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SubMizu -> RE: Why do Dommes Cheat on subs They say that they love? (7/7/2006 6:58:40 PM)
I feel like you're saying this to start a flame war. Cheating has as many definitions as love and not including such details in your comment makes me wonder how serious you are about the answers you may recieve...was your post a question sent in the haze of a 'why me..' moment, or do you really want answers? Respect us enough to give us details before asking a question as loaded as yours. Thank you.

pantysub3 -> RE: Why do Dommes Cheat on subs They say that they love? (7/7/2006 8:29:56 PM)
Mizu, You either didn't read all the posts as i did elaborate on the situation or you just didn't understand them. i am not trying to start a flame war nor will i engage in one with you. Have a Nice Day, panty

pantysub3 -> RE: Why do Dommes Cheat on subs They say that they love? (7/9/2006 7:19:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji pantysub, Of course the answer is more complex. There are always many reasons why people cheat on others, but at the end of the day, it is not all Dommes, not all subs, not all men, not all women - a few out of each group do this, and at the end of the day it doesn't matter why. They suck. Yours, benji Upon much reflection and gut wrenching misery, i have concluded Benji is right at the end of the day it doesn't natter they just suck!!!!!!!

suborslave35 -> RE: Why do Dommes Cheat on subs They say that they love? (7/9/2006 11:04:24 PM)
well this is tricky,but a dom or domme can have as many slaves as they want...If your not a 24/7 SLAVE and told this has become a relationship,then in my opion it's not cheating...there are sex SLAVES,house boy's,financel slaves,butlers,maids plus alot more...If a sub or SLAVE cheats on there Dom or Domme they shouldn't be respected because that's not what a slave or sub should do,they should be more loyal then a Mistress and a Master...plus i feel the word love shouldn't come into play until after many years...this is my opion

pinksissyPA -> RE: Why do Dommes Cheat on subs They say that they love? (7/17/2006 1:50:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Misstoyou What benji said. But it's also a rhetorical question, isn't it? I doubt any of us could tell you why those women in your life, dominant or otherwise, told you one thing and did another, cheated. There is no one size fits all about dominant women, any more than there is about submissive men. i think MisstoYou is correct. Some just like to play around and don't care how the sub or slave will be hurt because they view him or her as inferior. These are usually selfish types who care little about others but all about themselves. Others are just liars who tell so many lies they can't keep track of what they tell to who. Some others are just weak and unable to commit Themselves to another so they lie to cover up their weakness. Either way as several here have said they do suck and are best avoided. pink

chastityboyinOzz -> RE: Why do Dommes Cheat on subs They say that they love? (7/18/2006 12:56:24 AM)
entitlement perhaps.

MisPandora -> RE: Why do Dommes Cheat on subs They say that they love? (7/18/2006 11:41:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pantysub3 This has happened to me more than once and i'm curious as to why They do it? Why tell a sub over a period of months that They love him but then cheat on him? Love for some people comes in different forms, especially when it comes to D/s. I love my friends, but I have others. That doesn't mean I don't value those friends any less than the others. Not all of us love in D/s like they are a monogamous partner. Some of us are poly-minded or polyamorous and feel we have plenty of love to share (and domiance too) and choose to do so with others. Understanding the expectations of all parties involved in the relationship up front and doing a preiodic re-evaluation is essential to a healthy relationship, be it vanilla or BDSM.

MisPandora -> RE: Why do Dommes Cheat on subs They say that they love? (7/18/2006 11:48:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pantysub3 Mizu, You either didn't read all the posts as i did elaborate on the situation or you just didn't understand them. i am not trying to start a flame war nor will i engage in one with you. Have a Nice Day, panty In support of what she said to you, panty, you didn't provide us with much information to start with. Folks shouldn't need to read 100 posts to get the gist of your initial question.

Owned1 -> RE: Why do Dommes Cheat on subs They say that they love? (7/19/2006 11:04:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pantysub3 quote: ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji pantysub, Of course the answer is more complex. There are always many reasons why people cheat on others, but at the end of the day, it is not all Dommes, not all subs, not all men, not all women - a few out of each group do this, and at the end of the day it doesn't matter why. They suck. Yours, benji Upon much reflection and gut wrenching misery, i have concluded Benji is right at the end of the day it doesn't natter they just suck!!!!!!! wait i thought it was us fem subs who sucked <winks> owned

pinksissyPA -> RE: Why do Dommes Cheat on subs They say that they love? (7/19/2006 1:48:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Owned1 quote: ORIGINAL: pantysub3 quote: ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji pantysub, Of course the answer is more complex. There are always many reasons why people cheat on others, but at the end of the day, it is not all Dommes, not all subs, not all men, not all women - a few out of each group do this, and at the end of the day it doesn't matter why. They suck. Yours, benji Upon much reflection and gut wrenching misery, i have concluded Benji is right at the end of the day it doesn't natter they just suck!!!!!!! wait i thought it was us fem subs who sucked <winks> owned LOL Actually although some here may consider it heresy, a Domme giving a BJ can be a very Dominant and controlling act sissy

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