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ball busting - 11/28/2013 2:31:05 AM   
edinburghslave


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Status: offline 		why is it that doms will not kick a mans balls I cant get anyone in Scotland up for it or fist deep whole or half arm I thought doms like to give pain
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RE: ball busting - 11/28/2013 3:03:35 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		I can think of so many reasons. Here are a few

- Not all dominants like to give pain
- Not everyone who likes to give pain likes to do it in the specific way you want
- Most dominants want to be in charge of the situation, not just act out your fantasy - they'd technically be submitting to you
- Ball kicking and anal fisting both have potential for serious injury, so lots of people won't take part
- There's a lot more guys wanting to receive those things than people wanting to do them, so the doms who are into it are already taken

But honestly, I think the most likely reason is that they don't care about the balls and ass of someone they don't know. Your profile is about your fantasy (nothing about you as a human), your post is about your fantasy, and there's no suggestion that you are looking for a meaningful relationship. If you approach someone with 'kick my balls' chances are they will block you. If you get to know someone and show that a) you are a great guy and b) you care more about their happiness that your own kink, odds are good you will eventually find someone willing to do this with you, even if it isn't their thing.

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RE: ball busting - 11/28/2013 3:05:26 AM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the discussion side Edinburgh where we discuss more than our balls and what we like to have done with our assholes.

Has it ever occurred to you that dominant females have many choices as to who they interact with, and they choose the ones who are capable of treating them like a person as opposed to a fetish delivery device?

Ponder that.


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RE: ball busting - 11/28/2013 4:04:07 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		OP - You've just proved my point by sending me a one-sentence message asking me to kick your balls.

Even though my profile says I'm married and we don't share. Even though I posted in your thread that women don't care about your balls until they care about you.

What this shows is that you have no respect for me as a person, you only care about what gets you off. Shockingly, women don't like it when guys treat them as nothing more than a sex toy. This is why no one wants to kick your balls.

For goodness sake, go and rub one out and turn off the porn. Then spend some time actually getting to know some women and practice treating them as human beings. Then someone might want to play with you.

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RE: ball busting - 11/28/2013 4:19:35 AM   
JetOnly


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ORIGINAL: edinburghslave

why is it that doms will not kick a mans balls I cant get anyone in Scotland up for it or fist deep whole or half arm I thought doms like to give pain

Being a dom has nothing to do with giving pain. Some people like to give pain and some doms like to give pain but it is not a given that a dom is someone who likes to give pain

and looking for someone who dosent know you to fulfil YOUR desire for them to give you pain is not them dominating you
Perhaps what you are looking for is a Top

But even then - as the others have said - you are very very unlikely to find someone if you sent out mails simply asking someone to do that

Every female on here gets many many messages asking them to do something like that, it is simply those people trying to force their kink on someone else with no regard for the other persons wants needs and desires are

Honestly if you want just SOMEONE to do these things to you without caring who they are then you have to think what is the motivation for them? In reality the best chance you would have for something like this is to find a prodomme who does it (and there are plenty in Scotland) they know what they are doing and they are getting what they need from the experience as well

If you are looking for a partner who has this as one of their kinks - then you have to present yourself as a person not a pair of balls for hitting

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RE: ball busting - 11/28/2013 4:46:20 AM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		Why is it that you can't get some random stranger to engage in intimate activities of your choosing…? Because they don't want to. They might want to if they were being paid, or if they cared about you somehow. Pay for your fulfillment or get to know someone well enough that they'd do something for you that involved your genitals and asshole.

Your idea that Doms like to give pain might be true if the Doms know the person involved, and are attached to them somehow. I don't know of any Doms roving about cities in the world looking for random balls and assholes to hurt. In porn, women seem to desire random sexual encounters with any guy who happens along, not so much in real life. I'm sure you know that porn isn't real right?

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RE: ball busting - 11/28/2013 7:31:33 AM   
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ORIGINAL: edinburghslave

why is it that doms will not kick a mans balls I cant get anyone in Scotland up for it or fist deep whole or half arm I thought doms like to give pain

They are giving you pain, it's just not the pain you want.

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RE: ball busting - 11/28/2013 8:08:35 AM   
MsMJAY


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Status: offline 		Are you getting to know then and trying to build something meaningful or are you just asking for ball busting and fisting? Dominant women are not much different than other women. If you are not approaching vanilla women asking them to kick you in the balls why would you approach a dominant woman and ask that? Just talk them respectfully and treat them like ladies. Women like that.


