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Can a submissive female like sexually dominant roleplay - 12/7/2013 2:57:38 PM

SexyBoriqua26

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and still be considered submissive , I am submissive, i will only go out or hook up with dom men, but i am also open sexually to most things and I do like my ass worshiped, would it be wrong for me being a submissive to want or ask that my dom worship my ass?

I think worshiping is something a submissive would do to a dom whether thats a mistress asking her sub male to worship her or a dom asking his submissive to worship him or his cock, but i still am keen on having my ass worshiped, i dont really consider myself a switch just that i like some things sexually that might not be considered submissive, i just like my ass worshipped among other things, although am not into anal, but if im with a dom he can nut on my butt after beating my pussy up from behind.

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RE: Can a submissive female like sexually dominant role... - 12/7/2013 3:48:55 PM

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I think you'll find that most responses will be some form of do what you like. If you can find someone else who sees your vision of what a fulfilling relationship is, and what activities go on within that relationship, then that's all you need to know. Why would what anyone else says about it matter?

So ask whoever you are with if he wants to do what you're into, and you'll get your answer whether or not that person considers it submissive or not. Even if he didn't consider it submissive, but wanted to do it, what does it matter what he calls it?
Rock on and find someone to that finds what you like appealing.

I had a Dom that did some less traditional things with me, and I with him, we liked it, it worked, we were happy with things. It never occurred to me to label our activities right or wrong according to our sexual roles.

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RE: Can a submissive female like sexually dominant role... - 12/7/2013 3:54:08 PM

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How are you defining ass worship?

Because you may find a dominant ass man who will do the things you love framed in a dominant context.

And if you aren't into anal per se but he is into anal play... that could be a fun thing and easily framed in a dominant context.

Labels provide a reference point but they also tend to be limiting.

Step beyond the label(s) and a wide world opens.

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RE: Can a submissive female like sexually dominant role... - 12/7/2013 4:40:20 PM

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I'm a bit confused. In my concept of a D/s relationship, the sub can propose anything, and his/her Dom/me either agrees or not. So you're asking if a sub is allowed to say what she likes?

Of course! And the Dom can do with that what he wants.

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RE: Can a submissive female like sexually dominant role... - 12/7/2013 5:33:36 PM

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quote:

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and still be considered submissive , I am submissive, i will only go out or hook up with dom men, but i am also open sexually to most things and I do like my ass worshiped, would it be wrong for me being a submissive to want or ask that my dom worship my ass?

I think worshiping is something a submissive would do to a dom whether thats a mistress asking her sub male to worship her or a dom asking his submissive to worship him or his cock, but i still am keen on having my ass worshiped, i dont really consider myself a switch just that i like some things sexually that might not be considered submissive, i just like my ass worshipped among other things, although am not into anal, but if im with a dom he can nut on my butt after beating my pussy up from behind.

Sure. Just find a dom who's an ass man -- and a lot of them are! For example, I'm dom(ish) and I dated a lady for a while who was dominant but loved to be spanked. So she would be on top while I tanned her ass from below. It was kinda hilarious. The more her butt stung, the more the attacked me. Fun times, as you might imagine.

I'm bilingual in Spanish, and a butt guy myself, so I'm kinda wondering how far away you live. Heh. Best wishes in your search.

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RE: Can a submissive female like sexually dominant role... - 12/7/2013 5:42:13 PM

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thanks all for the responses and feedback, i havent even read them fully yet, i will later.

RedMagic1, i dont know how far we are apart, but if we're close maybe you can come try me

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RE: Can a submissive female like sexually dominant role... - 12/7/2013 5:50:30 PM

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Ok, tiernita, I sent you an email. Who knows? Mientras tanto, un besito para tu culito.

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RE: Can a submissive female like sexually dominant role... - 12/7/2013 6:01:05 PM

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Thanks for the Kiss , we arent to far apart after all

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RE: Can a submissive female like sexually dominant role... - 12/7/2013 6:05:39 PM

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Damn that's a nice photo.

We should take this to the profile side though, pretty lady, before the message board mods tell us to.

I hope you have a wonderful Saturday night.

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RE: Can a submissive female like sexually dominant role... - 12/7/2013 6:07:45 PM

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Whoa that is a big ASS picture....I completely forgot what the question was.

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RE: Can a submissive female like sexually dominant role... - 12/7/2013 6:36:13 PM

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Sorry for Extra large picture of my ass, is it ok to put up pictures ?

< Message edited by SexyBoriqua26 -- 12/7/2013 6:39:51 PM >

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RE: Can a submissive female like sexually dominant role... - 12/7/2013 7:36:46 PM

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It's fine. You might want to shrink the next one.

And if you like posting pictures, there are several threads in Polls and Random Snippets that are devoted to that.

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RE: Can a submissive female like sexually dominant role... - 12/8/2013 9:58:21 AM

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Good luck on convincing your Dom to do that. If he's anything like my Master I think he would look at you like you just grew two heads.

If he agrees to it, then great. But I would consider you both switches at that point. But do what works for you both. Doesn't matter what others think. Just matters whatever you two think.

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RE: Can a submissive female like sexually dominant role... - 12/8/2013 10:01:51 AM

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Hmm... I think I could make an exception in your case.

It certainly is a fantastic ass.

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RE: Can a submissive female like sexually dominant role... - 12/8/2013 1:28:17 PM

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Sings 'love is in the air'!

We want an update you two

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RE: Can a submissive female like sexually dominant role... - 12/9/2013 7:25:04 AM

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What's "ass worship" anyway?

I'm a sub female and I like lots of forms of ass play.

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RE: Can a submissive female like sexually dominant role... - 12/9/2013 7:26:21 AM

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quote:

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Hmm... I think I could make an exception in your case.

It certainly is a fantastic ass.

It's a very spankable ass for sure.

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RE: Can a submissive female like sexually dominant role... - 12/9/2013 7:54:14 AM

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Aint it just!

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RE: Can a submissive female like sexually dominant role... - 12/11/2013 9:46:25 AM

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I think it's all right because a lot of people are into role play.

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RE: Can a submissive female like sexually dominant role... - 12/21/2013 4:59:16 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SexyBoriqua26

and still be considered submissive , I am submissive, i will only go out or hook up with dom men, but i am also open sexually to most things and I do like my ass worshiped, would it be wrong for me being a submissive to want or ask that my dom worship my ass?

I think worshiping is something a submissive would do to a dom whether thats a mistress asking her sub male to worship her or a dom asking his submissive to worship him or his cock, but i still am keen on having my ass worshiped, i dont really consider myself a switch just that i like some things sexually that might not be considered submissive, i just like my ass worshipped among other things, although am not into anal, but if im with a dom he can nut on my butt after beating my pussy up from behind.

First of all, you need to understand that a D is a D, and an /s is an /s, and a D will do exactly what he/she wants/likes to do, no matter how man shades of ignorant your outlook may be, it's all about the D. My favorite snack is pussy, I'll eat it for hours. It doesn't make me submissive, maybe obsessive, but it's still all about me, and if you're getting something out of it as well, woooo hoooo! But, it's still about me.

Sooooo.... You may be under the misguided illusion that me using your ass as my favorite chew toy appears to be ass worship, nope, it's still about me, and you can bank on the fact it always will be.

YMMV

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