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racial play - 11/18/2004 11:40:06 AM   
blckmlslv


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Status: offline 		I am a black male slave who long has had fantasies about racial humiliation from a White domme. I am a strong black male in my everyday life; however, this is a very strong sexual fantasy for me. Are there any White dommes who have participated in such play? This could be pro or non-pro
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RE: racial play - 11/18/2004 5:32:11 PM   
MissP


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Status: offline 		I think I could do this - although it would be difficult, as it goes against the grain of my strongly anti-racist views. I thinks it's a case of setting out guidelines and limits beforehand - just as in the case of many roleplay scenes.

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RE: racial play - 11/18/2004 6:50:17 PM   
LadyBadger


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From: Lake Forest, CA
Status: offline 		racial play is one of the edgiest & most often misunderstood forms of BDSM roleplaying out there... esp. for black males wanting a white Mistress... or for a black fem to submit to a white Dom...

as MissP said, be sure to negotiate clearly the boundaries of the relationship and/or scene... be aware of any potential fallout too, for either of you and make plans should unanticipated results/emotions come up...

if there's a discussion list or group local to you, why not bring up the topic for discussion... it was done once here in LA and I have to say, some members were very uncomfortable... the demonstration made different people look at themselves and their assumptions & feelings... some very good discussion & dialogue came afterwards...

so have fun exploring this fantasy of yours! good luck/best wishes in finding the Domme who will help realize them with you...


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RE: racial play - 11/18/2004 8:23:55 PM   
DiamondDiva


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Status: offline 		I would really like to know the outcome of your request so if you would please come back and share.

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RE: racial play - 11/19/2004 5:09:43 AM   
MistressDREAD


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Status: offline 		blk
if you go to My profile you will see My practice
in what you seek, and know that all tho I am
light in color and many mistake Me as being
white I am only half white and half black and
have practiced race play most of My life and
have on many occation use this fact in My
everyday life to teach tolerance to those whom
would judge Me based off of My looks.

Humiliation play is a wonderful enjoyment for Me
on many levals and playing the race card in humiliation
is just one form, I have a particular enjoyment in
due to My unusual upbringing and life living.
Good luck in your search and having your desires fullfilled.

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RE: racial play - 11/19/2004 11:05:30 AM   
GoddessDustyGold


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From: Arizona
Status: offline 		In a Pro session with clearly spelled out limits, I can do this. I had a black male with this fantasy who wanted to live-in. Needless to say it didn't work out as his needs on a constant basis were not something I could even begin to fullfil. It is very edgy play for Me also, and in a Pro scene I have no problem as it is role play. And yes, as LadyBadger states, be careful of the potential emotional fallout on both sides. To live, it...I can't do it, and won't even try.
Best of luck. Let U/us know!

< Message edited by GoddessDustyGold -- 11/19/2004 11:11:55 AM >

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RE: racial play - 11/19/2004 2:29:53 PM   
LadySonelle


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From: Santa Fe NM
Status: offline 		I've done racial play.

I have the good (*bad)) fortune to have been raised in the 50's by parents whose forebears were slaveholders from Tennessee. I learned the language back when it was (ignorantly, but) commonly used.

The Sixties and the Civil Rights Movement rocked My family's world! I am VERY glad it did! But I have *always* specialised in severe edge play and such topics as Nazi fetish, racial play, intergenerational fantasy have been in My repertoire.

Why? Because so long as a thing is a fantasy, it can be safely explored. Sometimes the fantasy is the outlet needed to defuse anxieties and tensions surrounding the thing. On the telephone I do age play, snuff, dismemberment fantasies, Nazi, race play and other things. I make DAMNED sure the person is NOT doing it in real life (I have ways of checking these things, never fear!) and then full speed ahead!

Anyone interested in doing the really *really* forbidden stuff... email Me and I'll give you My website URL which has contact information. If it's a fantasy, I'm pretty near unshockable after 23 years. If you do it in real life, buzz OFF! I'm not an enabler.

Lady Sonelle


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RE: racial play - 11/19/2004 6:55:25 PM   
BeachMystress


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From: Naples Island- Long Beach CA - Southern California
Status: offline 		I've found that I can not do derogatory racial scenes. I can do color aware scenes, such as does my black stallion want to service his white Queen. I tried derogatory once for a lover who had this as a fantasy. We had to stop midscene because it distressed me so deeply. My family is aggressively "color blind." When I was a child (early '70s) we lived in Tn. My father objected publicly to the word "nigger" and someone shot out our home's windows. We moved north. To this day, racism makes me angry and causes physical reactions in me.

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RE: racial play - 11/21/2004 9:14:22 AM   
MistressFire70


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From: North Carolina
Status: offline 		you're not the only one who seeks this play, I'm sure. A good friend of mine, Lady D, runs a group for people of color in the lifestyle. Perhaps the group would be helpful to you.

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/PEPFORPOC/

A quick edit here: I didn't intend for the above link to be in reference to racial play, specifically. It was meant as a reference for a group that discusses all kinds of issues for people of color (mostly black) in the scene. One issue might be racial play. Sorry for the confusion.

Fire

< Message edited by MistressFire70 -- 11/29/2004 7:41:15 PM >

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RE: racial play - 11/27/2004 4:56:56 PM   
indianslaveboi


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Status: offline 		I as an asian indian man, also have had this innate desire to be dominated as a racial inferior by a white mistress - who would really enjoy exploring this form of domination and servitude! The trouble is that it seems to be much more of a taboo then most other forms of S&M. Most white people are not comfortable with exploring this as they think it to be politically incorrect. Though, I am sure a few would very much enjoy exploring this concept and would love to experience their "superiority" as a white over a non-white person. To me this is a tremendous turn on ...perhaps a remenant from the British Raj!! LOL!...Even the yahoo search yeilds no results on this as this seems to be a big no..no - even in the BDSM community...go figure! very frustrating for a genuine seeker such as myself....help!!!

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RE: racial play - 11/29/2004 8:12:21 PM   
MistressFire70


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From: North Carolina
Status: offline 		Since I seem now to be "the" contact for racial play (how did I end up as this??? LOL), I have done a little research. These are articles I found:

http://www.arc.org/C_Lines/CLArchive/story7_4_01.html

http://www.leatherweb.com/raceplayh.htm

I also found a book entitled A Study of Black Men in Leather by Cain Berlinger. It might go into the whoel racial play issue, but I don't know how it's presented.

In the first article, a woman who has presented on the subject was mentioned. I will be at an event that she is attending this weekend. I will try to approach her about it.

Fire

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RE: racial play - 11/30/2004 11:30:15 PM   
MistressDREAD


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Status: offline 		indianslaveboi
contact ME on the
other side of Collarme.

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