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why is it that doms will not kick a mans balls I cant get anyone in Scotland up for it or fist deep whole or half arm I thought doms like to give pain


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RE: ball busting - 11/28/2013 9:49:16 AM   
SeekingTrinity


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Not many dominants are interested in a person who is clearly a slave to his fetishes. The fact that you disrespected someone because you couldn't see past your own nutsack should tell you exactly why you can't find what you are looking for.

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RE: ball busting - 11/28/2013 9:53:13 AM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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ORIGINAL: edinburghslave

why is it that doms will not kick a mans balls I cant get anyone in Scotland up for it or fist deep whole or half arm I thought doms like to give pain

Firstly, why should someone care about your balls or your asshole if she doesn't care about you? And, make no mistake about it, if she doesn't know you she sure doesn't care about you on that level.

Also, I can think of many reasons a person wouldn't do either. My reasons are I don't want to injure someone's balls and my fist is (most times) too big for fisting, I have giant bear paw hands.

Apparently you're into receiving considerable pain. Think of it this way, you are receiving pain, just not the kind you want. It's the pain of unfulfilled fetishes.

NBMG

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RE: ball busting - 11/28/2013 12:54:29 PM   
MissKittyDeVine


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Status: offline 		Personally I love the idea of ballbusting. I don't love the possibility that the bustee might change his mind and have me arrested for GBH.

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ORIGINAL: edinburghslave

why is it that doms will not kick a mans balls I cant get anyone in Scotland up for it or fist deep whole or half arm I thought doms like to give pain



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RE: ball busting - 11/28/2013 1:20:32 PM   
MariaB


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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

OP - You've just proved my point by sending me a one-sentence message asking me to kick your balls.



I nearly spilt my coffee when I read this Its just so typical of these needy little monsters!

To the op, go to a club and make sure you take your own bag of surgical gloves, a bucket of lube and a few butt plugs for the warm up. Oh and make sure you've had a good clean out before hand. Some attending Dommes are bound to enjoy a little exhibitionism with some random stranger they don't have to take home with them and attending apprentice pro Dommes are often looking out for someone to practice on.

Personally I find ball busting a fruitless activity. No matter how you kick and how good your aim is, those little rascals jump right out of harms way every flipping time. Its like playing 'bat the rat' at the fairground.... really frustrating!


< Message edited by MariaB -- 11/28/2013 1:22:28 PM >

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RE: ball busting - 11/29/2013 4:47:57 PM   
rokkman7456


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Status: offline 		I have found out by giving my Domme free rein to try what she likes she is now open to some of what I like. We have been playing for 7 months now and have built a great relationship. I would never demand anything from her.

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Personally I find ball busting a fruitless activity. No matter how you kick and how good your aim is, those little rascals jump right out of harms way every flipping time. Its like playing 'bat the rat' at the fairground.... really frustrating!


Tie them up or use a humbler, I got the later last week and she had no problem hitting them with the single tail

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RE: ball busting - 12/2/2013 8:00:03 AM   
sissyRichard50


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Status: offline 		Just get her to tie weights around your balls and have a cord holding them up to your belly-button. The other end of the cord is held between your teeth. Sooner or later you'll ope your mouth - the weights will fall AND believe me it's just like been kicked in the nuts. I've always found Doms love to play this game.

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RE: ball busting - 12/3/2013 6:57:45 PM   
jackod


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Status: offline 		in los angeles is al ot of Dommes who like that,also you can be filmed and have your balls kicked for free,is very painful and dangerous,recently boy was castrated after school hazing,brrrrrrrrrr,jack

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RE: ball busting - 12/16/2013 9:10:43 AM   
JetOnly


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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

OP - You've just proved my point by sending me a one-sentence message asking me to kick your balls.

Even though my profile says I'm married and we don't share. Even though I posted in your thread that women don't care about your balls until they care about you.

What this shows is that you have no respect for me as a person, you only care about what gets you off. Shockingly, women don't like it when guys treat them as nothing more than a sex toy. This is why no one wants to kick your balls.

For goodness sake, go and rub one out and turn off the porn. Then spend some time actually getting to know some women and practice treating them as human beings. Then someone might want to play with you.

Beyond funny, I just got the same one line message, when I (was stupid enough) replied with suggesting he should either get to know someone first or hire a pro he had a tantrum was rude and blocked me
Then I thought I recognised him and remembered this thread
:D :D :D

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RE: ball busting - 12/16/2013 2:41:53 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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why is it that doms will not kick a mans balls I cant get anyone in Scotland up for it or fist deep whole or half arm I thought doms like to give pain


I've heard Ireland is better for this.

(But....I wouldn't go into Ireland with the kilt).

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