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I like pegging - 10/26/2013 3:05:57 PM   
youcantpleaseme


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RE: I like pegging - 10/26/2013 3:57:22 PM   
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RE: I like pegging - 10/26/2013 3:58:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would imagine that many, many people are into it. It's not an unusual kink.

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RE: I like pegging - 10/26/2013 4:39:04 PM   
TigressLily


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Status: offline 		Perhaps others have a less rigid definition, but I've only heard this term when it comes to the male taking it, not anal sex altogether. Hence my confusion why you ask this when you are a straight Dom, unless this is how you bottom (no pun intended).

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ORIGINAL: smartsub10

I would imagine that many, many people are into it. It's not an unusual kink.


(I'm not sure how you meant this either, smartsub.) Pegging with the male receiving is a BDSM kink, male giving to female receiving is not. Am I missing something here?

{Edited for clarity}

< Message edited by TigressLily -- 10/26/2013 4:45:08 PM >

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RE: I like pegging - 10/26/2013 4:46:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: smartsub10

I would imagine that many, many people are into it. It's not an unusual kink.


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ORIGINAL: TigressLily
(I'm not sure how you meant this either, smartsub.) Pegging with the male receiving is a kink, male giving to female receiving is not. Am I missing something here?

I think what you might be missing is that she didn't say it wasn't a kink. She said it wasn't an UNUSUAL kink.

OP, if you check the search feature under pegging, strap on, etc, you'll see that there are a number of people into it.



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RE: I like pegging - 10/26/2013 5:04:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: smartsub10

I would imagine that many, many people are into it. It's not an unusual kink.


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ORIGINAL: TigressLily

(I'm not sure how you meant this either, smartsub.) Pegging with the male receiving is a kink, male giving to female receiving is not. Am I missing something here?

I think what you might be missing is that she didn't say it wasn't a kink. She said it wasn't an UNUSUAL kink.


Nor did I say that she wasn't saying it's a kink. In fact, I'm not even questioning her comment about whether it's "an unusual kink." My side comment pertains to whether she & the OP are referring to ALL anal sex or a gender/sex-specific act. I should add, however, that in terms of homosexual relations, M/M wouldn't involve the use of a strap-on whereas F/F would (hence the term 'pegging'), so thanks for letting me mention this in a broader context than pegging referring to F/M. This would include F/F as well, although given the nature of lesbian sex consisting of F on F, I don't believe they would consider this to be kink to them.

The issue is not whether pegging is a (BDSM) kink, btw.

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RE: I like pegging - 10/26/2013 5:14:27 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I generally take "pegging" to be anything that involves something other than a flesh and blood device on the givers end, and an anal receiver. I took the question at face value, rather than wondering if he was referring to all anal sex.


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RE: I like pegging - 10/26/2013 5:22:37 PM   
TigressLily


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Cool, LP. If OP were a male sub, I would have never thought differently. It's only because he's a straight Dom that my confusion arose.

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I generally take "pegging" to be anything that involves something other than a flesh and blood device on the givers end, and an anal receiver. I took the question at face value, rather than wondering if he was referring to all anal sex.



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RE: I like pegging - 10/26/2013 5:27:03 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I generally take "pegging" to be anything that involves something other than a flesh and blood device on the givers end, and an anal receiver. I took the question at face value, rather than wondering if he was referring to all anal sex.



That's exactly what I meant.
Thanks, LadyPact for clarifying.

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RE: I like pegging - 10/26/2013 6:13:45 PM   
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RE: I like pegging - 10/26/2013 6:26:27 PM   
LadyPact


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I wish I had a better memory at the moment for search criteria. A number of years ago when the.dark was first getting together with Darcy, she had created what turned out to be a wonderful thread on the Ask A Master forum about thoughts on pegging as a service that her Dominant wanted. Turned out to be a great discussion, if I recall correctly. Probably one of the better ones about Dominants bottoming for this particular activity. Unfortunately, I don't remember her prior screen name to track it down.


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RE: I like pegging - 10/27/2013 1:53:47 AM   
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Perhaps he just likes the sensation. I have no desire to ass-fuck anyone, so if my husband wanted it, it would be an act of submission for me to peg him.
Enjoying stimulation in the anal area isn't an exclusively submissive trait, any more than it's exclusively gay.

I think it's the intention behind the act that makes it dominant or submissive, rather than the act itself.

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RE: I like pegging - 10/27/2013 2:16:14 AM   
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I don't think he meant himself (on the receiving end--no pun). I think he's trawling/spamming for willing females to come forward and meant it the way I suspected he did, which to me is a vanilla kinky activity, much like oral sex used to be regarded. You young'uns probably don't know what I'm referring to, but I swear I'm not making sh*t up.

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Anyone else into it?


Believe it or not, I know someone married to a woman originally from Communist China, and there people are taught anything other than the missionary position is considered a form of mental illness. Not making that one up either.

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RE: I like pegging - 10/27/2013 5:58:28 AM   
youcantpleaseme


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Status: offline 		AthenaSurrenders is essentially correct. I like the stimulation and the imagery. While I am Dom, not every relationship falls into those neat categories, nor would I want them to. I have dynamic tastes and desires and I am open to experiencing things that aren't predefined to particular roles. Additionally I'm not gay nor bi, the idea of being with a man doesn't excite me, but I do think a woman with a strap-on is a hot image and I love the sensation.

So in the end (pardon the pun) I suppose I am trolling for women who enjoy it as I would love to find someone for an occasional get together, but I wouldn't see that as finding someone I could "tell when and how to do me."

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RE: I like pegging - 10/27/2013 6:14:36 AM   
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RE: I like pegging - 10/27/2013 7:55:09 AM   
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RE: I like pegging - 10/27/2013 2:00:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		I love pegging. I use wooden ones personally. although the wind is getting very strong here at the moment and i'm not sure my pegs will withstand the force. I could end up with washing all over the garden!

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RE: I like pegging - 10/27/2013 2:19:04 PM   
TigressLily


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ORIGINAL: youcantpleaseme

AthenaSurrenders is essentially correct. I like the stimulation and the imagery. While I am Dom, not every relationship falls into those neat categories, nor would I want them to. I have dynamic tastes and desires and I am open to experiencing things that aren't predefined to particular roles. Additionally I'm not gay nor bi, the idea of being with a man doesn't excite me, but I do think a woman with a strap-on is a hot image and I love the sensation.

So in the end (pardon the pun) I suppose I am trolling for women who enjoy it as I would love to find someone for an occasional get together, but I wouldn't see that as finding someone I could "tell when and how to do me."


My bad. Not very often do I run across a Dom who will admit publicly to wanting this. According to your profile, no one would have guessed (nor did you include seeking Dominant Women, just sub & switch). Anyhow, pardon my jumping to the wrong conclusions.

So your original question is to ask other Doms how they feel about this and to admit to it as well? You might have a tiny bit of luck with that. Thanks for your openness, and (although hlen beat me to it) . . .



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RE: I like pegging - 10/27/2013 3:53:56 PM   
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I love pegging. I use wooden ones personally. although the wind is getting very strong here at the moment and i'm not sure my pegs will withstand the force. I could end up with washing all over the garden!

needles


That made me spit out my cereal.......

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RE: I like pegging - 10/27/2013 4:06:53 PM   
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