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kalikshama -> RE: Dangerous Doms? (10/29/2013 5:59:23 AM)

Please don't insult our intelligence by pretending that when you asked this:

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I am writing a "Guide to BDSM", which began as an overview of BDSM I wrote for curious vanilla folk, which has now turned into a much larger book. I am including a chapter for novice subs, with a lot of information on safety, how to handle the first meeting, and the danger signs to look out for. Can anyone think of anything that I should include? What should set the alarm bells off?


You really meant you wanted help with this:

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I am helping to write a document which is intended for Westerners living or planning to live in Muslim countries. There are often a clash of cultures and westerners will often get into legal difficulties. It is not intended to show disrespect to Islam or Middle Eastern countries. Neither is it going to be sold as a commercial publication, and is purely non profit. Sex outside of marriage is illegal in most Muslim countries, and by claiming rape, or abuse, a woman is declaring officially that she has broken the law, and the Police have no choice but to charge her. Women are being deliberately targeted by people who may call themselves “Doms”, and they are being abused in the knowledge that the “Dom” is very unlikely to be prosecuted. In one case we represented we we able to whisk the woman straight to the airport as soon as she was released from hospital, and in another we negotiated for the charges to be dropped on condition of deportation.


On the unlikely chance that you truly did think your actual OP would help answer your "real" question, I suggest you rethink your interest in the communications field.




evesgrden -> RE: Dangerous Doms? (10/29/2013 2:04:46 PM)

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Sorry, not you. It was a fast reply late at night. UGH. I meant the op who seems to be a typical white knighter to the rescue. Only this time he won't be rescuing them. He will be helping to persecute them.


Yes I realized that after seeing Athena's post :)




thishereboi -> RE: Dangerous Doms? (10/30/2013 4:47:23 AM)


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ORIGINAL: AussieinDubai

To clear things up: I am helping to write a document which is intended for Westerners living or planning to live in Muslim countries.



You are? What happened to the book you mentioned in the OP

quote:

ORIGINAL: AussieinDubai

I am writing a "Guide to BDSM", which began as an overview of BDSM I wrote for curious vanilla folk, which has now turned into a much larger book. I am including a chapter for novice subs, with a lot of information on safety, how to handle the first meeting, and the danger signs to look out for. Can anyone think of anything that I should include? What should set the alarm bells off?


Has that been put on the back burner?





VideoAdminChi -> RE: Dangerous Doms? (10/31/2013 4:49:03 AM)

FR,

As a reminder, while it is ok to have more than one profile, they may not both post in the same thread.




myotherself -> RE: Dangerous Doms? (10/31/2013 5:50:47 AM)

Thanks Chi - you now owe me a new keyboard! [:D]




Moonlightmaddnes -> RE: Dangerous Doms? (10/31/2013 8:51:36 PM)

How do vanilla people make sure who they are meeting is not dangerous? I do not see how this is any different then that.




DesFIP -> RE: Dangerous Doms? (11/1/2013 3:13:57 AM)

It's different because in Missouri you aren't going to have the police find out you have a profile here, track you down, and have you stripped naked and flogged in public and then put in jail.

In the Arab nations the op is aiming this for, that is a problem.

And that's why we're holding him to such a rigorous standard. Because when he fucks up, he isn't the one who is in trouble for writing a bad guide to doing this, the woman who follows his guide is.




freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Dangerous Doms? (11/1/2013 3:25:25 AM)

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
This website is primarily North America, it may be better to seek a website that centers around an area closer to UAE.

I would guess he came here because anything even remotely like this site wouldn't be allowed in the UAE or most of the arab/muslim countries.

He would indeed, be helping to persecute his target audience rather than be a help to them.
When you can be legitimately murdered by the police just for being gay/lez and be stoned to death just for having sex without a partner's permission; it's not to be taken lightly.




OsideGirl -> RE: Dangerous Doms? (11/1/2013 8:32:22 AM)

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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
This website is primarily North America, it may be better to seek a website that centers around an area closer to UAE.

I would guess he came here because anything even remotely like this site wouldn't be allowed in the UAE or most of the arab/muslim countries.

He would indeed, be helping to persecute his target audience rather than be a help to them.
When you can be legitimately murdered by the police just for being gay/lez and be stoned to death just for having sex without a partner's permission; it's not to be taken lightly.



I understand that. I was thinking that possibly a Europe based website may have a larger community of people with first hand experience.

Moot point since the OP has deleted BOTH of his profiles.




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