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nipple piercing - 10/7/2013 4:41:08 AM

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should i get my nipples pierced ? Do most doms prefer this? Thank you x

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RE: nipple piercing - 10/7/2013 5:24:01 AM

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I prefer unpierced but assume I'm in the minority.

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RE: nipple piercing - 10/7/2013 5:30:15 AM

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The Doms I know who prefer piercing would rather do it themselves or at least be there when it's done. They like the pain of it. However, most Doms I know really don't care about piercing at all. If they have a sub/slave who is not pierced they leave it that way.

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RE: nipple piercing - 10/7/2013 5:59:23 AM

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I'm one of those guys who dig pierced nipples, and I managed to get four of my past playmates to consent to it. The others refused, on valid grounds. You have to consider if, in the future, you plan on using them for their intended purpose. While nip piercing doesn't always result in permanent damage, it still is considered an "insult" to that organ. If you do, get it done at a reputable and reliable shop, not someone's kitchen or basement. I know there'll be doms jumping on this who are accomplished piercing artists who'll say differently (about the location), but there's a big difference between an earlobe and a nipple.

Choose a smaller gauge and work your way up (if you choose to continue), and if you do, be hyper-vigilant about hygiene. I had a friend who went swimming in a natural body of water shortly after she had hers done, and almost lost one of her nipples to infection.

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RE: nipple piercing - 10/7/2013 6:01:40 AM

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Like DS, I prefer unpierced myself.

Unless you really want to have them pierced, I'd leave them as they are.
I think it's a very personal thing and I don't think any Dom(me) should force anyone to have body mods unless it has been previously agreed in the dynamic.

ETA: Good points made by MC!

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RE: nipple piercing - 10/7/2013 6:03:30 AM

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Do YOU prefer it? It's you that has to find a reputable person, pay for it, go through the pain, take care of the healing (which is long) risk infection etc etc. If you really want it, go for it. Otherwise, don't do something on the off chance that a future partner may like it.

Things like this - they are trivial in the big picture. If you are compatible with someone and find your match, you can always get your nipples pierced then. If you aren't compatible, no cosmetic change will fix it.

For the record, my dominant had me take every one of my piercings out.

Edit after reading profile: does your husband like it? Because if it's not something you've discussed, this will certainly tip him off that you're up to no good.

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RE: nipple piercing - 10/7/2013 6:17:03 AM

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OP,either way,pierced or non-pierced, it isn't a deal breaker either way. It does however, give me another point to tie off on during bondage. I totally agree with Caneman and the rest who said find a good professional that knows what they are doing if you decide to get your nipples pierced.

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RE: nipple piercing - 10/7/2013 8:16:33 AM

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What does your husband say?

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RE: nipple piercing - 10/7/2013 1:24:01 PM

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Pierce em.So much fun for restriction (Which reminds me that Mouses are healed enough now for this)

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RE: nipple piercing - 10/7/2013 2:43:37 PM

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quote:

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should i get my nipples pierced ? Do most doms prefer this? Thank you x

You should consult with your husband and make a joint decision about it then act accordingly. I prefer pierced nipples but there are too many risks and downsides for me to mess with Carol's so hers remain unpierced.

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RE: nipple piercing - 10/7/2013 2:56:04 PM

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should i get my nipples pierced ? Do most doms prefer this? Thank you x

You should consult with your husband and make a joint decision about it then act accordingly. I prefer pierced nipples but there are too many risks and downsides for me to mess with Carol's so hers remain unpierced.

The only reason I haven't put a bunch of bars in Mouses clit

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RE: nipple piercing - 10/8/2013 10:34:29 PM

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should i get my nipples pierced ? Do most doms prefer this? Thank you x

Well this dom certainly doesn't "prefer" them.... To put it another way, I think all body piercings (other than earlobes) are feral and just plain unfeminine, no matter how many females indulge. Same for "body art". But then (looking at your preferred pic), I don't much care for "free range" boobs banging about just because, either.

As to whether you should, well, that's up to you and the kinda dom you'd wanna be with. If you're thinking of getting it done anyway, eg as a means of feeling you "belong" in this community, you're an idiot.

Nothing personal, of course, I'm one of those fossils who thinks the female form was packaged just right from forever. Too bad too many contemporary females missed that lesson. Just add a little class and some grooming, and I'm noticing her every move!

Like I said, I'm old....

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RE: nipple piercing - 10/9/2013 9:43:57 AM

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Pierce 'em . . . slave titties are supposed to have slave rings in them . . . preferably 8 - 10 gauge endless loop (closed loop). Not to mention all the mileage you and your partner will get out of them for BDSM play. You can always take the rings out of a pierced titty and do anything you would with an unpierced titty.

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RE: nipple piercing - 10/9/2013 9:48:47 AM

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had to ask, but what about Domme nipples?
considering getting them done now

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RE: nipple piercing - 10/9/2013 10:58:37 AM

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Why would you pierce them to please some random dom? Do it for you if you want it, otherwise it makes no sense.

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should i get my nipples pierced ? Do most doms prefer this? Thank you x

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RE: nipple piercing - 10/9/2013 12:53:03 PM

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Focus - my man is right with you on a lot of your views and he is only a few years younger :)

Jackie - my man never would have written to me if I had naked breasts in my profile pictures, but then, he was looking for a serious relationship, and since you are doing this behind your husband's back, you don't have to worry about that demographic.

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RE: nipple piercing - 10/9/2013 8:27:27 PM

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Do you have a Dom? If not, get them for you, not some imaginary man in your head.

I have my nipples pierced because I knew that is what Master wanted and I did it for his Christmas gift last year.

ETA: You're married? Could be quite the shocker to him once you have them done.

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RE: nipple piercing - 10/10/2013 12:09:48 AM

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I was working on a serious reply until I saw the bit about your husband not knowing you're here, which makes me dislike you rather a lot and not want to help you in any way, shape or form.

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RE: nipple piercing - 10/10/2013 1:47:21 AM

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had to ask, but what about Domme nipples?
considering getting them done now

I rarely mess with Domme-nips unless they are about to switch sides of the kneel. But pierced Domme nips are hot too . . . especially when I get to play with them.

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RE: nipple piercing - 10/10/2013 4:59:23 AM

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LOL:) Bring your cup:)

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