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TheCountryPlace -> The Wisdom of a Dom (12/8/2013 5:42:58 PM)
A good dominant male need not make an offer to a submissive woman for her to become his. It is her choice, and hers alone, to accept him. She cannot be forced, she cannot be coerced, she cannot be bought with jewels and finery. No amount of pressure can bend her against her will. Show kindness, compassion, love, honesty, trustworthiness, and she will be yours forever.

KnightofMists -> RE: The Wisdom of a Dom (12/8/2013 5:48:28 PM)
Well glad that is all cleared up.... I was alittle hazy on the issue. I am curious.... Did you get this from a fortune cookie..... Or a Hallmark card?

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: The Wisdom of a Dom (12/8/2013 5:54:06 PM)
lol

RedMagic1 -> RE: The Wisdom of a Dom (12/8/2013 6:01:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheCountryPlace she cannot be bought with jewels and finery. Are you sure? I think there are quite a few sub women who'd like a man to take care of them, meaning financially and otherwise. It's even the stereotypical fantasy -- to be a powerful man's 24/7 sex slave, doll, or toy.

DesFIP -> RE: The Wisdom of a Dom (12/8/2013 6:52:48 PM)
This is not the forum to place your personal ad in. You're allowed to do that once in Introductions.

OsideGirl -> RE: The Wisdom of a Dom (12/8/2013 6:58:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheCountryPlace she cannot be bought with jewels and finery. Wrong. Some can definitely be bought. And if you look beyond the "being bought" statement, there is something appealing about a partner that is financially stable. quote: ORIGINAL: TheCountryPlace Show kindness, compassion, love, honesty, trustworthiness, and she will be yours forever. Wrong again. Sometimes things just don't work between two people and it has nothing to do with a lack of love, a lack of compassion, a lack of honesty or a lack of trustworthiness. Sometimes regardless of how much you love someone, your personalities just don't mesh. So, thanks for proving, once again, that sweeping generalizations fail.

DarkSteven -> RE: The Wisdom of a Dom (12/8/2013 8:02:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheCountryPlace A good dominant male need not make an offer to a submissive woman for her to become his. It is her choice, and hers alone, to accept him. She cannot be forced, she cannot be coerced, she cannot be bought with jewels and finery. No amount of pressure can bend her against her will. Show kindness, compassion, love, honesty, trustworthiness, and she will be yours forever. WTF? I'm a Dom. I do things my way, and don't need any lectures on the right way to do it. And what's this bit about bending her against her will? Are you saying that nonconsensuality is out? Or that she'll never change her mind?

poise -> RE: The Wisdom of a Dom (12/8/2013 8:06:40 PM)
I think you are suffering from a mad case of tootingyourownhornaphobia. I hope it isn't contagious. [:'(]

RedMagic1 -> RE: The Wisdom of a Dom (12/8/2013 8:52:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: poise I think you are suffering from a mad case of tootingyourownhornaphobia. I hope it isn't contagious. [:'(] Fear of tooting one's own horn? Not sure that's the word you wanted.....

Blonderfluff -> RE: The Wisdom of a Dom (12/8/2013 8:55:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 quote: ORIGINAL: poise I think you are suffering from a mad case of tootingyourownhornaphobia. I hope it isn't contagious. [:'(] Fear of tooting one's own horn? Not sure that's the word you wanted..... I'll help He has tootingyourownhornitis!!!!

poise -> RE: The Wisdom of a Dom (12/8/2013 8:58:52 PM)
Blonderfluff for the win! Beep Beep [8D]

SeekingTrinity -> RE: The Wisdom of a Dom (12/8/2013 9:33:54 PM)
~FRing it~ You talk of trustworthiness and honesty. Was that before or after you posted the following thread: Trust in a D/s relationship? Inquiring minds want to know... A) Are you genetically related in any way to Pinnochio? B) Do your pants routinely combust spontaneously? C) Do churches collapse around you when you enter them? Given what you said in the other thread, are you honestly in any sort of position to dispense with this wisdom? I personally love it when someone clearly doesn't follow the same advice that they preach to others about.

DesFIP -> RE: The Wisdom of a Dom (12/8/2013 9:58:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 Are you sure? I think there are quite a few sub women who'd like a man to take care of them, meaning financially and otherwise. It's even the stereotypical fantasy -- to be a powerful man's 24/7 sex slave, doll, or toy. If it's that or doing laundry, I know which one I'd pick.

seekingreality -> RE: The Wisdom of a Dom (12/9/2013 12:16:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheCountryPlace A good dominant male need not make an offer to a submissive woman for her to become his. It is her choice, and hers alone, to accept him. She cannot be forced, she cannot be coerced, she cannot be bought with jewels and finery. No amount of pressure can bend her against her will. Show kindness, compassion, love, honesty, trustworthiness, and she will be yours forever. Be honest: After you wrote this, you played some harp music and read it over and over, thinking, "Damn - I am soooooooooo wise, and the chicks are going to dig it."

AthenaSurrenders -> RE: The Wisdom of a Dom (12/9/2013 12:29:23 AM)
fr Just to further pile on - I also disagree that she cannot be forced or coerced. I've met many a good woman who was very much forced and/or coerced into submitting to a dominant male. It's called 'domestic abuse' and it's incredibly common. Good dominants don't do it, but it doesn't mean it can't be done.

ResidentSadist -> RE: The Wisdom of a Dom (12/9/2013 3:20:42 AM)
What a crock of consensual bullshit. All you need is white van, no neighbors and a basement. Who taught you that shit . . . a women? Man up dude. Get your slaves the old fashioned way . . . with a van.

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: The Wisdom of a Dom (12/9/2013 3:59:14 AM)
What a nice fun thread to wake up to. The OP is making quite a name for himself here, though not in the way he had hoped, I'm guessing. The sad side is, there appear to be sub women who buy into his drivel.

crazyml -> RE: The Wisdom of a Dom (12/9/2013 4:01:54 AM)
Ah. This has been well covered by the other posters on this thread.

xxblushesxx -> RE: The Wisdom of a Dom (12/9/2013 4:25:41 AM)
But it was a really fun read!

crazyml -> RE: The Wisdom of a Dom (12/9/2013 6:07:37 AM)
No getting around that one!

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