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Female Subs.What tasks/assignments have you been given?... - 10/25/2013 11:16:22 AM

PrincessNubienne

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I so far have only dealt with men.
Wanted to know what female subs enjoy as tasks/assignments from their dommes.
Any fantasies you want played out?
Online what keeps you engaged?

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RE: Female Subs.What tasks/assignments have you been gi... - 10/25/2013 11:19:20 AM

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I don't enjoy make busy tasks or assignments. I have enough to do with my own life without dealing with someone that will waste my time with meaningless stuff. It also shows a lack of respect if someone treats my time as disposable.

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RE: Female Subs.What tasks/assignments have you been gi... - 10/25/2013 11:23:09 AM

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I don't do assignments, this isn't grade school and I don't need to prove myself as a sub through meaningless tasks. I am with Osidegirl on this one. My time is worth something don't disrespect me by wasting it.

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RE: Female Subs.What tasks/assignments have you been gi... - 10/25/2013 11:24:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

I don't enjoy make busy tasks or assignments. I have enough to do with my own life without dealing with someone that will waste my time with meaningless stuff. It also shows a lack of respect if someone treats my time as disposable.

When your dom is talking to you is there anything in particular you like?
So you've never been commanded to do anything?

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RE: Female Subs.What tasks/assignments have you been gi... - 10/25/2013 11:26:41 AM

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I don't do online. I enjoy tasks from males and females that serve a purpose, as opposed to busywork. So these won't be one-size-fits-all tasks, as they are tailored to the Dom/Dommes needs and wants, and my skills and abilities. In one relationship, I had a car and she did not, so I drove her places. I also helped her with marketing. With my current Dom, I help him with SEO for his website. He wanted a Bobby Orr highlights DVD; I bought him one. He wanted a professional massage; I scheduled one. I also cook for him 3-4 nights per week.

In my two long distant relationships, I did personal assistant-type tasks.

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RE: Female Subs.What tasks/assignments have you been gi... - 10/25/2013 11:27:06 AM

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You seem to be looking mainly for financial slaves, and that's not a common kink for women.

You should know by now that you can't pick out a one size fits all program for all subs, like any relationship, it's going to have to be unique.

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RE: Female Subs.What tasks/assignments have you been gi... - 10/25/2013 11:27:07 AM

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I agree with the above posters.

Pointless tasks are a waste of time and prove nothing.
And to be honest, online does nothing for me whatsoever - its nothing more than a useless game.

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RE: Female Subs.What tasks/assignments have you been gi... - 10/25/2013 11:30:25 AM

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Not fantasy or busy work.

We would be chatting and I remembered I had to run at errand, at midnight. He required that I sign back in when I returned so he knew I made it home safely.

Then after he moved up, he got used to the Wednesday night, shit I forgot to take the garbage down to the road routine. Which frequently still gets done in pajamas.

But that's about it. Real things that furthered the connection between us when we were between visits while still LDR.

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RE: Female Subs.What tasks/assignments have you been gi... - 10/25/2013 11:33:38 AM

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After seven years there are too many tasks to list, but in general:

-Eat well and exercise to stay healthy
-Cook, keep the house tidy
-Various errands at the post office, pharmacy etc
-Office work
-Be responsible for all birthday/christmas presents and social appointments
-Do my studies
-Various bedroom stuff, naturally

When we were apart what kept me engaged over the internet was the fact that I was madly in love with him and we were both working to be together.

Truly, just like you would with a male sub, you just need to communicate and find out each other's needs, and then make orders that make that happen.

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RE: Female Subs.What tasks/assignments have you been gi... - 10/25/2013 11:35:42 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

You seem to be looking mainly for financial slaves, and that's not a common kink for women.

You should know by now that you can't pick out a one size fits all program for all subs, like any relationship, it's going to have to be unique.

I am just exploring submissiveness with a fellow domme who has a submissive side to her.
I offer personalised domination to all my slaves and make a concerted effort to know each and everyone one of them.
You assuming otherwise is

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RE: Female Subs.What tasks/assignments have you been gi... - 10/25/2013 11:38:24 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PrincessNubienne

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

I don't enjoy make busy tasks or assignments. I have enough to do with my own life without dealing with someone that will waste my time with meaningless stuff. It also shows a lack of respect if someone treats my time as disposable.

When your dom is talking to you is there anything in particular you like?
So you've never been commanded to do anything?

Of course, I've been told to do things. But, he doesn't give meaningless tasks.

As far when he talking to me what do I like? I don't think you'd understand because it appears that your perception of what a D/s BDSM relationship is, is very one dimensional.

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RE: Female Subs.What tasks/assignments have you been gi... - 10/25/2013 11:52:28 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: PrincessNubienne

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

I don't enjoy make busy tasks or assignments. I have enough to do with my own life without dealing with someone that will waste my time with meaningless stuff. It also shows a lack of respect if someone treats my time as disposable.

When your dom is talking to you is there anything in particular you like?
So you've never been commanded to do anything?

Of course, I've been told to do things. But, he doesn't give meaningless tasks.

