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elnombrees -> I'm El and I require tips to survive this site. (10/21/2013 12:29:49 AM)
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Because I've been here before, and it didn't end well. Granted it was 3 years ago (at the tender age of 18), and I had such horrible self esteem that back then any attention seemed like good attention. Until a few months later I caught on, and deleted everything I had on this site...so yeah.
Now I'm back a bit wiser, but still just 21. I have knowledge of BDSM, but I have no hands on experience. The latter due to my hesitance to be in a relationship of any caliber, and the fact that I've never met someone that made me want to be in a relationship with them. -shrugs- That's just never happened for me.
Any way, I'm going to need all and any tips anyone can give to me, because I want to try to get this whole "safety in BDSM" right. And despite all the book knowledge I've carried through the years, I'm still socially awkward and more-than-less naive about life.
So, do you have any tips about CollarMe? The do's and don'ts possibly?
And more importantly, is there any tips you would give to someone like me (or me) when it comes to BDSM?
All good-hearted tips are appreciated!
...P.S. I've never even met a decent BDSM'er online or offline. Well one, but he's my friend now and nothing more. I'm just wondering if anyone would be willing to tell me how they met their S.O. Was it online or offline? Is there a treasure chest somewhere that I can open and find a Dom? Because that'd be great. [;)]
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