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TigressLily -> RE: mistress (10/17/2013 8:27:43 PM)
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Nope, it isn't her approach which is flawed. OP Slavejames was ready to jump on that, what with no tribute required; he knew he'd hit the jackpot--if he could have pulled it off. What's flawed is this idea that a Domme should cater to do-me subs who want instant gratification without putting any effort into fulfilling their part of performing non-sexual submission. A Domme has every right to weed out the pretenders, as opposed to those service providers who make BDSM a business venture where they are essentially sex workers who may not even be Dominant. You can't have it both ways. D/s delivered on a silver platter and BDSM at zero cost.
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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1
your approach so far has been flawed, because you have been hitting men in a state of High Horniness with a nonsexual wall of text. It isn't that the guys read what you write and say no; it's that they see a ton of characters and no pics, and can't deal.
.... Orders without obedience just undermine your position.
Also, you only have the hook -- at the very end -- that he can perform services in panties and a butt plug. That's ok, but it should be sooner. But the big thing missing is: how can he please you sexually....
Au contraire, mon frère. You are a man so you wouldn't know. There is no obedience without ordering these inexperienced male subs around. They won't take you seriously for one moment without being told what to do. If they don't have the reading comprehension beyond that of a graphic novel, then they can hook up as a paypig to a cam-promising PayPrincess.
Not all Dommes want to be pleased sexually, unlike myself, by their subs. To each her own. Athena didn't embark on this project for her own sexual gratification. She took pity on these poor clueless subs and is willing to provide what amounts to a public service. Not even I am willing to do that! This is HER dog & pony show.
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