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bdsm sites - 11/22/2013 12:41:57 PM

forenslavement

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hello all,

im in need of help finding other bdsm sites like collareme here. A free site with a community, I already know about fetlife, but there has to be more out there.

any info would be greatly appreciated

thank you,
matt

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RE: bdsm sites - 11/22/2013 1:31:34 PM

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Why do you want to know?

Do you not have search engines on your computer?

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RE: bdsm sites - 11/22/2013 1:47:11 PM

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well that was just a Douchie response....

why even reply if you can't even give a logical response, some goddess of logic...

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RE: bdsm sites - 11/22/2013 2:03:42 PM

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If you don't like the questions, I doubt you'd like the answer, so it's a good thing I asked... saved myself 30 minutes typing.

Good luck not getting answers from the rest of the forum...

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RE: bdsm sites - 11/22/2013 2:10:18 PM

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dont mention it ;). I'm glad to help...

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RE: bdsm sites - 11/22/2013 2:40:13 PM

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For the most part, we are a helpful bunch.

Having said that, however we are not too keen on doing other people's homework.

I will however make an exception for you, being that you are new and all.

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RE: bdsm sites - 11/22/2013 2:40:53 PM

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It isn't a douche question to ask what your goal is with this thread, Matt. It's a sensible question. Why should anyone take time to type something that isn't helpful to you?

Maybe lose the attitude and start explaining what you're looking for. That's my advice anyway.

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RE: bdsm sites - 11/22/2013 3:26:56 PM

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no ones asking for anyone to do any "homework". its a simple question of "does anyone know of any other sites. if you do, great, if you dont, great. it's a question not a damand lol.

there is no attitude, and unless youre blind Sir the question is simple ;)

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RE: bdsm sites - 11/22/2013 3:35:15 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: forenslavement

hello all,

im in need of help finding other bdsm sites like collareme here. A free site with a community, I already know about fetlife, but there has to be more out there.

any info would be greatly appreciated

thank you,
matt

What have you tried so far?

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RE: bdsm sites - 11/22/2013 3:42:14 PM

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is bondage.com still around?

alt is but i'm not a fan of their new setup

there is always kink specific sites you can google, or the slave registry... most sites have a bdsm section(i.e. reddit, experienceproject, tumblr)

just sign up for free accounts on different sites and the process of elimination should take care of the rest.

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RE: bdsm sites - 11/22/2013 3:47:43 PM

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is bondage.com still around?

alt is but i'm not a fan of their new setup

there is always kink specific sites you can google, or the slave registry... most sites have a bdsm section(i.e. reddit, experienceproject, tumblr)

just sign up for free accounts on different sites and the process of elimination should take care of the rest.

I think those are both pay sites and he's looking for free. The problem is when he just said 'community' - well, that ranges from 50 Shades and CastleRealm up to Dolcett so, it's sort of important to know exactly what sort of community one's looking to participate within and what the mindset of that community is going to be. Shaders really shouldn't play in a Dolcett playground.. they'll get eaten alive!

::that was funny and it's okay to laugh at the pun::

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RE: bdsm sites - 11/22/2013 4:01:31 PM

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thank you for permission ;) it did get a chuckle, then i read the rest and went "ahhh"(in a 'she got me' way) bondage.com didnt used to be pay.. maybe it is now, not sure, i believe their irc can always be accessed for free though, alt can be pay but doesnt have to be much like fetlife... you just get more features.

yep cm and fet tend to be a catch all for everything from 'i like fuzzy handcuffs' to 'cut off my arms and legs and put a baby in me'

bondage last i was there(a long time ago) was very... normal... most people were just into online roleplay but they had a decent chat system

alt recently changed their chat system and i no longer like it so i dont go their anymore other than the automatic email updates i get to my phone... my experiences there have been really polar. it is either "i'm looking for a fuck buddy" or "you'll never see daylight again cunt"... very little middle ground, but that could just be me.

