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mistress - 10/17/2013 1:53:33 AM

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Txt/pic mistress required, MUST b in UK, NO FEES!

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RE: mistress - 10/17/2013 2:06:51 AM

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Well, I don't charge any fees though I only do online... what do you think folks? Shall I make him my standard offer? Think this could be the first guy who finally completes my tasks?

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RE: mistress - 10/17/2013 2:14:02 AM

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Athenasurrenders. Where do u live?

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RE: mistress - 10/17/2013 6:38:23 AM

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I think it's a match made in heaven, Athena.

Edited to add: wtf is a text/pic mistress, and if that's all he's looking for, why does it matter where people live?

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RE: mistress - 10/17/2013 6:49:41 AM

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ORIGINAL: Miyani

Edited to add: wtf is a text/pic mistress, and if that's all he's looking for, why does it matter where people live?

Texting rates differ nationally or internationally.

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RE: mistress - 10/17/2013 7:21:30 AM

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what do you think folks?

In case you actually want a serious answer:

your approach so far has been flawed, because you have been hitting men in a state of High Horniness with a nonsexual wall of text. It isn't that the guys read what you write and say no; it's that they see a ton of characters and no pics, and can't deal.

What you need to do first is to obtain agreement that some of the steps you will demand will be nonsexual. That your objective is to cause the guy to grow as a person, to please you, and to please himself through this process. So, short sentences first, explaining this. Make sure you get a yes that seems sincere before getting to the orders. Don't even give a first order until you have agreement that he will try to follow one. Orders without obedience just undermine your position.

Also, you only have the hook -- at the very end -- that he can perform services in panties and a butt plug. That's ok, but it should be sooner. But the big thing missing is: how can he please you sexually. I don't mean send pictures of your bits, or of intimacy with your husband. In what way would you get off from him doing what you ask? Feeling of power? If a guy really did all the things you include in your posts, how wet would you get? Communicate this, that he gets to know you have moist panties because he volunteered today at a soup kitchen, or whatever. It's an additional reward.

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RE: mistress - 10/17/2013 7:27:51 AM

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That was a very thoughtful post RedMagic, but it assumes that my primary goal was to obtain any of these people as my own sub. If I'm being honest, it was more about pointing out the absurdity of promises to serve no question (which in fairness this guy didn't do) and the great cavernous gap between the types of conversations they were hoping to have (cyber sex) vs the types of conversations the people on these boards like to have.

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RE: mistress - 10/17/2013 7:32:42 AM

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I realize that Athena. I was using this opportunity to give you some pointers for your future.

99.9% of men who start sexual attention threads will be non-buyers for the kind of domination you'd be interested in providing. So I wasn't really talking about right now, today.

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RE: mistress - 10/17/2013 9:17:28 AM

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It might happen one day, Athena. However, there have been a couple of times over the years that I've seen RedM give a more realistic, male based approach that deals with the build up of hormones.

"Next time, before you post, rub one out before typing."

(Seems to save a few KEYstrokes.)

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RE: mistress - 10/17/2013 10:14:11 AM

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You might want to try Dommes R Us. I believe they have a branch in Dublin.

Although...no, they'd charge a fee.

I guess your only other option is to make yourself appear to be the kind of person a Domme would want to be with. Perhaps start by filling out your profile so that you look like a well-rounded, interesting human being rather than a long checklist of kinks.

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RE: mistress - 10/17/2013 11:30:20 AM

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Hi athenasurrenders, if u r in the uk slave james WILL complete ur tasks, im vy obedient!

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RE: mistress - 10/17/2013 11:33:22 AM

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Hi athenasurrenders, if u r in the uk slave james WILL complete ur tasks, im vy obedient!

May I ask please how much time you are saving by using textspeak instead of spelling words out, and by not using capitals? One second? Two? Maybe three?

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RE: mistress - 10/17/2013 11:34:14 AM

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Hi athenasurrenders, if u r in the uk slave james WILL complete ur tasks, im vy obedient!

Can somebody please give him a literacy task?

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RE: mistress - 10/17/2013 11:41:14 AM

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Hi lizi, just txt this way, ive bin doing it 4 yrs, dont think of it regards saving time.

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RE: mistress - 10/17/2013 11:46:00 AM

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Hi lizi, just txt this way, ive bin doing it 4 yrs, dont think of it regards saving time.

But this isn't text speak on a phone - it's a forum where people actually type stuff.
You will find that a lot of people don't like text speak.

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RE: mistress - 10/17/2013 11:50:48 AM

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Well im on mwx fone writing these posts lol!

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RE: mistress - 10/17/2013 12:00:07 PM

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Hi athenasurrenders, if u r in the uk slave james WILL complete ur tasks, im vy obedient!

That's a very kind offer James, but I'm going to have to decline. I strongly suspect I am not what you had in mind. Besides, my tasks require essays, which would be very difficult to complete if you need to type in text speak on your phone.

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RE: mistress - 10/17/2013 12:10:40 PM

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Think u r wot im lukn 4, writing essays wudnt b a prob i can assure u, where do u live?

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RE: mistress - 10/17/2013 1:25:42 PM

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i can assure u ur not wat shes lukn for.

God, it was painful typing that.

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RE: mistress - 10/17/2013 1:43:12 PM

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I once has a student attempt to submit a piece of homework written entirely in text-speak. She was genuinely offended, miffed, and importuned to discover that college-level assignments require documents to be presented in proper formatting. It was not a pretty afternoon. Two instructors, a librarian, and the Dean of Students eventually became involved. Legal action was threatened, and the race card was played to the hilt. God, I was so glad when she dropped out...

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