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devoted2u -> how not to embarras myself (7/3/2006 7:18:17 PM)
I have posted this in the "ask a sub" forum as well, so don't think I am advertising. :) Ok this is a very serious question. I am not trying to post some waking material. I need some serious advice from those who are experienced. I've been selected to be a full toilet of two very beautiful Dominatrixes. I am not gonna go into details as you all know what this entails. But the important thing is that I am a first timer. My question is rather this: -How to keep myself from puking/gagging? -How to better digest or faster consume? -How to keep myself more on a safer side (even though it's relatively risky activity)? -What's the worst thing that can happen during the play? (not what I can catch) So far I have only seen useless topics about "why"... What I want is some information from those who have done this, how it felt for them, what precautions they take, stuff like that..... thanks a bunch.

cynthiamarie -> RE: how not to embarras myself (7/3/2006 9:09:05 PM)
Here's a link to an article on piss drinking, and it also covers golden showers. Written by a kink aware doctor: http://www.black-rose.com/cuiru/archive/3-2/dr3-2.html Just because urine can be sterile doesn't mean that it is, and I don't think I'd want all those wastes going into my sub for their organs to deal with. To each his own...it's just that for me, I can't ever go there even if I wanted to; for the rest of my life I can't even donate blood because I've had chemos in the past, and the chemicals will always be with me, probably even in my urine. Medications people are on are also excreted in urine, so if either of these Dommes are on medications your body will also be on them. As to your question of how would it be like...piss into a glass and drink it if you want to find out. Your own urine should be safer than anyone else's. I don't have anything on scat. Type in BDSM scat into a search and read about others' experiences.

Misstoyou -> RE: how not to embarras myself (7/3/2006 9:43:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: devoted2u I have posted this in the "ask a sub" forum as well... Perhaps the Health and Safety forum would be even better.

devoted2u -> RE: how not to embarras myself (7/3/2006 11:02:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Misstoyou quote: ORIGINAL: devoted2u I have posted this in the "ask a sub" forum as well... Perhaps the Health and Safety forum would be even better. Well I thought about that, but I am not looking at information on what I can 'catch', in other words, I already have read tons on safety issues, but nonetheless I am doing it. I am seeking info on the session itself, and how I can avoid hazzards DURING the session, not what diseases I can get. As an example, above I posted questions which i am seeking answer for......

GoddessDustyGold -> RE: how not to embarras myself (7/4/2006 12:28:22 PM)
I am not going to be able to answer your questions. But I do have one or two for you... You have been selected? Is this what you want? Is this all a fantasy for you? Because, I have to tell you that the fantasy of this is much different from the reality. Or are you just going along with the program of a couple of Dominas because this is the way you feel you can get some real experience? I am not going to get into health issues, since you obviously feel well educated in that area already. But if you are a newbie in this lifestyle, and this is something you have never done before, why are you agreeing to be used in this way? You might do just fine, and it might turn out to be a favorite kink. But don't you think it would be wiser to approach this on a less intense level to begin?

MistressTheaZ -> RE: how not to embarras myself (7/4/2006 4:13:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: devoted2u --snip-- I've been selected to be a full toilet of two very beautiful Dominatrixes. I am not gonna go into details as you all know what this entails. But the important thing is that I am a first timer. --snip-- This is primary part of what you have written that I feel needs to be addressed: you have chosen to be part of a rather intense undertaking here for a first time with two Dominants with whose playstyle you aren't intimately acquainted with. How did this come to pass, and why is it something you are considering, (no disrespect intended)? As for how I'd approach it, I feel pushing limits with these areas can be more safely and appropriately broached within a psychodrama scene and the impending threat of being forced to consume showers as punishment. The actual act of consuming, in My opinion, should be limited to a token mouthful at best; in this instances, I've forced the sub to hold it in their mouth and then spit it on command, warning them the next time, they will be forced to swallow instead, so on. Of course, I'm writing this feeling you are less a shower fetishist as a sub willing to act as one in order to scene with these two particular Dominants. Correct Me if I am mistaken. Best, ~Thea

devoted2u -> RE: how not to embarras myself (7/4/2006 7:03:12 PM)
In response to MistressTheaZ, Well I didn't want to go into the details on how I got selected, but if it helps.... I've been seeing a proDomme for couple of years now. We only did light stuff... Over time, She told me that She holds parties with Her Mistress friends, and that only special subs/slaves can attend.... and now my time has come, and She offered me to attend as their slave. Of course, full toilet is not the only thing i'll be used for, but it is one aspect of what i haven't done, which She mentioned i'll be used for. I've done golden showers with this Mistress, but not the 'other' thing. That's why i said i am the first timer. Again, if it's ok, i'd rather not discuss why i am doing this, or why is She doing this, but rather, i'd just like to know simple answers on 'how to be a good toilet', in other words, not puke, and actually how to prepare myself?

HarryVanWinkle -> RE: how not to embarras myself (7/4/2006 9:08:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: devoted2u In response to MistressTheaZ, Well I didn't want to go into the details on how I got selected, but if it helps.... I've been seeing a proDomme for couple of years now. We only did light stuff... Over time, She told me that She holds parties with Her Mistress friends, and that only special subs/slaves can attend.... and now my time has come, and She offered me to attend as their slave. Of course, full toilet is not the only thing i'll be used for, but it is one aspect of what i haven't done, which She mentioned i'll be used for. I've done golden showers with this Mistress, but not the 'other' thing. That's why i said i am the first timer. Again, if it's ok, i'd rather not discuss why i am doing this, or why is She doing this, but rather, i'd just like to know simple answers on 'how to be a good toilet', in other words, not puke, and actually how to prepare myself? My only suggestion would be a variation on Ms Cynthiamarie's above. If you're serious about eating shit, try some of your own. If you can swallow your own without puking, you can probably swallow somebody else's.

brownsub -> RE: how not to embarras myself (7/5/2006 6:04:12 AM)
Relax, open wide, and enjoy! Have been a toilet slave for years with no problems. Good luck

newdombbw -> RE: how not to embarras myself (7/5/2006 6:28:21 AM)
I have two links which may help answer some of your questions: www.manscat.com (they USED to have a fabulous FAQ - site crashed, but check again www.scatforum.com I hope you will find these useful.

cynthiamarie -> RE: how not to embarras myself (7/5/2006 12:39:25 PM)
devoted2you...thanks for posting this. takes notes and saves sites It's amazing, but I've just had a hard limit lifted [:D] Never thought of the "threat" nor of spitting... Now why couldn't school have been this fun?

skaterboy -> RE: how not to embarras myself (7/5/2006 3:24:51 PM)
snorkel and mask.....for training purposes only, of course....then take Mistress to the Bahammas and teach her to snorkel. Winks, good luck...rates are cheap this time of year.

MisPandora -> RE: how not to embarras myself (7/5/2006 6:44:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: devoted2u Well I thought about that, but I am not looking at information on what I can 'catch', in other words, I already have read tons on safety issues, but nonetheless I am doing it. I am seeking info on the session itself, and how I can avoid hazzards DURING the session, not what diseases I can get. As an example, above I posted questions which i am seeking answer for...... How about the ask a sub board? You're essentially asking a bunch of dominant women how to eat shit. I can't say that many of us are experienced in that to be able to tell you how to palate your fetish material. We're only accustomed to taking shit and flinging it.

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