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RE: bdsm sites - 11/22/2013 4:36:23 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: forenslavement

no ones asking for anyone to do any "homework". its a simple question of "does anyone know of any other sites. if you do, great, if you dont, great. it's a question not a damand lol.

there is no attitude, and unless youre blind Sir the question is simple ;)

Did you click on the link?

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RE: bdsm sites - 11/22/2013 4:51:15 PM

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Dude, you come here and ask vague questions about BDSM sites - no parameters. Do you want bondage sites, spanking sites, whipping sites, Daddy/little girl sites? We have no clue. You're like a patient who walks into a doctor's office and asks what kinds of diseases he might have, with no other info and no examination.

And your attitude ain't making us want to help you.

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RE: bdsm sites - 11/22/2013 4:51:36 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

quote:

ORIGINAL: forenslavement

no ones asking for anyone to do any "homework". its a simple question of "does anyone know of any other sites. if you do, great, if you dont, great. it's a question not a damand lol.

there is no attitude, and unless youre blind Sir the question is simple ;)

Did you click on the link?

How dare you presume he should do all the work that it takes to click a link?!?

You should be doing that for him!

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RE: bdsm sites - 11/22/2013 5:56:23 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

quote:

ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

quote:

ORIGINAL: forenslavement

no ones asking for anyone to do any "homework". its a simple question of "does anyone know of any other sites. if you do, great, if you dont, great. it's a question not a damand lol.

there is no attitude, and unless youre blind Sir the question is simple ;)

Did you click on the link?

How dare you presume he should do all the work that it takes to click a link?!?

You should be doing that for him!

*Hangs head in shame*

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RE: bdsm sites - 11/23/2013 7:07:14 AM

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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

quote:

ORIGINAL: directiveerror

is bondage.com still around?

alt is but i'm not a fan of their new setup

there is always kink specific sites you can google, or the slave registry... most sites have a bdsm section(i.e. reddit, experienceproject, tumblr)

just sign up for free accounts on different sites and the process of elimination should take care of the rest.

I think those are both pay sites and he's looking for free. The problem is when he just said 'community' - well, that ranges from 50 Shades and CastleRealm up to Dolcett so, it's sort of important to know exactly what sort of community one's looking to participate within and what the mindset of that community is going to be. Shaders really shouldn't play in a Dolcett playground.. they'll get eaten alive!

::that was funny and it's okay to laugh at the pun::

Am I the only one here who's never been to CastleRealm? Seriously, the first time I've ever heard of it was when I came here and heard it slammed mercilessly (which pretty much keeps me from seeking it out now). And I have a love/hate thing going on with Dolcett. Love the artwork, hate the subject matter.

Re: the OP. Dude, seriously, half the fun is finding the shit out for yourself. Take what you've been given and run with it. That's the thing about the net-you never know what's hiding in the dark crevices. I can use the old firearms board I was a mod on a few years ago as an example. It was tiny compared to a place like this (something like ~600 total users), and it was part of a gun shop owners package deal when he got a website. But it was a fun place to go, at least until I agreed to mod on it. Poke around a little, and you may find something similar.

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RE: bdsm sites - 11/23/2013 8:39:30 AM

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Am I the only one here who's never been to CastleRealm? Seriously, the first time I've ever heard of it was when I came here and heard it slammed mercilessly (which pretty much keeps me from seeking it out now). And I have a love/hate thing going on with Dolcett. Love the artwork, hate the subject matter.

Castlerealm catered to a very romantic, and very mild, form of BDSM. It was a little too "romance novel" for my tastes and I knew a lot of S/M lifestylers who it enraged but when it was a major going operation, the late 90's, it was probably the largest BDSM community on the web. There were a lot of complaints that the site was all about stroking the ego of the founders but in my interactions with them it seemed like they were nice people very much in love but more than a touch pompous. The whole site kind of fell apart when the sub founder died in 1999.

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