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needlesandpins -> RE: Trust in a D/s relationship (12/9/2013 1:25:41 AM)
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so basically you did like loads of others on this site, you made a profile to make yourself look as appealing as possible, so that you would get some gratification out of it at someone else's expense. you didn't think about being actually honest and having integrity at all, and giving these ladies a choice from the start. let's face it, most women aren't going to touch a married guy with a barge pole. you claim you didn't think it would go past the first message, and yet you have allowed it to carry on to the point where this woman was about to commit to you. see this is where it falls apart completely for me. just how many messages have there been since that first message? exactly how many times have you messaged her since that first time where the first thing you should have done is tell her the truth?
you have no honour, or integrity. the one thing that pisses me off more than anything is lies, and the justifications you use against the other person to do it. it usually involves the biggest pile of crap of all of 'I didn't want to hurt you'. here's a tip; if you know it's going to hurt the other person then stop being a cunt, and don't do the crap that will hurt the other person. it will never cease to amaze me that people will always look at the balance of cheap self gratification, and the pain they know that act will cause another person, but still decide that the cheap thrill is worth the other person's hurt.
I haven't looked at your profile. I don't care what your excuses are because I am not looking. however, if I were to be looking, and found your profile, no amount of honesty now would make up for the fact that I would read this thread. I would see that you have already proved to be a liar. that would be me gone.
needles
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