HoneyBears
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No high protocol responses to your question. I've always wondered how long those relationships lasted.
My relationship was definitely high protocol, as in: the structure and power dynamics was super ridged and overarched everything else. Despite the fact that most of my day was filled doing vanilla things, we didn't relate to each other in a vanilla way in the slightest. Just "speaking freely" to my Owner on a whim would have been unthinkable.
However, that didn't translate into 24/7 kinky play time, in fact, kinky play time didn't happen at all, ever. Hell, even sex was a rarity, occurring maybe once a month.
As far as how long the relationship lasted: 2 years, in a large part because of the complete lack of any kinky play time and sex.
My last mistress was medium protocol. I could not do rigid high protocol or not speak freely, unless we were doing a scene. Otherwise, I can be a mouthy bugger (with the utmost respect), but my mistress knows how to shut me up instantly with a glance and put me in my place. She hears what I have to say, then does what she wants, with both our interests in mind of course. No way on the lack of sexual intimacy.
Even when we were not living together, we still had a 24/7 D/s dynamic by keeping in contact throughout the day. If she is in the mood, we shower while I get ready for work. She likes to distract me, so I have to give myself plenty of time in the morning. I fix our breakfast, sometimes it is getting her yogurt, coffee and juice. On my lunchbreak, I check to see whether I need to pick up anything at the store en route home. We engage in sextalk, but I'm not allowed to come unless I am with her. She does let me stroke myself, but that is more to tease me. Other times I am not allowed to touch myself.
We do whatever she plans for us to do when I get home. I am adept at picking up her cues and signals and anticipating her needs without her having to order me around all the time. We split up the cooking because she is a better cook than I am. I clean up well and handle the typical yardwork, and I am handy at fixing and constructing things. She usually gets the groceries because she is a better shopper, but I assist. I enjoy attending to her and catering to her wishes as her loveslave, and she does thoughtful things for me. I do not think I would be happy being treated like a slave, even being a sexslave would get old or would not be sufficient for me.
-- Cub
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Down Time: A couple hours daily some days, more on the weekends. My mistress has her own hobbies, likes to read, and spend time alone when she does not want to be bothered. I stay on call for her. It works out great for both of us, as a result. I probably want to spend more time with her, and it makes her desire me more. It seems to work out that way.
< Message edited by HoneyBears -- 11/7/2013 2:57:02 PM >
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