sheisreeds -> RE: Clothespins (Zipper) and CBT (10/22/2013 2:48:28 AM)
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It is also probably a very good idea to have him talk through it the first time around. Don't push yourself to be in full domme mode when doing something new. You can still be the mistress, but expect to take your time, to need his communication, etc. Might not be a bad idea to make him do it for you, or make him help you, to get a sense of what areas he likes, and what his tolerance is for the clothespins. If you're worried about hurting him in a bad way, try and find some weaker pins to start. Some if the constriction gets to be too much can easily be brushed off, while others will stick on there no matter what. I find dollar stores are great for looser pins, though it is important to check for splinters! Sometimes starting with flimsy cheap plastic ones is not a bad idea either. It can give you time to get a sense of placement, and work up your comfort level. My favorite pins are the mainstay brand from walmart. Super sturdy, strong and tight. I like to pinch those fuckers shut and then yank them off >:)
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