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Happy Holidays to Tgirls and Sissies - 11/28/2013 10:59:29 AM

PlasticDoll

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The holidays can be difficult for everyone. Sissies and tgirls who are alienated by their family and used to be friends can be very lonely this time of year. I want to say stay beautiful don't give up your love is right around the corner. People do care about you with open hearts. Happy Holidays to you.

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RE: Happy Holidays to Tgirls and Sissies - 11/28/2013 12:49:34 PM

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This will probably be moved to Off Topic. When I read the post title, I thought, "what about the rest of us?" However, when I read the actual post, I see why you specified.

There are many of us who are so horribly alone during the holidays, I'm one of them. If I lived in an area where there were any Trans people et. al. I would happily have them all over to my house to enjoy the holidays together. I know all too well what it is like to face holidays with no family and feeling unwanted, and unloved. I would say I don't wish that on anyone, but I am enough of a bitch that there are some I wish that on. NOT the people who are the subject of this post.

So, if you will allow, I would like to expand your happy holiday wishes to everyone who may feel excluded this holiday season.

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RE: Happy Holidays to Tgirls and Sissies - 11/28/2013 12:53:06 PM

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I don't have anyone in my family who is trans, gay etc. If I did, I cannot imagine rejecting them. I find it so sad that there are still people who don't have a mind that's open enough to accept their friend/family member.

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RE: Happy Holidays to Tgirls and Sissies - 11/29/2013 7:40:49 PM

youthinkso121

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I have never rejected family members for their choices. Its a shame they say im a bigot, for not agreeing with them.

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RE: Happy Holidays to Tgirls and Sissies - 11/30/2013 8:23:43 AM

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Sorry but "not agreeing with them" is a form of rejection. Why do you find a reason to even bring up that you don't agree with their choices? Do their choices affect your life? More importantly, are they happy with the choices they have made?

I'm 100% heterosexual and monogamous. However, while not a choice I would make, I have zero issue with happy poly families, or with those who sexuality is different from mine. It's their choice and as long as it makes them happy, that's all that matters.

So again, sorry, but I'm sure your presentation of your disapproval comes off as bigoted.

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RE: Happy Holidays to Tgirls and Sissies - 11/30/2013 8:52:09 AM

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Kind of like Lafayette...my initial reaction is "what about the rest of us?" Just because we are straight, average-looking, heteros does not mean we have families that give a damn about us or have not rejected us for being " different". I am not trying to belittle what you are saying...just pointing out that you can be rejected and hurt even when you appear and live exactly to society's rules.

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RE: Happy Holidays to Tgirls and Sissies - 11/30/2013 8:56:58 AM

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I'm confused about the sissies though. Trans isn't a choice. But a sissy chooses when to cross dress and when not to. Is it required that you cross dress for Thanksgiving, a day when the rest of us pick our loosest pants? Couldn't you just wear a pair of panties underneath?

Unless what the op means by this is something different than I commonly see the term as defined.

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