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MistrexxSapphire -> New Mistress Looking for some tips and tricks (11/3/2013 12:13:00 PM)

I just started this lifestyle about 6 months ago.[sm=cheering.gif][:D] I have a few sub including two women. They love humiliation, but how do I deal with females? Also is there any reference websites? One more question, how do I attract more subs and deal with online subs?




KYsissy -> RE: New Mistress Looking for some tips and tricks (11/3/2013 12:28:20 PM)

Hiw many subs do you want?




MistrexxSapphire -> RE: New Mistress Looking for some tips and tricks (11/3/2013 1:33:24 PM)

At least 6




KYsissy -> RE: New Mistress Looking for some tips and tricks (11/3/2013 1:37:48 PM)

Wouldn't it make more sense to figure out what you are doing with one or two? Then add more later? I guess if all involved are just fine with you finding your way with them, then it could work out well. It seems like a lot to take on as a newbie.




freedomdwarf1 -> RE: New Mistress Looking for some tips and tricks (11/3/2013 1:38:23 PM)

You can't deal with what you already have - so why do you want even more??

Seems you didn't do your homework bvefore you embarked upon this journey.
Read, read, and read some more. Do a lot of research.

And forget about acquiring more subs until you know what you're doing.




TNDommeK -> RE: New Mistress Looking for some tips and tricks (11/3/2013 4:27:08 PM)

Just think about...what do you find humiliating?
What do they find humiliating?

Research, trial and error.




LadyPact -> RE: New Mistress Looking for some tips and tricks (11/3/2013 6:27:18 PM)

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm




OsideGirl -> RE: New Mistress Looking for some tips and tricks (11/3/2013 6:36:05 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: KYsissy

Wouldn't it make more sense to figure out what you are doing with one or two? Then add more later?



^^^ This.

Not to mention that if you can't figure out what makes *YOUR* submissive click...then you're clearly not qualified to be their Mistress.




thishereboi -> RE: New Mistress Looking for some tips and tricks (11/4/2013 4:46:40 AM)

One of the old posters, LuckyAlbatross, has this in her signature line. "Find stable partners, not a stable of partners." and I think it might fit here.

It really sounds like you need to slow down a bit. You already have 2 women and now you don't know what to do with them. Isn't that something you should have thought of before you started.




freedomdwarf1 -> RE: New Mistress Looking for some tips and tricks (11/4/2013 5:18:52 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
quote:

ORIGINAL: KYsissy

Wouldn't it make more sense to figure out what you are doing with one or two? Then add more later?



^^^ This.

Not to mention that if you can't figure out what makes *YOUR* submissive click...then you're clearly not qualified to be their Mistress.

[sm=goodpost.gif] Absolutely bang-on the money!!! Well said.




MistressDarkArt -> RE: New Mistress Looking for some tips and tricks (11/4/2013 1:18:19 PM)

Welcome, Mistrexx.

If your 'subs' are paid clients, they are not getting their money's worth if you need to come to the forums to learn how to ply your trade. Though you don't state you're a pro-domme, your profile reads exactly like an advertisement while leaving off crucial information about payment. Be prepared to have some pissed off people if that's the case.

Pro or not, my suggestion would be to become active in your local community where you can get some actual lifestyle experience. There's a lot you can read about, but you need to be mentored and shouldn't go hands-on until you are proficient with real time in-person experience on live human bodies.

Best of luck to you.




kalikshama -> RE: New Mistress Looking for some tips and tricks (11/4/2013 6:23:34 PM)

quote:

I have a few sub including two women. They love humiliation, but how do I deal with females?


Are you suuuuuuuuuuuuuure they are women?

If so, see Female Subs. What tasks/assignments have you been given? Both in RT and Online




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