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LadySonelle -> MANY Different Orientations: 1 Person! (11/17/2004 3:15:49 PM)
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I was just chatting with a very good friend of MIne, also a Dom, and we got onto the subject of orientation. He said that IRL, he's bi and somewhat dom. In SM he is switch (mostly Dom, and gay. We started discussing that.
It is, indeed possible to have as many as four or five orientations, I think. IRL, I'm Lesbian In My own head, in fantasy and in interactive fantasy with my partner, I'm a Gay male! In BDSM I'm almost completely heterosexual, preferring to top men. On the telephone (I do sex work) I'm bisexual!
These are not poses. They are what I want, how I'm wired. I was, IrL married to a man for a while. It simply did not work out. There was *no* sexual attraction at all. And yet, when I have a ricing crop in My hand, the fellow trussed up before Me is the sexiest thing in the whole world! I am now in a 20 year relationship with a beautiful woman and happy as seven clams! And, of course, as anyone who has checked out My site knows, I do crossdress as a male from time to time. Oh, and in fantasy, when I'm a male, I'm *submissive*! Go figure!
Anyone else have multiple orientations? :)
Lady Sonelle
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