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glasdomforslave -> Fakes stringing you along (11/2/2013 11:40:26 AM)
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Hi all,
My apologies if this has been covered elsewhere. I am interested in others' opinion of fakes stringing along genuine people on CM.
I have just been stung by the third submissive female in a row. All three followed a similar path:
1. Two contacted me; I contacted one of the three to initiate things.
2. We messaged back and forth, and found much in common - my profile is clear and unambiguous.
3. All three indicated they were keen for a real life thing, not online chat etc.
4. All three indicated they'd love to chat on the phone as a first step, and I provided a mobile number for this.
5. All responses stopped at this point.
I should also say, all of them are still logging on, and in some cases spending some time online. None responded to any further messages after I provided my number.
Finally, you will have to take my word for it when I say I am courteous at all times, not pushy, and go to some lengths to be realistic and reassuring since I am interested in single women who may not feel 100% comfortable since they are looking for men. I am confident none of the break off can be attributed to bad manners, pushy behaviour etc.
I know most serious people on this site get stung eventually. But can anyone shed light on the psychology here? What do they get from it?
I can understand some people just want fantasy, and some profiles make this clear. That is fine. But my interest is in the deceivers; those who clearly know they will never meet you, then take a conversation as far as contact i.e. eliciting a phone number. Why are they doing this when CM is chock full of fantasists who would probably love to chat day and night about all sorts of stuff. Why target the people who wish to meet?
I find this behaviour common enough for it to pretty much kill off any enthusiasm I have for meeting anyone online, despite it promise. It is demoralising to say the least when you are genuine.
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