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Join a website before becoming a slave? - 11/13/2013 12:45:01 PM   
assslut1


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Status: offline 		I have had several so-called Dommes that have required me to join websites before i became their slave. Are there any so-called Domme or Mistress organizations that require a new Domme to sign a slave up to a site in order for Her to be raised in rank? Does any of this make sense or are they simply scam artists trying to get money out of me?
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RE: Join a website before becoming a slave? - 11/13/2013 12:48:30 PM   
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RE: Join a website before becoming a slave? - 11/13/2013 12:48:42 PM   
RomanticRebel


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Status: offline 		Use common sense man. If they're asking you to join a site to talk to them, they're trying to scam you.

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RE: Join a website before becoming a slave? - 11/13/2013 12:50:10 PM   
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RE: Join a website before becoming a slave? - 11/13/2013 12:54:46 PM   
assslut1


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Status: offline 		Well, i have not joined any site for that reason. i am suspicious of any true Domme needing someone to join anything in order to be Her legit slave. It sounds fishy to me, but i wanted to get some opinions or to see if i am missing something here.

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RE: Join a website before becoming a slave? - 11/13/2013 1:00:18 PM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		While you are correct to believe that it's a scam, I would suggest the you lose "true Domme" and "legit slave" from your vocabulary.

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RE: Join a website before becoming a slave? - 11/13/2013 1:02:23 PM   
assslut1


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Status: offline 		Okay. Thanks all. i just needed some advice to erase any doubts in my mind.

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RE: Join a website before becoming a slave? - 11/13/2013 1:05:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: assslut1

Well, i have not joined any site for that reason. i am suspicious of any true Domme needing someone to join anything in order to be Her legit slave. It sounds fishy to me, but i wanted to get some opinions or to see if i am missing something here.


Some of the paid sites have people who sole purpose is to get guys to sign up, hopefully with fully paid memberships. While not a scam outright, it is unscrupulous at best.

< Message edited by KYsissy -- 11/13/2013 1:06:13 PM >

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RE: Join a website before becoming a slave? - 11/13/2013 2:06:58 PM   
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assslut1,

You might want to consider your name (I assume "asssslut" was taken, so you had to take "asssslut1"?), your profile pictures, and the nature of your profile, and what kind of woman this attracts.

What is your target audience? A woman seeking a relationship, a partner in sensual bdsm, is looking for a man first and foremost. A "scammer" as you put it, looks for a man who is willing to offer himself up to anyway, who picks a very fetish-driven name in a hurry, who has sexually based photos of himself, who seems in a hurry, who seems perpetually horny, and who has a focus on his genitals or his asshole.

That's why the only women approaching you or responding to you are interested in getting you to sign up for a "too good to be true" type of service.

However, the "fetish-first" type of relationship you may dream of simply does not exist. In porn it does. In the real world, courtship has to happen, just like in normal dating. Dominant women do exist, women who love to fuck men in the ass and do all that nasty stuff - but not until there's mutual respect, affection, lust. With some women this takes weeks of dating. With others it takes months. Sure, some "put out" on the first date, but it's rare. It's just like dating in the real world. A lot of sub men have the idea that dominant women are mythical creatures who whip out their strap ons as soon as the lights go down, regardless of whether chemistry exists.

This is simply not true. You have to pay your dues; you either open your wallet and pay cash to a dominatrix, or you invest your time and energy in dating, time and energy and waiting to meet that special someone. But the good news is that dating is fun when you do it the right way.

But here's a tip - not many dominant women sit and dream of prince 'assslut1' to come along and whisk them away. They usually think of their potential partners in terms of depth of character, interests, chemistry, charm. Not a gaping asshole and a willingness to "do anything."

Akasha

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RE: Join a website before becoming a slave? - 11/13/2013 3:01:06 PM   
Lisfor


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Status: offline 		Doesn't OWK use that system?

The only sites you should be asked to sign up to should be free community type sites like FL or CM.

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RE: Join a website before becoming a slave? - 11/13/2013 4:19:47 PM   
Rochsub2009


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ORIGINAL: assslut1

I have had several so-called Dommes that have required me to join websites before i became their slave. Are there any so-called Domme or Mistress organizations that require a new Domme to sign a slave up to a site in order for Her to be raised in rank? Does any of this make sense or are they simply scam artists trying to get money out of me?


Would you mind sharing the name of the website? I'll assume that all of them tried to get you to go to the same site.

Some Dommes do have their own personal websites, and they may tell you to go there to learn more about them before they'll let you serve (which is a fair request). But that doesn't sound like what's going on in this particular case.

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RE: Join a website before becoming a slave? - 11/13/2013 4:37:58 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: assslut1

I have had several so-called Dommes that have required me to join websites before i became their slave. Are there any so-called Domme or Mistress organizations that require a new Domme to sign a slave up to a site in order for Her to be raised in rank? Does any of this make sense or are they simply scam artists trying to get money out of me?



"that require a new Domme to sign a slave up to a site in order for her to be raised in rank?"

Um, yes, that would be one working for a business where, as with most, bringing in customers increases their employee value and prospects of promotion.



But no, the dominants of the world have not arranged an official and recognized ranking system or set up the website for it yet.

We *are*, however, in preliminary talks and domain names are being discussed currently.


In seriousness, are questions like this really needed, OP? A person is somewhere on the internet, anywhere. B person tells them of some reason they should join a website. A person looks at site and decides if the website interests them and acts accordingly. Where is the confusion?

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RE: Join a website before becoming a slave? - 11/13/2013 8:01:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RumpusParable
But no, the dominants of the world have not arranged an official and recognized ranking system or set up the website for it yet.

Sure we did. In fact, I started it which makes my rank <insert Mike Meyers voice> one meeeeeelyon.

The fact that you weren't invited can only mean that you're not true :)

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RE: Join a website before becoming a slave? - 11/13/2013 10:02:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		You really should read the common scams that are available for you to read every time you get mail on this site. Joining another web site is one of those listed. If you read the list of scams you won't be tempted by other common scams. You also might with to read the FAQs in the Ask A Mistress forum. They can be very helpful also. They were put there to help you.

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RE: Join a website before becoming a slave? - 11/13/2013 10:24:52 PM   
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RE: Join a website before becoming a slave? - 11/14/2013 12:13:46 AM   
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RE: Join a website before becoming a slave? - 11/14/2013 1:28:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		dayam Eden thats hot!

Rumpus, I missed the last meeting , can you send me the minutes please???



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RE: Join a website before becoming a slave? - 11/14/2013 3:11:24 AM   
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Most excellent post, AAkasha, I agree with every word.

If a male's approach is entirely cock-centric (and so many of them are) then his best option is to pay for the service.

Real females who are dominant have willing male subs flocking to them in droves. A sub can place himself ahead of the pack by looking for a *woman* first and foremost.

OP: At the top of this forum sub-section, 'ask a mistress,' there are stickies created for male subs looking for female dominants. They may be of use to you.



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RE: Join a website before becoming a slave? - 11/14/2013 9:32:37 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC

quote:

ORIGINAL: RumpusParable
But no, the dominants of the world have not arranged an official and recognized ranking system or set up the website for it yet.

Sure we did. In fact, I started it which makes my rank <insert Mike Meyers voice> one meeeeeelyon.

The fact that you weren't invited can only mean that you're not true :)


*sobs with face in hands*

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RE: Join a website before becoming a slave? - 11/14/2013 9:33:37 AM   
RumpusParable


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

dayam Eden thats hot!

Rumpus, I missed the last meeting , can you send me the minutes please???




I'll get those out to you, but apparently I've been left largely out of the loop.

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