As far when he talking to me what do I like? I don't think you'd understand because it appears that your perception of what a D/s BDSM relationship is, is very one dimensional.

You know, initially, all I asked was a simple question.
One which you had no reason to answer seeing as you think you are above tasks/assignments.
How you have managed to come to the conclusion that I would not understand a D/S dynamic based on two posts shows that it is you who is one dimensional. Very rude and hostile too. There is absolutely no need to be insulting. I posted here for insight, after all that's what this sub forum is here to give. You're distasteful.

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RE: Female Subs.What tasks/assignments have you been gi... - 10/25/2013 11:57:37 AM

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No one is being hostile, but there's no WAY of knowing what will grab the attention of someone we've never met.

Best thing to do is to talk with your sub.

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RE: Female Subs.What tasks/assignments have you been gi... - 10/25/2013 12:01:50 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

No one is being hostile, but there's no WAY of knowing what will grab the attention of someone we've never met.

Best thing to do is to talk with your sub.

Me quoting a particular poster means I was referring to her exclusively and no one else. Aside from her you've all been helpful.
If I feel her tone and reply was rude, unwarranted and indeed hostile then that's exactly how I took it.

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RE: Female Subs.What tasks/assignments have you been gi... - 10/25/2013 12:04:28 PM

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This is a reminder that you may attack the post, but not the poster.

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RE: Female Subs.What tasks/assignments have you been gi... - 10/25/2013 12:07:59 PM

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If you care to look at the bottom-right of any post, unles it has FR or something at the beginning to indicate it is Fast Reply, your response is to the poster whose name appears there (where it says in reply to {name}).
There's no need to tweak with the quote thingy.
If anything, your 'tweaked' post is rather confusing!

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RE: Female Subs.What tasks/assignments have you been gi... - 10/25/2013 4:07:37 PM

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He doesn't give me 'tasks' and we both find sexting and online play rather tacky and not a patch on the real-life thing.

But when we're together he will order me to do stuff. It might be to get him a coffee, or put a disc in the dvd player, or rub his back, or sit down for a minute and chat, or snuggle up to watch the movie... the list is pretty long.

On the sex and play side of things, he doesn't really need to tell me to do things because we've been together for so long that we can read each other well and I tend to do what he wants me to do before he has to tell me to do it.

It may not be sexy and stimulating, but that's the reality of being in a long-term M/s relationship where one truly desires to serve the other and the other truly desires to lead. It's not a game - it's life.

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RE: Female Subs.What tasks/assignments have you been gi... - 10/25/2013 4:10:48 PM

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ORIGINAL: myotherself

He doesn't give me 'tasks' and we both find sexting and online play rather tacky and not a patch on the real-life thing.

But when we're together he will order me to do stuff. It might be to get him a coffee, or put a disc in the dvd player, or rub his back, or sit down for a minute and chat, or snuggle up to watch the movie... the list is pretty long.

On the sex and play side of things, he doesn't really need to tell me to do things because we've been together for so long that we can read each other well and I tend to do what he wants me to do before he has to tell me to do it.

It may not be sexy and stimulating, but that's the reality of being in a long-term M/s relationship where one truly desires to serve the other and the other truly desires to lead. It's not a game - it's life.

You have a very beautiful dynamic.
It's very sensual.
I'm considering real time very soon but I have personal safety concerns.
Hopefully in time I will find someone who I trust

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RE: Female Subs.What tasks/assignments have you been gi... - 10/25/2013 4:29:27 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself

He doesn't give me 'tasks' and we both find sexting and online play rather tacky and not a patch on the real-life thing.

But when we're together he will order me to do stuff. It might be to get him a coffee, or put a disc in the dvd player, or rub his back, or sit down for a minute and chat, or snuggle up to watch the movie... the list is pretty long.

Similar to us. I was thinking about this. He rarely couches something as an order. He couches it as a request and always says "please" and "thank you", but we both know he's not really asking a question. The direct orders are usually something that he's knows I don't want to do. Last night, it was taking a homeopathic cold remedy he brought home that I though tasted nasty.

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RE: Female Subs.What tasks/assignments have you been gi... - 10/25/2013 4:47:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: PrincessNubienne
I so far have only dealt with men.
Wanted to know what female subs enjoy as tasks/assignments from their dommes.
Any fantasies you want played out?
Online what keeps you engaged?

Some things I've done with women on the phone:

She has to pull down her panties, at least from the back, so she is sitting bare bottomed whenever she talks to me.

Once she's horny, she has to hold her fapping hand half an inch above her clit, but not touch. And hold it there even though she's begging to touch, then take it away.

"If you want to touch that badly, put your fingers on your left nipple right now. Good. Now twist, hard, and let go."

Write "cunt" on her body with a marker, then put on a cute dress with no panties, and send me a photo of her smiling in the cute dress. It's a photo that is 100% safe to send, but when I say, "I love how you're dressed in that picture," it has all kinds of meaning.

Anyway, you get the idea. Or you don't, in which case you might want to find another job.

But there are definitely female finsubs who sub to women, even though they aren't as common as men. So have fun, and be ethical.

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