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DarkSteven -> RE: why (12/2/2013 8:49:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: giftofcontrol1 why do the sub's and slave on this site not mail you back after you mail them it does not take long to say no thexs or some mail then just stop mailing you back why no rude b/s just a why They simply don't want to. They get lots of messages each day and don't respond to most. quote: i ben on here for lot years my old profile was giftofcontrol it got hack Sorry to hear that. quote: any help here would be good al so why are the black subs slave on here all facks Um, they're not. There are a lot of real subs, and a lot of fake ones. A lot of the fakes are indeed black, but there are plenty of white ones as well.

obedientnwilling -> RE: why (12/3/2013 2:36:14 AM)
Try complimenting them politely, and then say something interesting about yourself. Cite examples in their profiles of what sparked your interest in them, and suggest some related ideas of your own. Breaking the ice is pretty straightforward.

sunshinemiss -> RE: why (12/3/2013 3:55:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: orgasmdenial12 I like a man who can spell. And you're not a man who can spell. Simples. Irony.

crazyml -> RE: why (12/3/2013 4:00:22 AM)
Hey OP... could you post one of your typical intro messages here so we can have a look at it. I think it may have something to do with your profile, and the messages you send. It's just a hunch, mind you.

crazyml -> RE: why (12/3/2013 4:01:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss quote: ORIGINAL: orgasmdenial12 I like a man who can spell. And you're not a man who can spell. Simples. Irony. Deliberate irony though... "Simples" has entered the British English idiom, thanks to a very successful ad campaign by an insurance company, centered on a Meerkat with a Russian accent, who pronounces "Simple" as "Simples".

kalikshama -> RE: why (12/3/2013 5:30:20 AM)
"Simples" is in American English now too. Most of the UD listings also referenced the Meerkat, with which I was not familiar. http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Simples

DaddySatyr -> RE: why (12/3/2013 5:45:11 AM)
Honestly, OP, sites like this are text-based. The fact that you seem to have a lot of trouble with even simple words means that your point is not getting across to the people you're messaging. I'm not trying to be mean but imagine someone who reads as well as you spell, trying to figure out your mis-spellings? So, your message is not getting across. What can you do? Spell check is available in many programs (and even shows up in a lot of browsers, here, when you look at your profile). That's an idea. You could try to improve your spelling/writing/typing skills so that what you are trying to say will be clear. Or, you can come on here and complain that people have a hard time reading your messages and, even though they try for a little while, in the end they feel that they shouldn't have to decipher a word jumble to communicate with someone that they may have a romantic interest in. Good luck, Michael

crazyml -> RE: why (12/3/2013 12:49:05 PM)
Wow... that little gem crossed the water pretty quickly. Thanks!

lilcracker -> RE: why (12/3/2013 4:38:57 PM)
read the mod post oooppps

MistressDarkArt -> RE: why (12/3/2013 5:01:15 PM)
All the above, OP. You need to understand something about women: they are not visual in the same way men are. If you show 'em your dick, they think you're a dick. If you show 'em an asshole, they think you're an asshole. If you show 'em your wrinkly foreskin, they think you're a dickwrinkle. See how that works?

TearCollector -> RE: why (12/3/2013 8:25:14 PM)
crazyml has a good idea. Show the group what your sending these people (minus the dick pics of coarse) and let the comments inspire you to make changes. Thats how to make a strong change towards getting some positive responses. However, Im against portraying yourself to be someone your not through coaching of people who know better. (Im a horrible speller, but dang man,.. make an effort. Spell check handles 99 percent of that for you). Getting some advice is one thing. But helping you write an intro message is going to get a lot of peoples time wasted as the follow up messages will be 100 percent yours and disappointing. Its a double edge sword. Great idea by crazyml, initial increased responses, end result disappointment and wasted time. Just for fun though, Id like to see what messages you send people as a first contact. LOL.... I have to go take a look at your profile. I honestly dont believe anyone could be a worse speller than me and press the send button. Maybe the OP is pranking the board? Oh no.... "pranking" has no spelling suggestions... I dont post much but I read a lot. For the regulars here, Im sorry I went on and on in this post like I have been around awhile. I also made an attempt to be funny like you all know me. I know you dont and maybe I took it to far. But the OP post was pretty bizarre. Not the question. The text. OP,,, good luck. Please dont take offense but you got some really good advise towards your question. I dont believe it will help you till you pay attention to your spelling and general writing. Its your first impression when you message someone. You do not need to be perfect. Just make an effort to not appear to be a 3 grade foreign exchange student in his first month of school in the USA. It will make a big difference in being taken seriously.

