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payingoinker -> Why so many haters (11/24/2013 1:20:55 PM)

Why are there so many haters on Collarme? Even from those that seem to be real in the lifestyle.



LittleGirlHeart -> RE: Why so many haters (11/24/2013 1:25:17 PM)

define haters. and what are the supposed haters doing.



DomKen -> RE: Why so many haters (11/24/2013 2:20:26 PM)

I'm guessing the op is a sock for some failed findomme who is unhappy she, more likely he, is not rolling in cash after declaring themselves the bestest ever domme.



angelikaJ -> RE: Why so many haters (11/24/2013 2:35:49 PM)

Being rejected because you are not what someone is looking for is not the same thing as being hated on.

If your skin is too thin to handle rejection then that is on you.
If your profile is attracting people who are being mean then rewrite it.

Create your own happy experience.



eulero83 -> RE: Why so many haters (11/24/2013 2:38:06 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: payingoinker

Why are there so many haters on Collarme? Even from those that seem to be real in the lifestyle.


There was a man some years ago who used to say: "many enemies means lot of honour"... ok he also ended hanged upside down in a gas station for the benefit of his haters, but shit happens.



Anuser -> RE: Why so many haters (11/24/2013 2:42:22 PM)

IDK what a "sock for some failed findomme" means, but the phrase "failed findomme" leads me to believe you are a h8r. A hater is someone who just complains and tries to tear down someone else to feel better about themselves. Seeing as the OP is "payingoinker" I assume that means he's a pay pig, aka patron of the financial domination arts. :)

To answer the question: why are there so many haters on here, particularly from fellow BDSM enthusiasts, I would say it just comes down to people thinking they know what's best. It really baffles me how other people think it's their business what two consenting adults do, but people fight against gay marriage so I guess it shouldn't come as a surprise that some people are just assholes. All the arguments against financial domination seem to center around the idea that the men who pay for these services are victims and the women who get paid are master manipulators. The fact is financial domination wouldn't exist if there wasn't a market for it.

Everyone else complaining about it being extortion needs to step out of their box and realize that just because they're not into doesn't mean it's not a valid lifestyle choice.



susie -> RE: Why so many haters (11/24/2013 2:43:13 PM)

Bummer. I thought this was the thread to list all the things I hate like cucumber, pears and mushrooms.

I guess that only makes me a little hater[:(]



DesFIP -> RE: Why so many haters (11/24/2013 3:03:34 PM)

Why pears?



DesFIP -> RE: Why so many haters (11/24/2013 3:10:09 PM)

I doubt he's talking about the forum side.
As for the other, if you don't read profiles, ignore people who say no one outside of an age group, ignore people saying no married men - then expect to get slapped down hard. Stop bothering people who already make it clear that they aren't looking for someone like you.



MalcolmNathaniel -> RE: Why so many haters (11/24/2013 3:24:48 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Why pears?

Pears were a favorite of the inquisitors. You can Google it. Very unpleasant.



HarryVanWinkle -> RE: Why so many haters (11/24/2013 4:02:51 PM)

"There are people in this world who do not love their fellow man and I HATE people like that."

Tom Lehrer



LookieNoNookie -> RE: Why so many haters (11/24/2013 4:44:49 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: payingoinker

Why are there so many haters on Collarme? Even from those that seem to be real in the lifestyle.


I can't speak for everyone of course but, for some of us, it just provides existential release.



poise -> RE: Why so many haters (11/24/2013 5:10:08 PM)

I spend the majority of my time focused on all the good things in my life, which leaves
me with far too little spare time to be concerned with those with hatred in their hearts.

You ought to try it some time.



DomKen -> RE: Why so many haters (11/24/2013 8:19:35 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Anuser

IDK what a "sock for some failed findomme" means, but the phrase "failed findomme" leads me to believe you are a h8r.

Or maybe I've had most of a decades experience with the fake findommes complaints here. If the op is really seeking a findomme he would have no trouble finding one and would be happily bankrupting himself to pay for some guys new TV.

As to findommes I could care less. If that is your fetish great. However I do know from years of whine threads that a lot of people, men and women, come here with the intention of faking it and getting rich quick and they get real angry when it doesn't work.



obedientnwilling -> RE: Why so many haters (11/24/2013 8:26:59 PM)

In finance, it is called "adverse selection." Hehehe.



Kana -> RE: Why so many haters (11/24/2013 8:32:31 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel


quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Why pears?

Pears were a favorite of the inquisitors. You can Google it. Very unpleasant.

But so much fun for the abuser!
(Now,the abusee might have a vastly different perspective. Then again, who cares-they are after all, the abusee)



SeekingTrinity -> RE: Why so many haters (11/24/2013 8:47:10 PM)

~FRing it~

Love fruit pears. Inquisition pears not so much.

So does that make me a hater lover? Half hater? Half lover? Hate neutral?

[:D]



AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Why so many haters (11/24/2013 10:50:33 PM)

Haters gonna hate. There have been studies to confirm it.



MalcolmNathaniel -> RE: Why so many haters (11/24/2013 10:53:24 PM)

-An actual response to the OP-

The make nature is i protect women *except for Kana, he's a right bastard) and the women here tend to protect each other.
It took me a while to figure out how things work here. You need to spend a bit more time reading before posting.

The people her are a bit protective. Because of people like Kana.



hlen5 -> RE: Why so many haters (11/24/2013 11:53:58 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel


quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Why pears?

Pears were a favorite of the inquisitors. You can Google it. Very unpleasant.


Oh sure, bring that up!![;)][;)]



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