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RE: Can a slave have common sense when questioning a Mi... - 7/3/2006 4:57:38 PM

sting516

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i guess the question here is...are you a slave or a sub...i saw a quote on one Domme's profile which stated that Her car doesn't tell Her where to go, so neither will Her other property (meaning Her slave)...that concept makes sense...and as long as the Domme is willing to go along with whatever consequences might arise.

Of course...some of this should have been discussed before agreeing to become a slave.

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ORIGINAL: Biyoungsub

One Question to all Mistress with all do respct: Can a male or female slave have common sense and use it when being order to do something that can hurt him/her or would put him/her in danger or is a hard limit? i ask because after reading about being a slave in contrast of being a sub, a slave has no choices and no thinking, he/she must obey. But how much that rule applies when in situation of health danger or also things that can put you at risk with yourself or the law? If a slave refuses to take a drug or to get naked in a public place or to be humiliated were you know is proihibited then wouldnt that be a fault for a slave if the slave rules state that a slave must always obey without questioning?
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RE: Can a slave have common sense when questioning a Mi... - 7/3/2006 6:00:23 PM

Vendaval

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Biyoungsub,

Ultimately you are responsible for your own safety and well being.
Get to know a prospective Domme over a period of time;
talk, listen, negotiate, think, reflect, write in a journal. First
you must know yourself and what you seek, and what you have
as limits. After all the negotiation, if you begin service to a Domme,
then you still need to protect yourself/her property and talk to her about any
concerns that you have. Negotiation and communication
go both ways, a Domme/sub relationship has particular nuances
and differences separate from everyday communication.

Be well, stay safe, play well with others,

Vendaval

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RE: Can a slave have common sense when questioning a Mi... - 7/3/2006 6:10:33 PM

DiurnalVampire

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My pets are expected to question orders that they believe may put them in danger. Until I know them inside and out, there may be tings that arise that can cause problems (the case that comes to mind actually was a latex allergy). As long as the objections are made respectfuly, and explained, there is no problem. As an owner, I do take the responsability to watch out for my pets well being, so I would not expect a command I gave to be followed contrary to that well being.
But of course, thats just how I view things.

DV

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RE: Can a slave have common sense when questioning a Mi... - 7/3/2006 11:57:08 PM

MistressMynx

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Where I may mildly tolerate a silly slave, engaging with a stupid one is out of the question. Choose wisely before engaging in any activity.
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RE: Can a slave have common sense when questioning a Mi... - 7/4/2006 4:35:39 AM

littlesarbonn

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ORIGINAL: MistressMynx

Where I may mildly tolerate a silly slave, engaging with a stupid one is out of the question.

Damn, there goes my chance.

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RE: Can a slave have common sense when questioning a Mi... - 7/4/2006 5:24:06 AM

SeekingHousePet

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I think if she was a good Mistress she would know better not to do something like that. Meaning the naked in public or the law thing, just stupid to me

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