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RE: Trust in a D/s relationship - 12/8/2013 8:13:02 PM

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I really did not believe that it would get beyond the first message: certainly not to that point. I was wrong and I admit it.

I know that is no excuse, but it is the reason.

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RE: Trust in a D/s relationship - 12/9/2013 1:25:41 AM

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so basically you did like loads of others on this site, you made a profile to make yourself look as appealing as possible, so that you would get some gratification out of it at someone else's expense. you didn't think about being actually honest and having integrity at all, and giving these ladies a choice from the start. let's face it, most women aren't going to touch a married guy with a barge pole. you claim you didn't think it would go past the first message, and yet you have allowed it to carry on to the point where this woman was about to commit to you. see this is where it falls apart completely for me. just how many messages have there been since that first message? exactly how many times have you messaged her since that first time where the first thing you should have done is tell her the truth?

you have no honour, or integrity. the one thing that pisses me off more than anything is lies, and the justifications you use against the other person to do it. it usually involves the biggest pile of crap of all of 'I didn't want to hurt you'. here's a tip; if you know it's going to hurt the other person then stop being a cunt, and don't do the crap that will hurt the other person. it will never cease to amaze me that people will always look at the balance of cheap self gratification, and the pain they know that act will cause another person, but still decide that the cheap thrill is worth the other person's hurt.

I haven't looked at your profile. I don't care what your excuses are because I am not looking. however, if I were to be looking, and found your profile, no amount of honesty now would make up for the fact that I would read this thread. I would see that you have already proved to be a liar. that would be me gone.

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RE: Trust in a D/s relationship - 12/9/2013 4:41:04 AM

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I don't want to pile on, either. (truly) The problem I have is basically the same as everyone else's. You let this go on hoping that she would like/care for you so much that your circumstances wouldn't matter. You were hoping she'd be willing to put aside the rules for the way she lives her life because you are so awesome. That didn't work out for you, and hopefully you've learned an important lesson.

I wish you well moving forward.

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RE: Trust in a D/s relationship - 12/9/2013 4:57:23 AM

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ORIGINAL: poise
This wise and wonderful woman would like to suggest that you further
edit your profile, as you have duplicated the panty-waist boy toy comment.
Unless of course that was intentional, and if so, carry on being honorable and such.

Now, here's a comment I wish you hadn't made Poise.
Because the op has removed his statement but not changed his thoughts on this. He still believes that being emotionally unavailable is a good thing.

He still sneers at anyone who is different from him.

Only now he's not telling people that.

Another lie of omission.

He looks better now at a quick read, but some other poor woman is going to find out the truth the hard way.

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RE: Trust in a D/s relationship - 12/9/2013 4:59:34 AM

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So since you admit you were wrong, everything's cool and you maintain your integrity?

Is that really how your mind works?

Some might think Needle's post a bit harsh, I thought it was spot on.

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RE: Trust in a D/s relationship - 12/9/2013 9:24:29 AM

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i do have a habit of telling it how it is to liars. i hold no quarter with them i'm afraid. did i miss something in the thread while I've been away? anyone care to enlighten me on the other side? i hate when i miss all the fun.

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RE: Trust in a D/s relationship - 12/9/2013 11:07:39 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

quote:

ORIGINAL: poise
This wise and wonderful woman would like to suggest that you further
edit your profile, as you have duplicated the panty-waist boy toy comment.
Unless of course that was intentional, and if so, carry on being honorable and such.

Now, here's a comment I wish you hadn't made Poise.

Darn it! Does this mean I'm not so wise and wonderful after all?

I had trouble finding the motivation to get past that first paragraph, due to the duplicity,
so I thought if he cleared it up, more people would be apt to further read his profile.

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RE: Trust in a D/s relationship - 12/9/2013 3:47:22 PM

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LOL... So it is okay to lose honor because you are afraid of losing.

Damn silly rabbits and rabbit holes.

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