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-=verbal sound of pain=- - 11/24/2013 11:30:01 PM

ResidentSadist

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My girl has a couple different verbal reactions to pain.

1) she laughs if it is too intense and she isn't passionately or sexually connected to the pain giver at that moment

2) she cries when she is emotionally connected and it is intense unadulterated pain and torture, She cries for me out of loving sacrifice. She doesn't do that for other people . . . she says, "I'd kill them before I'd let them see my tears".

3) she moans and/or growls while cums when she is she is passionately connected and sexually aroused

4) . . . and she howls letting out a "A-oo-oo-oo-ooo" sound like singing. I mean it's loud as hell like an operatic valkyrie singing an aria.

So we are in the dungeon and she has some apprehension because I told her I was really going to hurt her. She is still a little nervous because we were just starting to get warmed up. There wasn't any beast like passion yet and I grabbed her nipple pinching it really hard. She let out one of those operatic howls. As I went for her other nipple. just before I pinched it she says, "What the fox say?" then comes the "A-oo-oo-oo-ooo! . . . Woo-oo-oo-ooo!" just like in the song. It was hilarious. I turned it into a game and throughout the night I'd say "what does the fox say?" and make her howl.

I just wanted to share the new game and it gave me pause to think about all the different ways people express pain. A mistress friend has slave that whimpers . . . and I love that sound. When she shares him with me I beat him and say "make the noise, make the noise".

Some people talk and swear like they have turrets. Some scream bloody murder. Everyone has their own reasons why they verbalize the way they do. Care to share some stories? Pain lovers want to share your special noise or reasons?

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RE: -=verbal sound of pain=- - 11/25/2013 12:07:25 AM

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Haha! I bet that was a fun game to play :)

I go from loud to quiet during a scene; I tend to start shouting out loudly during the "warm up", which develops into loud crying when the pain gets more intense, then quiet crying, then when the pain is near unbearable I just end up making squeak noises. Not sure why, I guess it's just due to running out of tears but not having the energy to make loud noises :P

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RE: -=verbal sound of pain=- - 11/25/2013 12:42:45 AM

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That was awesome! Lol
My male slave does a shudder/shiver type thing and let's out a whimper type sound. He has a breathing technique
that helps him. Now if we are ball busting, he yells. Lol
But gets right back into position.

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RE: -=verbal sound of pain=- - 11/25/2013 2:35:07 PM

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My sweetie loves reaction, and if he doesn't get it, he escalates the pain until I have to react - usually with loud piercing screams.

But he's very thoughtful too - he put up insulated blankets over the windows so my screams and profanities wouldn't disturb the neighbors. He is soooo sweet!

The problem is - is that the longer we play, the quieter I get. I sort of get over the whole screaming thing and head for subspace - where I won't react at all. There are times when he goes for the stingiest thing he has to get a reaction. Bastard!

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RE: -=verbal sound of pain=- - 11/25/2013 2:51:21 PM

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I too make different noises in response to different stimuli. For example, I swear like a sailor when clothespin-zippered and hit the high notes like an opera singer when the TENS is too intense.

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RE: -=verbal sound of pain=- - 11/25/2013 2:54:00 PM

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Welcome!

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RE: -=verbal sound of pain=- - 11/25/2013 2:54:46 PM

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One of the most unfortunate....sometimes my response to pain stimuli is inappropriate, involuntary laughter.

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RE: -=verbal sound of pain=- - 11/25/2013 3:50:28 PM

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One of the most unfortunate....sometimes my response to pain stimuli is inappropriate, involuntary laughter.

Not sure why that is in appropriate... Frankly... I can't think of a single inappropriate sound my girls could do when I am causing them pain....

An authentic response is after all... Is Authentic!

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RE: -=verbal sound of pain=- - 11/25/2013 4:47:34 PM

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I'm a whimperer/get sqirmy, occasionally I'll make a moany groany noise. I tend to be fairly quiet...so many years of living with a nosey roommate have made me fairly discreet, while still communicating my pain.

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RE: -=verbal sound of pain=- - 11/25/2013 8:08:44 PM

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I usually scream and beg when he hurts me and if it's really intense I start crying. He enjoys both of these most of the time. Other times he tells me to shut up and I usually will bite down on something or my own lip to try to keep from screaming.

If I'm having a strong orgasm or one after another, I usually start to growl and I can be a little loud.

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RE: -=verbal sound of pain=- - 11/25/2013 9:37:44 PM

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iwiggle and squeal and say ow owowo daddy ow ow a lot.

if i am realy warmed up and i can take it i moan and groan and beg daddy for the pain. daddy always says top before i do. he's not willing to give me as much pain as i will take, plus his hand starts hurting or his arm starts getting tired.

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RE: -=verbal sound of pain=- - 11/25/2013 9:50:10 PM

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There's been a few times I have laughed hysterically, at which point he'll laugh and apply more pain. Then I'll laugh even harder to the point of tears.

Almost always, I'll try my hardest not to make any noise, mostly out of pure stubbornness and I like to see how far I can go without. It starts off with biting my lips, then gritting my teeth, then panting.
He usually wants me to make noise. Shocker, he always wins.

The noise I make depends mostly on what is being done.
Sometimes it's a whimper accompanied by a soft, whiny "ow, ow, ow..." that's usually from pinching.
Other things make me moan.
Then there are occasions where cussing and growling seem appropriate - mostly when he teases me with pain. After a few fake outs, I'll let out a growl then let my guard down. Then a crack of the belt and a release of a "fuck".

