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angelikaJ -> RE: Confused (11/17/2013 2:12:10 PM)
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ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt
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ORIGINAL: dressuupandtieu
I'm not trying at all!
Oooh, it's a hot topic.
Such plums :)
That's the best you can do, little muffin? Another rhetorical question not meant for you to answer. What a grave disappointment. And as with your other sock, pop goes the hide button. Reply or not matters not...this sums it up (and makes me laugh):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PfmB-8onoMo
And to keep to topic: I wouldn't know if there are a lots of scammer, spammers, whammers, blammers or whatever you call them. I don't spend much time on the other side where they would hang out. Stick to this side and make an effort to contribute something useful. There will then be sunshine in your world.
That reminds me of a post/thread I began quite awhile ago (in August of 2009):
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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ
I realised today after seeing yet another forum thread (elsewhere) that I have been seriously deprived.
The reason being: I did not have scores of cmails from fakes and scammers.
I have met quite a few people in r/l and they were all real.
Thinking back on it I wonder if the reason why I never found scores of fakes and wannabes is simply because I wasn't looking for them.
I sought information and found plenty of that.
I was interested in the possibility of friendships and discovered people I could have that with in varying depths.
I was interested in connection and I found that too!
When one relationship ended, I did not wring my hands, nor gnash my teeth over how fake he turned out to be.
I was gratetful for the experience.
I learned.
In the beginning, I learned to trust.
In the middle, I learned that "direction was more important than speed".
In the end, I learned I was stronger than I knew.
We are still friends.
Now I am in a different relationship that is better suited to my needs.
I want to serve Him well...as well as He leads.
The chances of it lasting forever are pretty close to nil.
I am being realistic, not pessimistic: the odds that any relationship will last forever, is also pretty close to nil.
Rumor has it that people eventually die.
Today is all we ever really have.
So...I am loving being His and loving my "happy middle".
IF it were to end tomorrow however, he will not suddenly go from being Master Wonderful to a scum sucking fake.
I know the search is frustrating to so many people.
There probably are tons of fakes, scammers, liars and wankers.
I just didn't notice them.
I was too busy getting to know good people and reading interesting posts to have much time for anything else, I think.
edit: to add date
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