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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 5:04:20 AM

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Thank you Christina! And good luck to you as well. :) Peace

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 5:04:49 AM

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Got it, it's a 'true lifestyle' of one.

Welcome to the discussion side Buck. Best of luck in your search.

BTW: I grew up in your area, and saw the Rolling Stones (along with many other groups back in the day) perform at the Akron Rubber Bowl.

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 5:23:10 AM

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They are currently dismantling the Rubber Bowl and auctioning off every piece of it! The seats, the lights, the loudspeakers, and even the grass, believe it or not! Lol so you may purchase a little portion of your past, if you like.

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 5:35:25 AM

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Oh, I see, lovely an attack on the switches.

This one will go far. I see it.

I am just a lowly switch, in a committed relationship with another lowly switch for 5 years. We have no clue what were doing, and the edge is scary.

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 5:39:24 AM

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Hi, Buck.

1. Your statement about switches not committing implies that each of us has the option of checking off a box at the ballot machine and identifying whichever way we want. I consider there to be a spectrum, from pure sub to pure Dom/me, and people all fall somewhere on it. I have a hard time in assigning a label to someone who is 95% of the way toward either side, as a real switch or as a Dom/me/sub that switches occasionally. Not to mention that someone's place on the spectrum varies over time as well as the women's statement here that the position is also dependent on who they're with.

2. You cheerfully throw out that you think all the munch attendees local to you are killing off the lifestyle. That raises all kinds of red flags. It sounds like you have issues getting along with others, and no locals will vouch for you. Also, your techniques will be all self-taught and you will likely have no opportunities to swap notes with other practitioners and grow.

Please stick around the forums. The cross-pollination between you and the others would be good.

Welcome to the site.

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 5:55:44 AM

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I will chime back in, merely to point out that I NEVER used the term "ALL". Hmmm I so dislike being misquoted!!! Please reread my post and hopefully digest it's content on attempt number 2. Thank you. :) I really "lit the tampon fuse" on this one, didn't I! Lol you all can paint your asses red, and run around "wailing" screaming " I'm a firetruck... I'm a firetruck!" For all I care. Lol you all be whatever self serving thing you wish to be. :) a petunia today perhaps, maybe tomorrow a cupcake! Lol why doe my opinion suddenly "Rock the World"? Niw if you will excuse me, I need to go turn off my notifications for this blog! :p Lol be well and be happy All!!!

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 6:55:35 AM

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Awe I love when newbies take on those that have been in the lifestyle for awhile and think they know all....and then try to tell them they know nothing or doing things wrong.

Oops since I try to keep things nice as one of the greeters here....welcome and do please stick around. This should be interesting watching you trying to fit in among the many that have a clue.

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 7:01:59 AM

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Yeah, Lol I'm "new"

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 7:07:00 AM

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I do not like the "Munch atmosphere", as it only brings me into close proximity with the very people I view as slowly but surely destroying the Lifestyle little by little! I could go on an on, on the subject, but I see no productive reason to do so. My "hardline" views on the subject has no bering on your everyday life, so feel free to go be a "domme" one moment, "and a "sub" the next! :) this will be my final post of the day on the subject. be well! :)

So in other words, no you don't have any local experience. And I have to say after reading your posts I am not a bit surprised. But good luck with that attitude. It should get you far.

Oh and just a FYI, once you flounce out of a thread it's generally considered bad form to keep coming back. That just makes you look silly.

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 7:10:33 AM

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Welcome to the forums. I sincerely do hope that you'll have some interest in threads that aren't being held in Introductions. I'm sure it will be quite entertaining.

Yes, the signature lines are great, aren't they? I think Mine fits quite well.

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 7:13:07 AM

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"True" Lifestylers need no explanation of the term "true" .

Hi Buck, welcome. I'm not a true lifestyler, so I guess I don't have this innate knowledge that you're speaking of. I'd really like to know what a true lifestyler is though, care to explain?

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 7:17:25 AM

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I "flounced" no where! Lol "Reading" and "comprehension" is obviously NOT some of you peoples strong suit, is it? I said I was finished with "THAT SUBJECT", NOT that I wouldn't address other comments about me. Stop giving me power, and move on with your lives people!

maybe close your laptops and work on your information retention skills.

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 7:20:33 AM

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No, I don't care to at this juncture. Lol perhaps at another... said the Puppet Master.

