got several nasty messages from users about it. It wasnt a trick. thank you for the supportivr messages, i was very upset.

and the man from Texas is hilarious. Best message. here.

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RE: an open discussion - 10/5/2013 6:56:37 PM

DarkSteven

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Erin, this is the Internet. Things happen fast, and are forgotten quickly.

If there WAS a thread about you, it was removed. But I never saw it, nor did the other regulars.

The "prove to me that you're not a guy" is an old trick. If any stranger WERE to tell me that some random girl was male, I'd tell him to go jump in a lake.

You're taking this FAR too seriously. Just concentrate on the good folks, and report and block the jerks.

Enjoy your hunt!

_____________________________

"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: an open discussion - 10/5/2013 7:12:58 PM

ResidentSadist

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There has never been a thread about you that I saw or you replied to. What are you talking about?

You will cam for people to prove who you are? This is your first time isn't it? You are gonna' be a busy beaver, have fun.

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I give good thread.

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RE: an open discussion - 10/5/2013 7:14:43 PM

ErinsEroticYouth

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i didnt pay attention until i got the nasty and threatening messages, it was insane.

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RE: an open discussion - 10/5/2013 7:24:49 PM

littleone14

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The thing is, the type of person who would send you a nasty message is not the type of person who you want to interact with at all. Just block them, and report them if necessary.

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RE: an open discussion - 10/5/2013 7:57:36 PM

MAINEiacMISTRESS

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The BLOCK button is your friend. Find it, use it...fall in love with it.

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RE: an open discussion - 10/5/2013 8:17:25 PM

TheHeretic

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Nope. I'm not buying it. He's just some horny dude.

I want the cam show. Have toys and lube handy. And a bag of clothespins.

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That's why people with no sense of humor have such an inflated sense of self-importance.

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RE: an open discussion - 10/5/2013 8:24:02 PM

angelikaJ

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ErinsEroticYouth

there was a real thread, i got several nasty messages from users about it. It wasnt a trick. thank you for the supportivr messages, i was very upset.

and the man from Texas is hilarious. Best message. here.

Getting messages about a thread doesn't mean anything.
Chances are it was just one person with several profile nicks sending you messages.
Not multiple different users; one user.
And that is one reason why you are supposed to report that kind of message.

The moderator hinted that there wasn't any thread and she would be in a position to know.
I would believe her.

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(as deemed by He who owns me)

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30 fluffy points!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mQjuCQd01sg

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RE: an open discussion - 10/5/2013 8:30:58 PM

uilleand

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I needed to see this as a newb here. Thanks all.

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RE: an open discussion - 10/5/2013 8:34:28 PM

littleone14

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quote:

ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

quote:

ORIGINAL: ErinsEroticYouth

there was a real thread, i got several nasty messages from users about it. It wasnt a trick. thank you for the supportivr messages, i was very upset.

and the man from Texas is hilarious. Best message. here.

Getting messages about a thread doesn't mean anything.
Chances are it was just one person with several profile nicks sending you messages.
Not multiple different users; one user.
And that is one reason why you are supposed to report that kind of message.

The moderator hinted that there wasn't any thread and she would be in a position to know.
I would believe her.

That's a really good point. It very well could be just one person under different profiles harassing you. After all, everyone who's responded to you are regulars and on here a lot. What are the odds that none of us happened to see this thread, but a bunch of abusive jerks did?

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RE: an open discussion - 10/5/2013 8:40:10 PM

angelikaJ

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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone14

quote:

ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

quote:

ORIGINAL: ErinsEroticYouth

there was a real thread, i got several nasty messages from users about it. It wasnt a trick. thank you for the supportivr messages, i was very upset.

and the man from Texas is hilarious. Best message. here.

Getting messages about a thread doesn't mean anything.
Chances are it was just one person with several profile nicks sending you messages.
Not multiple different users; one user.
And that is one reason why you are supposed to report that kind of message.

The moderator hinted that there wasn't any thread and she would be in a position to know.
I would believe her.

That's a really good point. It very well could be just one person under different profiles harassing you. After all, everyone who's responded to you are regulars and on here a lot. What are the odds that none of us happened to see this thread, but a bunch of abusive jerks did?

A bunch of people who probably had not made any forum posts, no doubt?

_____________________________

The original home of the caffeinated psychotic hair pixies.
(as deemed by He who owns me)

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3234821/tm.htm

30 fluffy points!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mQjuCQd01sg

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RE: an open discussion - 10/5/2013 9:13:12 PM

jlf1961

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quote:

ORIGINAL: uilleand

I needed to see this as a newb here. Thanks all.

You saw my requirements to prove realness.

But you people must realize I believe that domestic cats are in league with aliens (other than the ones I report to) bent on taking over the planet. My superiors are academics, they are studying the human race purely to see why on this planet mass insanity is a contagious disease.

_____________________________

Boy, it sure would be nice if we had some grenades, don't you think?

You cannot control who comes into your life, but you can control which airlock you throw them out of.

Paranoid Paramilitary Gun Loving Conspiracy Theorist AND EQUAL OPPORTUNI

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