chatnoire -> RE: why (12/3/2013 8:40:31 PM)
OP, you've received a lot of good advice here. As you haven't come back to the thread you've started, I suspect that you weren't really looking for constructive criticism. Being one of the ones you term a "fack", I decided to have a look at your profile. If you wrote me (and PLEASE don't take that as an invitation!) I wouldn't answer. You have written nothing in your own words to give me a sense of who you are and what you're looking for. I'm not going to waste my time replying to you if you can't make that tiny effort...why should I? My inbox is flooded (and I'm fairly certain this applies to every female here)...what makes you stand out in the crowd? I also suspect, from the myriad cock shots that you have put up, that you are expecting the recipient of your unsolicited email to be so inflamed with lust that the fact that that's all there is won't matter. I'm here to tell you it does matter. You do stand out from the crowd, but not in a good way.

DomMeinCT -> RE: why (12/3/2013 8:43:10 PM)
FR... All that good advice, and yet the dick pics (at CLOSE RANGE, no less) remain.

Spiritedsub2 -> RE: why (12/3/2013 9:31:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT FR... All that good advice, and yet the dick pics (at CLOSE RANGE, no less) remain. Let's hope those pictures stay there, so women get the accurate "picture" of the OP.

DarkSteven -> RE: why (12/3/2013 10:17:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chatnoire As you haven't come back to the thread you've started, I suspect that you weren't really looking for constructive criticism. There seems to be a direct correlation in posters, between the amount of help needed, and the lack of discipline/caring to stick around and digest others' thoughts.

peppermint -> RE: why (12/3/2013 10:41:17 PM)
Thank you for changing your first picture. Now you need to flesh out your profile. Subs and slaves are looking for dominants and masters to be their partners in a relationship. Since your profile has no words I can only go by what you do include to figure out what you do want to find here. You have one dick pix after the other. What you seem to be saying with the pix is that you want to get your dick serviced. Just fucking it not a D/s relationship. Showing your dick is not explaining your experience as a dominant. Just fucking is...well, simply putting peg A into hole A. There is no power exchange there.

Rochsub2009 -> RE: why (12/4/2013 11:39:52 AM)
Giftofcontrol1, I'm a black sub and I'm not fake. Any time you make a broad generalization, you're probably going to be incorrect. So it's best to just avoid making them. As others have said, your profile is completely empty except for a bunch of pictures of your penis. That's not going to attract many women to you. EVERY man has a penis, so you're really not separating yourself from the crowd. Think of your profile as your on-line resume. When you send a message to a woman, she is likely to look at your profile to learn a bit about you. When she sees that it's blank, she probably eliminates you from consideration and blocks your future e-mails. So why not improve your odds of success by actually taking the time to write a profile. I guarantee you that it will be much more interesting to most women than all of those pictures of your penis that you currently have posted. Frankly, all those do is make you look like an idiot. Good luck. -Roch

Kana -> RE: why (12/4/2013 4:07:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: giftofcontrol1 why do the sub's and slave on this site not mail you back after you mail them it does not take long to say no thexs or some mail then just stop mailing you back why no rude b/s just a why i ben on here for lot years my old profile was giftofcontrol it got hack any help here would be good al so why are the black subs slave on here all facks Because they don't like you. Epic sadness, I'm sure but, as unfathomable as it may seem, it's true.

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