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Threesome - 11/17/2013 7:42:13 AM   
Tarzan1989


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Status: offline 		Me and my wife are looking for a bi girl to have fun with us but it hard to find one
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RE: Threesome - 11/17/2013 7:57:54 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the site. Now, then:

1. This is the Ask a Mistress forum. This should cover topics germane to female led relationships.
2. Your profile sounds like you expect sex, not D/s. You need to clarify. You want a woman to join you for - what? Sex? Companionship? Kink sessions?
3. Yes, it is hard. As it should be - good things do not come easy.
4. Are you asking for assistance, or are you simply venting?
5. If you ARE asking for help, you need to share with us what you've done thus far.
6. You say it's hard. If using this site is your only avenue, you've been on less than a day.

Again, welcome.

< Message edited by DarkSteven -- 11/17/2013 7:59:33 AM >

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RE: Threesome - 11/17/2013 8:08:46 AM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		Yes, it is hard to find a young bi woman for fun, some couples on this site have been trying to find one for years as there aren't terribly many of them around.

If you find one that interests you, she'll probably want to make a connection with you and your wife first. In your attempts to find this person, have you been putting yourself out there conversationally, or just asking for sex?

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RE: Threesome - 11/17/2013 9:41:15 AM   
Tarzan1989


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Status: offline 		Like we don't have a lot of people around this area but I'm looking and no we don't need to have sex with the girl just to have her help make it more fun like spanking grabbing talking and yes we would go out to the bar or to eat or both I would like help if you know any body

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RE: Threesome - 11/17/2013 10:01:56 AM   
DarkSteven


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RE: Threesome - 11/17/2013 10:16:17 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I'm really against thinly (at best) veiled personal ads on the forums. However, if this is actually a question, you do it the same way that you would get anybody else interested in you. The people that I play with, I met in the local community. (My "local" community is about a hundred miles away, but that is besides the point.) You really can't expect to just throw an inquiry up on the internet and expect people to come rushing to your door. You have to put some actual effort into going out and meeting people.


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RE: Threesome - 11/17/2013 10:43:15 AM   
MissKittyDeVine


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tarzan1989
I would like help if you know any body



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RE: Threesome - 11/17/2013 10:44:14 AM   
searching4mysir


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You and hundreds of other couples. What do you bring to the table that the other couples don't that make you worthy of her time? According to your practically non-existant profile, not a damn thing.

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RE: Threesome - 11/17/2013 10:52:19 AM   
Apocalypso


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tarzan1989
if you know any body

Several. But absolutely none of them would be interested in being approached for a threesome by someone they don't already know. There's a lesson there, if you care to look for it.

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RE: Threesome - 11/17/2013 11:44:47 AM   
evesgrden


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tarzan1989

Me and my wife are looking for a bi girl to have fun with us but it hard to find one



Try a swinger's community.

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RE: Threesome - 11/17/2013 12:49:00 PM   
Kana


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but it hard to find one

That's because, unlike you, the rest of us go through life existing in a vertical world.

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RE: Threesome - 11/17/2013 12:53:13 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Hire one.

Otherwise the two of you need to do exactly what you did when you were single and looking for a partner. You have to date lots of people, expecting that most of them aren't going to be compatible with you. And that of the many that are, life circumstances will prevent you from moving further. Or that there simply isn't sufficient chemistry.

But it's that much harder because now there needs to be compatibility and chemistry with both of you.



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RE: Threesome - 11/17/2013 2:30:23 PM   
sheisreeds


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< Message edited by sheisreeds -- 11/17/2013 2:31:34 PM >

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RE: Threesome - 11/17/2013 2:33:28 PM   
sheisreeds


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Status: offline 		Hopefully that worked.




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RE: Threesome - 11/17/2013 2:39:58 PM   
angelikaJ


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tarzan1989

Like we don't have a lot of people around this area but I'm looking and no we don't need to have sex with the girl just to have her help make it more fun like spanking grabbing talking and yes we would go out to the bar or to eat or both I would like help if you know any body


So you are coming here hoping that by some happy coincidence we will be able to hook you up?

How is that supposed to work exactly?
Even if we had a friend or knew about a friend of a friend of a friend who liked indiscriminate sex (or talking dirty) with strangers... we aren't likely to send her your way.

Why?
Because we know nothing about you.



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RE: Threesome - 11/17/2013 3:06:53 PM   
jlf1961


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quote:

ORIGINAL: angelikaJ


quote:

ORIGINAL: Tarzan1989

Like we don't have a lot of people around this area but I'm looking and no we don't need to have sex with the girl just to have her help make it more fun like spanking grabbing talking and yes we would go out to the bar or to eat or both I would like help if you know any body


So you are coming here hoping that by some happy coincidence we will be able to hook you up?

How is that supposed to work exactly?
Even if we had a friend or knew about a friend of a friend of a friend who liked indiscriminate sex (or talking dirty) with strangers... we aren't likely to send her your way.

Why?
Because we know nothing about you.




A miracle perhaps? Or maybe they are just so special to the universe their wish is automatically granted?

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RE: Threesome - 11/17/2013 10:18:27 PM   
Tarzan1989


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Status: offline 		Well any body can ask any Q they want but here some about us.we have been together for 5 years and have had three diff threesome and we love it we live in up state NY have two kids we both work I love to cook she loves metal music and we both like to go to the bars and love animals and have a lot of them but if there's any thing else here we are ask away here to have fun
Ps we would pay someone to answer your Q

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RE: Threesome - 11/17/2013 10:32:16 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		Since you have had 3 other threesomes you apparently know how to find a bi lady to play with you and your wife. Use the techniques that have given you success in the past.

Telling about yourselves is something that should be in your profile. Any potential play partner will read your profile before replying if you write to her.

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RE: Threesome - 11/18/2013 12:57:10 AM   
Tarzan1989


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Status: offline 		My success wasn't online and we were all drunk so it sounded good and it was but we don't want any one who is from here because people talk to much around here so we are looking for a girl out of town and we will put more up on our site about our selfs but this is day one on here so thanks for the help

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RE: Threesome - 11/18/2013 3:43:08 AM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tarzan1989

My success wasn't online and we were all drunk so it sounded good and it was but we don't want any one who is from here because people talk to much around here so we are looking for a girl out of town and we will put more up on our site about our selfs but this is day one on here so thanks for the help


Now this is helpful. You've had threesomes, by which you mean a quick hookup. You want to know how to do it: online, and when she's sober.

I suggest you not use online because:

1. You don't really like communicating in writing much
2. Frankly, the ratio of couples looking for a girl, to girls looking for couples, doesn't favor you.
3. You've had success in real time before as opposed to online. Stick with what works.

Instead, find munches and parties in your area and meet people face to face. Here's a good starting point: https://fetlife.com/groups/39902

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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