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Introducing vanilla wife to femdom - 11/9/2013 9:35:28 AM

LarneMaster

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I know this will have been asked before, but here goes.

Can anyone help me come up with a way of telling my wife about my submissive tendencies? I would love her to take control of me, but never know what to say when I get the chance to bring it up?

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RE: Introducing vanilla wife to femdom - 11/9/2013 9:50:17 AM

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ORIGINAL: LarneMaster

I know this will have been asked before, but here goes.

Can anyone help me come up with a way of telling my wife about my submissive tendencies? I would love her to take control of me, but never know what to say when I get the chance to bring it up?

There's a link in my sig line to a free guide on my site that I've received positive feedback for - "the good girls guide to domination."
Also, you will need to stop searching for online domination behind her back if you are, indeed, sneaking around. You will want to be honest and up front with her and put all your eggs in one basket - hers. If she were to find out you were seeking pleasure elsewhere, her confidence would be crushed.

You have to be prepared to be painfully patient. That's where the real submission starts.

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RE: Introducing vanilla wife to femdom - 11/9/2013 10:28:42 AM

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ORIGINAL: LarneMaster

I know this will have been asked before, but here goes.

Yeah, you already did it here: http://www.collarchat.com/m_4575925/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#4575925

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RE: Introducing vanilla wife to femdom - 11/9/2013 10:46:24 AM

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A few things. Change your profile. If you're sub, you're sub. Second. Your profile is disingenuous as it does not mention your wife at all. Third. Get,on fetlife and join the altni group. There are munches but you have to be verified. There are no clubs that I am aware of in Northern Ireland but there are some in dublin.

Also. You have a face pic up and your location in your user name. Yet you have not been honest with your wife. Are you quite wise?

And lastly. Have you considered that your wife may quite simply not be into kink? It may not be her thing. In which case, you're on an hiding to nothing.

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RE: Introducing vanilla wife to femdom - 11/9/2013 10:54:39 AM

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To the op. You are messaging me on the other side.

You messaged me before. I told you I'm not interested.

Must've been a helluva whirlwind romance, because my profile is clear that I'm a lifestyle Domme and looking to play in the context of a long term relationship, and in the messages you sent me, you never mentioned a wife.

It seems to me you're seeking wank fodder, and I for one am not going to oblige you.

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RE: Introducing vanilla wife to femdom - 11/9/2013 11:22:01 AM

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This is a current topic on the General board. http://www.collarchat.com/m_4575157/tm.htm

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RE: Introducing vanilla wife to femdom - 11/10/2013 5:57:57 AM

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