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Advice? - 11/22/2013 5:29:36 AM

jd2654

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Hey Everybody,

Wasnt sure exactly where to post this but "Introduce Yourself" sounds like a good bet. I`m looking for some advice on how to meet people (locally) who share an interest in BDSM, particularly in NY. I`m 20 years old, dominant, and have known for a couple of years now that this lifestyle is for me. The thing is, it never really went any further than just trying some things out with a past girlfriend (who was into it herself). I now want to get more in tune with this lifestyle by meeting people, going places, having more experiences, all of that....but have no clue where to begin. Any pointers or advice is appreciated....if you live in Upstate NY/NYC and know of anything personally, thats even better. Thanks.

*Also if there`s a better place to post something like this, a heads up would be great.

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RE: Advice? - 11/22/2013 6:38:30 AM

Rasciallymisty

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Hello and welcome and general BDSM would have been the place to post this. :) It takes some getting use to where to post and all, the Mods will move it if need be. Its nice having you join us here. Your best bet would be local munches as to where to meet some like minded peeps. Best of luck to you and I hope you will stick around and join in on some of the convos here.

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RE: Advice? - 11/22/2013 6:42:46 AM

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Well if you are by Albany there is a kink group there, if you hit NYC you got paddles....

here is a place to slosh around in:

http://findamunch.com/category/locations/united-states/new-york/

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RE: Advice? - 11/22/2013 5:48:22 PM

garyFLR

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Hi JD,

Welcome to CM.

Take a look at the Ask A Mistress/Master/sub forums, you'll learn a lot there.

All the best, Gary.

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RE: Advice? - 11/23/2013 11:08:41 PM

jd2654

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Thanks everybody for your input. I definitely plan on sticking around here longer and wish I came across this place sooner...very helpful.

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RE: Advice? - 11/24/2013 3:21:35 AM

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