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Rochsub2009 -> RE: looking for a mistress and do not know where to start. (12/18/2013 10:23:15 AM)
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ORIGINAL: funguy10
i will not pay for it as to me thats still prostitution.
I understand where you're coming from here, but I disagree. Most domination sessions don't include sex. So it's not really prostitution. More importantly, you can't get arrested for it.
Think of it more like calling a phone sex operator, or paying for a lap dance (Heck, a lap dance can be much closer to prostitution than the typical pro Domme session). You may be limiting yourself by thinking of it as prostitution.
The reality is that there are waaaaaaaaaaaay more submissive guys out there looking for a Domme than there are lifestyle Dommes looking for subs. So for most submissive men, paying for it is the ONLY way they'll ever get to scratch their kinky itch.
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i want the real lifestyle/experience. not a pretend relationship.
But what constitutes "real", and what constitutes "pretend"? I can guarantee you that there are guys on here who have been having a relationship with a pro Domme for YEARS. More importantly, they might just tell you that what they have is very real. Sure, they pay for it, but it can still be quite intense and enjoyable. In fact, I can guarantee you that most pro Dommes will tell you that their long-term customers are their best customers because the time invested does allow them to get to know the man, and to gain a better understanding of his fantasies, personality, limits, etc.
Also, it you are married to a totally vanilla wife, an occasional paid session with a pro Domme might allow you to fulfill your kinky fantasy without actually cheating on your wife.
Based on my answer, you can probably tell that I believe that pro Dommes serve a very important role within the kinky community. Without them filling their niche, many submissive men would die without ever tasting domination. And IMO, that would be a sad, and unnecessary, sacrifice.
Good luck to you.
-Roch
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