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 7:30:18 AM

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It really suck not being on the "bandwagon" with the masses, being the one pointing out a "falsehood" and stating "the Emperor's naked, there are no new clothes"

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 7:00:35 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

1. Your statement about switches not committing implies that each of us has the option of checking off a box at the ballot machine and identifying whichever way we want. I consider there to be a spectrum, from pure sub to pure Dom/me, and people all fall somewhere on it. I have a hard time in assigning a label to someone who is 95% of the way toward either side, as a real switch or as a Dom/me/sub that switches occasionally. Not to mention that someone's place on the spectrum varies over time as well as the women's statement here that the position is also dependent on who they're with.

I agree with this strongly, and believe it applies to many aspects of someone's personality.

Welcome Buck. And good luck.

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/21/2013 7:15:16 PM

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An online text format is a terrible place to debate a subject. I will say this... I respect people, I do not have to respect the choices they make, and I've treated everyone here with respect. I don't care to have to ask someone when you run into them, be it online or off, " what roll are you currently portraying, Dom or sub?" How do I adjust my demeanor accordingly, to mesh with your inability to ccommit to one role or the other? How may I bend over backwards, to service your ever changing ego trips? The Lifestyle contains Domminants and submissives, all other "inbetweeners" are NOT LLifestylers! You will not sway me on my "Lifestyle Purist Convictions"!

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/22/2013 3:11:04 AM

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I'll attempt a serious answer.

I tend to be whatever I am with that partner. If I am not involved with you I am just a person. You do not get the privilege as a stranger.

I am not wishy washy when I enter relationships, or play contracts, I communicate. Usually I know what I am looking for, and I know who I am meeting, just as they do with me.

One of the hottest play partnerships I had outside of my current relationship, which takes the at least the top 50. Was negotiated as sure he could be the dominant, but I would not submit. That was what we both wanted, it's what fit our chemistry. And whenever we would play the dynamic was the same.

When I was poly I could go from a battle royale scene with my switch primary, and then saunter across the party to my dominant sadist partner and by calm, cool, collected, and submissive while I got strung from the ceiling and strapped.

There is a commitment in each relationship I am in, most switches I know are the same way.

My relationship is 24/7, yes and I mean in most interactions and how we handle the relationship. No it is not a typical D/s or M/s scenario, but we've been committed and who we are for the past 5 years. And no we don't flip a coin and figure out who's the D and who's the S. We're just violent, and for things that require more concentration, still really sadistic.

We are also quite edgey. This is a very spiritual thing for us, it isn't just about spicing things up. It is who we are, what we are, all the time.

I've been involved in BDSM actively since the age of 19. Seriously entrenched and committed to it for about 6 years. My partner and I when we cared about being out and involved with the community were well respected, and it was never confusing for anyone.

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/22/2013 3:38:54 AM

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You adjust your behavior according to whether someone is dom or sub? Really? Unless they're YOUR dom or sub what does it matter?

Treat people like people, I've noticed they tend to like that. I do.

ETA: I'd like to ask you a serious question, Buck. How do you feel about bisexuals? Are they also afflicted with the inability to commit?

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/22/2013 5:20:43 AM

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ETA: I'd like to ask you a serious question, Buck. How do you feel about bisexuals? Are they also afflicted with the inability to commit?

Buck, let me add a bit to CP's question.

The simplest way to see people is within the context of a binary. There are men and women, subs and Doms, gay and straight. No trans people, no switches, no bis. Nice, neat little boxes, and it's all easy to understand. I mused/ranted on it in this thread: http://www.collarchat.com/m_4548696/tm.htm

You seem to believe that people select their places on the spectrum, and choose to be gay/bi/straight as well as Dom/sub. I, and others, believe that people arrive there due to who they were born and life experience, not so much by deliberate choice.

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RE: Hello! I'm Buck from Akron Ohio. - 10/22/2013 5:33:55 AM

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I respect everyone's right to choose what they want to do!!! All I am saying is... it's NOT any part of "the Lifestyle" that I'm in!!! You have your OWN "watered down" version of "A" Lifestyle, I will remain in my "Strictly" adheard to Lifestyle of TWO roles! to be CLEAR... it's NOT "B.D.S S.M."! You have "your" Lifesyle, and mine is LIGHT YEARS apart from yours! Now I believe I have the right to EXCLUDE/CONDEMN the practice of "switchery" in MY Lifestyle, as much as you have the right to INCLUDE it in yours! I'm not attempting to be popular, only "pure", without "contaminants" in my Lifestyle! And believe me when I tell yoy, many MANY People share my view on "contaminants". Be well and go enjoy "your Lifestyle"!

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