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online - 12/3/2013 7:55:02 PM

Cadet200

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what is the best way to go about finding a mistress who wants to play online?

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RE: online - 12/3/2013 8:20:23 PM

peppermint

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The best way is to read through the profiles until you find one who only wants online play. Unfortunately many of those expect to get compensated for the time they spend telling you what to do.

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RE: online - 12/3/2013 8:26:34 PM

MistressDarkArt

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Fastest, easiest, and definitely most probable would be to just head down to the professional services section here and get out your wallet.

I'll let you know up front most women don't enjoy online-only play with someone they've never met and haven't already developed a relationship with. That is why online femdom sites exist, and you will be expected to pay for online play. There is no shame in this, if that's your bag and you can afford it.

Please also remember that pay-for-play (online or in person) is not actual domination. You need a service, she needs money, so in essence you will get whatever you're willing to pay for. Doubtful that would happen in a real-life D/s relationship, where you would have to bring something much more significant and meaningful to the table.

There are also many men masquerading as women and scammers of both sexes who would be more than willing to accommodate you for free. Please do not cam with or send pictures you wouldn't want anybody in the world with an internet connection to view (think 'employers', 'future wives', 'your grandmother').

Welcome to the boards, and best of luck to you.

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RE: online - 12/3/2013 11:40:47 PM

rokkman7456

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Please also remember that pay-for-play (online or in person) is not actual domination. You need a service, she needs money, so in essence you will get whatever you're willing to pay for. Doubtful that would happen in a real-life D/s relationship, where you would have to bring something much more significant and meaningful to the table.

While I agree for the most part with this statement, I have found a Domme who I am in a D/s relationship with that is a little more than pay for play. But I think I am lucky not the norm. I found an ex spanking model turned domme who required a modest tribute but took over most of my life. In the last 7-8 months it has grown into a great relationship and I joke that it cost me less than having a girlfriend (this has made her mad and sometimes I stick both feet in my mouth) I am a very busy business man and don't have the time to answer to someone 24/7 so this works for me. However at anytime she would want more I am ready to give, by that I mean I would devote my life to her. I care for her that much. Meanwhile we try to be as active in each others lives as much as possible. Walked in the door tonight and got a phone call asking me about my day and her telling me about hers, a few days from now I will be getting the daylights whipped out of me for fun. We converse daily, I am under orders all the time, Chastity, behavuior, and once a week I pay her to whip the hell out of me.

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RE: online - 12/4/2013 12:16:53 PM

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