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RE: -=verbal sound of pain=- - 11/25/2013 10:35:38 PM

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Cabin Boy does a short, sharp "OWW!" Pain is not fun or a turn-on for him; thus it makes a true punishment when he's acting like a git. He also keeps a lid on the vocals because he knows I'll just do it more.

One partner would alternate between holding his breath after the uptake until he was nearly hypoxic, then let it out with with a tortured 'pleeeeeeeeeeeeze'. He never safed out, so I assume 'pleeeeeeeeze' was a shortened form of "don't stop!" He also claimed not to like pain, but it sure pushed him into space faster than anything else. Also, I enjoyed watching him drool, so I frequently gagged him and put him on all fours with a towel under his chin while I worked on him. Those 'pleeeeeeeeeezes' sounded more like 'fwreeeeeeeethe!"

My noisiest boy would babble at low volume when caned. Unless I heard his safe word somewhere in that word salad, I kept upping the intensity. When the language devolved into a long, loud howl, I knew he had one good whack left in him. He'd receive it, let out his breath, his body would go limp, and he would breathily cry and sob. Corporal's not my bag, but caning was what he got for being GOOD so I indulged him. I'm generous that way.

Then there is electro. Hmmm, I can't even approximate how to spell some of the sounds that came out of the boy riding the lightening. Pick a tune. Any tune. Then sing it an octave higher and backwards. That's about the gist of it.

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RE: -=verbal sound of pain=- - 11/26/2013 2:59:41 AM

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I love the sound of squealing, whimpering, nervous giggling and begging. I hate silence!!

Some years ago I challenged a dom guy to a scene, it was called 'winner takes all'. Long story short, I won and he ended up shackled to the ceiling and his pants round his ankles. The noise that man made was deafening. He kept cursing and warning me that when he got down he was going to "KILL' me, so of course I warned him that I would have to break him first!
Its the only scene I've ever done where I was seriously nervous about my bottom escaping his binds. I was thinking, 'ok, if he escapes I have to run like hell'. I have never to this day heard such intimidating noises coming from a person!!

It was a very memorable scene though and me and this guy often laugh about that night.

The best part was afterwards when we sat chatting to a bunch of submissives. They pointed at him and said, 'wow, he's scary'

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RE: -=verbal sound of pain=- - 11/26/2013 3:54:08 AM

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Not a sound (cause I don't really know what sounds I make, other than that there are a lot of them... for more specifics you'd have to ask him) but I go on my tippy toes -sometimes so much as a momentary full en pointe if I've got support- whenever an action exceeds what I feel capable of taking. I do this regardless of what position I'm in, so if I'm standing and have the mobility I'll actually physically go on my toes, but even when kneeling/laying down I'll still curl my feet in a en pointe position as a reaction to pain.

It's an annoying tell (for me... sadist seem to like it) as I stay on my toes until the pain goes back into "feeling manageable" territory. The worst actual injury I've ever had from a scene were several sprained toes, because the Top decided it'd be funny to have his timing such that I pretty much spend about 20 minutes straight on my toes...

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RE: -=verbal sound of pain=- - 11/26/2013 4:24:33 AM

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Is there a dominant alive who doesn't like response?

One reason why I love my sub is b/c he's sooooooooo responsive, in every way, not just verbally.

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RE: -=verbal sound of pain=- - 11/26/2013 4:46:15 AM

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Is there a dominant alive who doesn't like response?

Almost always, but I did once play with a sub who howled so much at every little warmup flick of the whip that it felt like he was taking the piss. I got fed up and said "Go on, that didn't hurt, THIS hurts," and hit him so hard he broke my rack.

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RE: -=verbal sound of pain=- - 11/26/2013 7:12:03 AM

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One of the most unfortunate....sometimes my response to pain stimuli is inappropriate, involuntary laughter.

Not sure why that is in appropriate... Frankly... I can't think of a single inappropriate sound my girls could do when I am causing them pain....

An authentic response is after all... Is Authentic!

I like the sound of pain too. One of my fav pieces of scene music to play during warm up before my partner starts making noise of their own is "Pain and Pleasure Concerto" by Lords Of Acid (2001).

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RE: -=verbal sound of pain=- - 11/26/2013 7:14:14 AM

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One of the most unfortunate....sometimes my response to pain stimuli is inappropriate, involuntary laughter.

Many people laugh when they feel pain, it is a common response. Laughing isn't inappropriate, it's quite logical actually. The biology and psychology behind it is interesting because of what laughter does. Laughter is the body's way of releasing endorphines and reducing the pain. Laughter also relieves anxiety. The common misconception about laughter is that it is only a response to humor.

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RE: -=verbal sound of pain=- - 11/26/2013 8:08:48 AM

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One of the most unfortunate....sometimes my response to pain stimuli is inappropriate, involuntary laughter.

Many people laugh when they feel pain, it is a common response. Laughing isn't inappropriate, it's quite logical actually. The biology and psychology behind it is interesting because of what laughter does. Laughter is the body's way of releasing endorphines and reducing the pain. Laughter also relieves anxiety. The common misconception about laughter is that it is only a response to humor.

It's an anxiety response, and I understand that. But, there have been times where it has popped up at the worse possible time....not only during kink.

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