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AAkasha -> RE: Join a website before becoming a slave? (11/13/2013 2:06:58 PM)
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assslut1,
You might want to consider your name (I assume "asssslut" was taken, so you had to take "asssslut1"?), your profile pictures, and the nature of your profile, and what kind of woman this attracts.
What is your target audience? A woman seeking a relationship, a partner in sensual bdsm, is looking for a man first and foremost. A "scammer" as you put it, looks for a man who is willing to offer himself up to anyway, who picks a very fetish-driven name in a hurry, who has sexually based photos of himself, who seems in a hurry, who seems perpetually horny, and who has a focus on his genitals or his asshole.
That's why the only women approaching you or responding to you are interested in getting you to sign up for a "too good to be true" type of service.
However, the "fetish-first" type of relationship you may dream of simply does not exist. In porn it does. In the real world, courtship has to happen, just like in normal dating. Dominant women do exist, women who love to fuck men in the ass and do all that nasty stuff - but not until there's mutual respect, affection, lust. With some women this takes weeks of dating. With others it takes months. Sure, some "put out" on the first date, but it's rare. It's just like dating in the real world. A lot of sub men have the idea that dominant women are mythical creatures who whip out their strap ons as soon as the lights go down, regardless of whether chemistry exists.
This is simply not true. You have to pay your dues; you either open your wallet and pay cash to a dominatrix, or you invest your time and energy in dating, time and energy and waiting to meet that special someone. But the good news is that dating is fun when you do it the right way.
But here's a tip - not many dominant women sit and dream of prince 'assslut1' to come along and whisk them away. They usually think of their potential partners in terms of depth of character, interests, chemistry, charm. Not a gaping asshole and a willingness to "do anything."
Akasha
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