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getting the right sub-needs advice - 11/9/2013 10:08:27 PM   
LordSion


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RE: getting the right sub-needs advice - 11/9/2013 10:14:54 PM   
littlewonder


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RE: getting the right sub-needs advice - 11/9/2013 10:16:51 PM   
LordSion


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Status: offline 		I have used this site a few times with little success so now i am just looking for advice

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RE: getting the right sub-needs advice - 11/9/2013 10:18:13 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		Was there something wrong with the submissive lady you are playing with in your picture? How did you find her? Perhaps whatever you did can work again.

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RE: getting the right sub-needs advice - 11/9/2013 10:34:12 PM   
LordSion


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RE: getting the right sub-needs advice - 11/9/2013 11:33:18 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		Many (and probably most) Dom/submissive relationships start out as friends. You were able to find that once. Keep trying.

It's always sad to lose a friend. So sorry.

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We are stardust, we are golden, and we got to get ourselves back to the garden.

Yes, I am crazy about feathered creatures. I have a dozen chickens, 3 ducks, 5 geese, and 2 parakeets.

Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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RE: getting the right sub-needs advice - 11/10/2013 1:31:49 AM   
myotherself


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ORIGINAL: LordSion

I have used this site a few times with little success so now i am just looking for advice


I would suggest using a real picture of yourself instead of a random picture taken from the cover of a bdsm book, and not lying about the so-called 'friend' in the picture dying.

A good bdsm relationship is based on trust and honesty. I suggest you start working on that first.

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RE: getting the right sub-needs advice - 11/10/2013 1:57:14 AM   
lilcracker


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quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself


quote:

ORIGINAL: LordSion

I have used this site a few times with little success so now i am just looking for advice


I would suggest using a real picture of yourself instead of a random picture taken from the cover of a bdsm book, and not lying about the so-called 'friend' in the picture dying.

A good bdsm relationship is based on trust and honesty. I suggest you start working on that first.

Seconded...I've heard that line before...my submissive passed away more times than I can count...true some of them could have especially if they were in a long term established relationship....but seriously if a Dom I was friends with and played with passed away...I doubt I would be posting a picture of him on the net.

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RE: getting the right sub-needs advice - 11/10/2013 2:03:03 AM   
myotherself


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I hope the OP realises that any prospective sub can go onto his profile and link directly to his messageboard posts. This level of dishonesty will pretty much put the tin lid on any chances of him finding a sub on cm.

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RE: getting the right sub-needs advice - 11/10/2013 4:04:19 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		To be blunt, you don't deserve a sub at present.

1. You call yourself Lord, and your profile calls yourself a Master. Cut that bullshit out. You're just a newbie who thinks he's a Dom.
2. Never lie. Never.
3. Begin by developing character.
4. Concern yourself with others. What does that person need, and how could they get it? Could you help? This will put you in the proper frame of mind for taking care of a submissive should you get one later.
5. When you get past the previous steps, you'll be ready to look.


Get through the above steps, and then try again.

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RE: getting the right sub-needs advice - 11/10/2013 5:23:22 AM   
DarkSteven


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RE: getting the right sub-needs advice - 11/10/2013 7:10:10 AM   
peppermint


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quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself


quote:

ORIGINAL: LordSion

I have used this site a few times with little success so now i am just looking for advice


I would suggest using a real picture of yourself instead of a random picture taken from the cover of a bdsm book, and not lying about the so-called 'friend' in the picture dying.

A good bdsm relationship is based on trust and honesty. I suggest you start working on that first.


Guess I'm going to have to figure out how to use that Google Image. I "thought" the picture wasn't him, but when he said she'd died I thought I'd made a mistake. Guess I ended up being the sucker in this case. Lies are so silly and stupid when they can be easily found out.

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We are stardust, we are golden, and we got to get ourselves back to the garden.

Yes, I am crazy about feathered creatures. I have a dozen chickens, 3 ducks, 5 geese, and 2 parakeets.

Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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RE: getting the right sub-needs advice - 11/10/2013 7:49:28 AM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		I certainly wouldn't describe you as a sucker, Peppermint. I'd describe you as a thoughtful, caring person.

I'd use very different terms to describe someone who uses the 'death' of someone to garner sympathy and support

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RE: getting the right sub-needs advice - 11/10/2013 8:44:30 AM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		Profile not found.....so I'm guessing his foray into the forums didn't go the way he thought it would.

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RE: getting the right sub-needs advice - 11/10/2013 9:16:30 AM   
JeffBC


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quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself
I'd use very different terms to describe someone who uses the 'death' of someone to garner sympathy and support

But what about blowjobs because hey, Carol just passed last night and I could use a nice long blow job.

(I just wanted to get that in before Ron stopped by this thread and did it)

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RE: getting the right sub-needs advice - 11/10/2013 9:22:31 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC

quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself
I'd use very different terms to describe someone who uses the 'death' of someone to garner sympathy and support

But what about blowjobs because hey, Carol just passed last night and I could use a nice long blow job.

(I just wanted to get that in before Ron stopped by this thread and did it)


Before I offered you a sympathy blowjob, I would need to know whether the blowjobs are what killed her.

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RE: getting the right sub-needs advice - 11/10/2013 9:27:57 AM   
myotherself


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quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC

quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself
I'd use very different terms to describe someone who uses the 'death' of someone to garner sympathy and support

But what about blowjobs because hey, Carol just passed last night and I could use a nice long blow job.

(I just wanted to get that in before Ron stopped by this thread and did it)



Heyyyy...I'm sure Ron would give you a sympathy blow job, as long as he got one in return!

That is what you meant...right?

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RE: getting the right sub-needs advice - 11/10/2013 9:52:13 AM   
OsideGirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders


quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC

quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself
I'd use very different terms to describe someone who uses the 'death' of someone to garner sympathy and support

But what about blowjobs because hey, Carol just passed last night and I could use a nice long blow job.

(I just wanted to get that in before Ron stopped by this thread and did it)


Before I offered you a sympathy blowjob, I would need to know whether the blowjobs are what killed her.


It's always good to err on the side of caution, Athena.


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RE: getting the right sub-needs advice - 11/10/2013 10:18:01 AM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC

quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself
I'd use very different terms to describe someone who uses the 'death' of someone to garner sympathy and support

But what about blowjobs because hey, Carol just passed last night and I could use a nice long blow job.

(I just wanted to get that in before Ron stopped by this thread and did it)


I deserve a blow job as well, because Jeff's wife just died.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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RE: getting the right sub-needs advice - 11/10/2013 11:34:10 AM   
myotherself


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