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angelikaJ -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 6:21:35 PM)

I know you have a traumatic brain injury and it has damaged your emotional center.

Don't use that as an excuse for not caring what happens to you. You could learn to rationally care.

You feel as though you are pathetic.
Go volunteer your time serving people who are worse off than you are, or in an animal shelter.
You can choose to make yourself useful; you can choose to be useful.



BrooklinePrisone -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 7:12:42 PM)

Nope. I care less if there is anything beyond being tied up. It is what others want to do. Leave me alone helpless orthey have theeir pleasures. That is all that matters on my part.



peppermint -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 7:29:31 PM)

On 2/11/11 you had just the encounter you desire. Why don't you do the same things that worked for you that time?



littlewonder -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 7:30:04 PM)

Dude, get some therapy.



angelikaJ -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 7:32:05 PM)

So why are you insisting on proceeding in an unsafe way?


If you take out the crazy part: no limits; they can do whatever they want, what you have is something that could be doable.

If being bound is the Thing for you, then why are you putting so much emphasis on the "no limits" stuff?



anniezz338 -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/27/2013 7:44:26 PM)

What do you mean "no limits"? You have to have some limits just to survive. Would you slash your wrists if someone wanted you to? Would you jump into the tub with a plugged in toaster? Get real.

You may call yourself a sub or slave but someone someday is going to call you a mark. Be careful what you ask for.



myotherself -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/28/2013 12:48:19 AM)

~FR~

I suggest you print off this thread. Highlight the bits that you wrote.

Go into your local police station and hand it to them. When they've read it and decided that mental health services need to be called, refuse vociferously, tell the meanest-looking officer in the room that their mother is a dockside whore and punch him/her in the face before running away.

I pretty much guarantee you'll be locked up pronto, perhaps they'll even give you one of those nice, cosy coats with the sleeves that tie round the back. You may even get a good kicking if your luck is in! [8|]





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Kitsuneboi -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/28/2013 1:47:53 AM)

Oh jeez... OP, your so not doing anything for how a master will see you; I hate this saying, but nobody wants a horse with broken legs to run a race. Build up your image if you want success. Whether if you have emotions or not you should understand that, ummm.....okay!, when your out shopping, which deal will you go for the cheap plastic fan that has no settings or the big nice fan at the same cost. You keep saying that you have no limits no limits, but each time you speak you provide more and more limits. You seem more like a troll than anything. Not that I'm trying to knock you or anything, but you do enough of that your self, if you're not suicidally depressed, then you just lack reason for living. Do you have one nice thing about you, you can share with the class today? Seriously, offer them something special, show the masters that you crave so badly why they should pick you outta the many people in the world. You can do it, ya'know.

Sorry if this is rude, but man read what you said allowed, and see how you yourself react. In any case, I am sorry for my rude behavior. ^w^



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SoulAlloy -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/28/2013 10:02:07 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

So why are you insisting on proceeding in an unsafe way?


If you take out the crazy part: no limits; they can do whatever they want, what you have is something that could be doable.

If being bound is the Thing for you, then why are you putting so much emphasis on the "no limits" stuff?



Precisely this



UllrsIshtar -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/28/2013 4:04:34 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: BrooklinePrisone

Nope. I care less if there is anything beyond being tied up. It is what others want to do. Leave me alone helpless orthey have theeir pleasures. That is all that matters on my part.


That's exactly the problem though.

I happen to disagree with the majority of the posters here, in that I don't see your issue being that you dehumanize yourself. Your issue is that you dehumanize other people.

Everything you said comes down to one thing and one thing alone: you want somebody to completely cater to you.

You want to be tied up, and have stuff done to you. In wanting this you relegate the person doing the stuff to you to the status of an object which purpose is solely to sustain the act of doing stuff to you.

You relegate the other person in this equation of yours to being a puppet to serve your whim in acting upon you, expecting them to work out the logistics of nutrition, waste management, financial stability, and so on, without giving a flying fuck about them as a human being with dreams, goals, desires, needs, and personality.

It seems like the only way you're capable to related to other people is not by viewing them as human -let alone as partners- but instead viewing them as biomechenical fetish delivery devices whose only purpose in life is to serve your sexual fantasies.

In essence, you're a solipsist. Which also precludes the possibility of you ever finding what you're looking for, because anybody who would care enough about what you want to be willing to cater to it isn't going to be content being in a relationship with somebody who doesn't give a flying fuck about what they want; while somebody who doesn't give a flying fuck about what you want and only selfishly wants to take from you to satisfy their own desire to take isn't going to be interested in taking from you what you're freely willing to offer: namely tying you up.

Learn to relate to other people as human beings, even before you worry about fixing your selfesteem issues, and you may actually stand a chance at finding parties willing to live out these fantasies with you.



anniezz338 -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/28/2013 4:15:21 PM)

I found the gimp.



DesFIP -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/28/2013 6:17:03 PM)

I have to assume the op really doesn't want what he says he does. Because if he did really want that, he would make the changes needed to have this happen.

The fact that he has stated on multiple occasions that he will not do anything advised to get what he wants, makes me come to the inescapable conclusion that he is deliberately self selecting to prevent these things from coming true.



MistressDarkArt -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/28/2013 8:46:28 PM)

So true ^^^

And soon he will be typing to an empty thread because we'll be bored with repeating ourselves.

OP, there is nothing more any of us can do for you here except wish you the best. So, very best to you, over and out.



BrooklinePrisone -> RE: How can I get tied helpless? (10/28/2013 11:13:23 PM)

Thank you Mistress. I appreciate you and others help and suggestions. This is what I asked for and I got what I deserve. Thank you everyone.



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