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why - 12/2/2013 11:26:36 AM   
giftofcontrol1


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Status: offline 		why do the sub's and slave on this site not mail you back after you mail them it does not take long to say no thexs or some mail then just stop mailing you back why no rude b/s just a why i ben on here for lot years my old profile was giftofcontrol it got hack any help here would be good al so why are the black subs slave on here all facks
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RE: why - 12/2/2013 11:29:35 AM   
booklover13


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Status: offline 		Here we go again. Another thread about folks not answering messages.



Now that I've looked at your profile I can honestly say it has to be all those repulsive cock shots. I mean, really?

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RE: why - 12/2/2013 11:37:14 AM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		Because when we say "No, thank you" we get insulted, called fake, argued with and pressured. So, rather than blaming us...blame your fellow men because they've taught us that not replying is a much more pleasant alternative.

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ORIGINAL: giftofcontrol1
why are the black subs slave on here all facks
They're probably not all "fack", they're just not interested in what you're offering.

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RE: why - 12/2/2013 11:46:43 AM   
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RE: why - 12/2/2013 11:47:46 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		just the facks ma'am, just the facks.

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RE: why - 12/2/2013 11:48:10 AM   
Ladytisha


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Status: offline 		What do you bring to the table other then cock pics? Does your Clearly state what you seek and preference of ethnicity? Im sure not all the black slaves are "facks"
Maybe you should think about your approach.

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RE: why - 12/2/2013 11:48:31 AM   
Spiritedsub2


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Status: offline 		Women don't respond to your messages because the majority of women are repulsed by cock pictures in profiles. Lots of men apparently like cock pictures. Have you enjoyed much success with women on collarme over the last several years? This is a helpful hint.

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RE: why - 12/2/2013 11:49:17 AM   
angelikaJ


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Status: offline 		A few questions for you?

Do you ever get junk mail in your household USPS deliveries?
Do you respond personally to each and every one?

Every time you send a message to someone who expresses what they are looking for and you are not that (whatever IT is), you are sending the equivalent of junk mail.
Some people set their junk mail folder's parameters to being pretty specific about distance, age or weight... and so if you fall outside of their limits, they never see the messages.

Next question: Are you sending out most of your messages to the new users?
The reason I ask is that new users in particular often receive at least 100 cmails a day.
Do you have any idea how long it would take to personally read and answer that many messages?

Before I hid my profile, I stated clearly that I was owned.
I still got at least 20 messages/day.

So even discounting all of that, you need to know that the polite response along the lines of "Thanks, but no thanks." is often repaid by rude and nasty emails.

Accusations of not being female, insults about appearance or weight and statements that we must be fakes abound.
The smarter women here learn quickly that not giving a response sometimes prevents abusive replies.

And finally, before you continue feeling like you are in the right, you should try to wrap your head around the notion that no answer is a response.



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RE: why - 12/2/2013 12:18:12 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		Is it rude when you hang up on telemarketers?
Is it rude when you close the door on door to door salespersons?

No answer = Not interested

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RE: why - 12/2/2013 12:27:17 PM   
Onerat1


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Status: offline 		My profile clearly says not looking. Yet I got mail from one asking if I want to be a sex slave. From somebody else was about me being naked on the floor being fed his choice of food. Another is looking for a fuck buddy. Why should I answer when I am not interested in anything?

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RE: why - 12/2/2013 12:35:58 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		how about naked and on the floor and you feed yourself?

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RE: why - 12/2/2013 12:41:46 PM   
stef


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quote:

ORIGINAL: giftofcontrol1

why do the sub's and slave on this site not mail you back after you mail them...

If the email you sent bears any resemblance to this post, it should be fairly obvious.

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RE: why - 12/2/2013 12:44:16 PM   
LafayetteLady


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Status: offline 		You've been here "for lot years" and still have this problem. Time to look inward. You have a profile where you were too lazy to write anything about yourself vanilla or kinky. As previously mention, most of the ladies don't enjoy cock shots. Are you nothing more than your dick, that you need to have nearly half a dozen pictures of it?

Your profile consists of you doing nothing more than checking off the interest boxes, most of which are kink related. If you are looking for a fuck buddy, maybe that would be ok. However, most women here are looking for a relationship. If you can't carry on an intelligent conversation after you have ejaculated, you are going to bore the hell out of most women.

Another thing is your writing is HORRIBLE. How can you expect a woman to want you for a master when you can't even master the English language. Spell check is your friend, learn how to use it.

Finally, whining will NEVER get you a reply. Whining is for little boys living in mommy's basement coming to the site to jerk off.

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RE: why - 12/2/2013 1:33:07 PM   
orgasmdenial12


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Status: offline 		I like a man who can spell. And you're not a man who can spell. Simples.

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RE: why - 12/2/2013 2:00:21 PM   
VideoAdminChi


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Status: offline 		Fast reply,

While the OP does invite a critique of his profile in order to answer his question, please confine your responses to constructive criticism.

Thank you.

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RE: why - 12/2/2013 4:20:56 PM   
petitespot


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Status: offline 		Hey...there's a chick down in the homework thread that will pay your utility bills for ya.

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RE: why - 12/2/2013 4:37:51 PM   
littlewonder


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quote:

ORIGINAL: giftofcontrol1

why do the sub's and slave on this site not mail you back after you mail them it does not take long to say no thexs or some mail then just stop mailing you back why no rude b/s just a why i ben on here for lot years my old profile was giftofcontrol it got hack any help here would be good al so why are the black subs slave on here all facks



If this is how you write then I wouldn't write you back either. I am barely able to read what you wrote.

Maybe try taking some English classes and you will have better luck. Or you know, there's spell check.

No woman is going to bother writing to someone who seems to have a rude attitude to begin with.



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RE: why - 12/2/2013 5:37:38 PM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		Women don't email back because they are not interested. It isn't rude for them not to respond to an unsolicited email that they are not interested in, and depending on what you are writing them, or if you are sending pictures too…you might be the rude one.

They may not be interested because you are a poor speller and have trouble conveying ideas through your writing. They may not be interested because you are outside their age or location parameters. You may be sending them nude pictures, they may not be interested in that. You could be asking for instant submission or discussing kink or sex in a first email, which many women are not interested in doing. You may not have anything in your profile that interests them. You might be looking for something that they are not looking for. You could certainly be coming off as being prejudiced as seen by your comment on black subs being fake. There are many reasons why women may not be interested in you as a partner and they don't feel obligated to tell you they are not interested.

Basically it comes down to you. You are not getting responses while other men do, why is that?

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RE: why - 12/2/2013 6:24:56 PM   
DesFIP


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

how about naked and on the floor and you feed yourself?


In Minnesota in winter?
Come on Ron, you know that would lead to hypothermia.

Now if you would offer flannel pjs, you might get some takers.

And op, objectification is for intimate relationships. Nobody wants someone whose sole interest is because of her skin color and gender.

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RE: why - 12/2/2013 6:33:55 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		Oh Gawd... Thank you!! Someone had to say it.


quote:

ORIGINAL: stef


quote:

ORIGINAL: giftofcontrol1

why do the sub's and slave on this site not mail you back after you mail them...

If the email you sent bears any resemblance to this post, it should be fairly obvious.



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