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New in NYC - 10/18/2013 6:47:41 PM

hotbirtman

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Hi all.
I am a 29yo sub male in NYC.
From London, and newish in town.
Just found the site and trying to navigate my way through the fakes to meet some genuine people.

Any tips out there for me?

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RE: New in NYC - 10/18/2013 8:03:35 PM

Rasciallymisty

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Welcome to CM and the forums, this side is where discussions take place.....now some in sight that might help you.

My suggestions would be....

1- Your profile is lacking a little. Make your profile one that the Domme's will want to read. Tell them more on what your likes are in the vanilla world your enjoyments other than sex. But do not make an all about me profile or all about your D/s likes and dislikes. Also most do not like third person references it drives them nuts, sort of like fingernails on a chalk board. Maybe read a few other subs profiles and see how they have wrote theirs and maybe take some ideas to use in yours.

2- Head down to the Mistress, Master and sub/slave thread's and maybe join in some of the discussions. The only ones I might say beware of is Politics and Religion unless you like getting into some debates.

3- Use the search on this side ( little button up there on top ^^^^ on the right hand side) if you have some questions as they may have already been asked...or ask away. Please just watch the dates on the threads and do not respond to anything that is more than three months old....as the Mod's are not found of us doing so. You can always start a new one with your question.

4- DO NOT post nude pics.....women tend to dislike them. They like action pics of you doing things like maybe boating, skiing, things along those lines. Things you are into not related to D/s.

5- Check out ResidentSadist book list, its a great list and can help you get info on WIITWD or go to general BDSM thread and there is a good book list there as well.

Its nice to have you join us here on the forums and hopefully you will stick around and join in on some of the discussions. Do beware some peeps are super kewl on this side and some not so kewl. Have a thick skin and you will do fine. Hope you enjoy your time here.

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RE: New in NYC - 10/18/2013 9:10:14 PM

Masterlikes31

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No cooth! Change your profile pic!! lol...other than that, Welcome!

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The Master is an artist , His slave the clay, with the whip He will shape her , with humility He will mold her, Some will admire her, But only the Master, not even the slave, will know her true beauty, for her true beauty lies in her love for her Master.

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