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RE: Hello, how come the mods haven't replied to me? - 12/11/2013 8:50:11 AM   
kalikshama


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While men who are married and cheating MAY have a hidden profile, it does not mean that EVERY man with a hidden profile is married and cheating, so I wonder why you and various others from this site insist on propagating that rumor? And, I do wonder...do you also believe that women with hidden profiles are married and cheating?

By the way...I am not married. I am not cheating. And my profile is hidden. I have my own reasons for hiding my profile, and none of them have anything to do with infidelity or any other nefarious reason.


My only bad experience with a man from this site was with someone whose profile was hidden, so yes, it would send up red flags for me.

When women's profiles are hidden, my first guess is that they are tired of getting messages like this: Funny Messages from the "Other Side" because I have heard that often from women here.

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RE: Hello, how come the mods haven't replied to me? - 12/11/2013 8:51:28 AM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		So, let's see if I've got this right:

1) You didn't contact the Moderators, you contacted Site Support and don't know the difference.

2) You came to the forums, which have nothing to do with the profiles on the other side, to complain about what is happening on the other side.

3) You don't see his profile, but still don't trust him.

4) You somehow think that Site Support would give you information about an account that isn't yours.

5) And you asked Site Support for that information because you don't trust him.

You may wish to work on your problem solving skills, patience levels and....probably end your relationship because I think you're probably beyond getting it to be healthy if you don't trust him to the level where you don't believe even what you're seeing.

I think it's hysterical that you can't see his profile and STILL don't trust him. You needs a third party to verify.

< Message edited by OsideGirl -- 12/11/2013 8:53:03 AM >

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RE: Hello, how come the mods haven't replied to me? - 12/11/2013 8:56:50 AM   
kalikshama


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I'm trying to confirm whether my BF really closed his account or just hid it or whatever. Is it my business? Hell yeah. Will the mods agree? Well...idk. If not, then they can tell me that.


OP - when I suspected a man I was seeing was lying to me, I did some internet snooping which led me to contact info for third parties who could confirm my suspicions. At that point, I realized that since I felt the need to do that, the relationship was doomed, and dumped him. I didn't want to be with someone I couldn't trust.

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RE: Hello, how come the mods haven't replied to me? - 12/11/2013 8:58:41 AM   
freedomdwarf1


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ORIGINAL: TooInvolved2

Do you all give unsolicited psych advice like this a lot?

It's an OPEN forum on a FREE site.
Anyone can (and probably will) profer advice on what you post in here.

Oside's post was a good one - worth taking heed of.
And, FWIW, a lot of those on here are very experienced and are life-stylers for many years.

If you want to learn anything at all - learn to listen from experienced people.
Often their advice is priceless.


ETA: A good example -
quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama
OP - when I suspected a man I was seeing was lying to me, I did some internet snooping which led me to contact info for third parties who could confirm my suspicions. At that point, I realized that since I felt the need to do that, the relationship was doomed, and dumped him. I didn't want to be with someone I couldn't trust.

Well said!


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RE: Hello, how come the mods haven't replied to me? - 12/11/2013 8:58:48 AM   
TooInvolved2


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RE: Hello, how come the mods haven't replied to me? - 12/11/2013 9:00:12 AM   
TooInvolved2


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RE: Hello, how come the mods haven't replied to me? - 12/11/2013 9:11:39 AM   
Apocalypso


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RE: Hello, how come the mods haven't replied to me? - 12/11/2013 9:14:50 AM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: TooInvolved2

At least the stamp above your avatar is correct...


Really?

I'm not here asking Site Support to monitor my husband's account on this site.

I have enough sense to know that that Moderators here don't have anything to do with the other side.

I have enough sense to know that a bunch of forum members aren't going to have the answers about what the administrators of this site are doing.

I have enough sense to know that Site Support isn't going to give me information about someone else's account.

Which are all things that you couldn't figure out. So, perhaps you shouldn't be insulting other people. Actually, you may wish to take a step back and try to figure out why you're making irrational actions/decisions.

And again.....you distrust your BF so much that even though you can't see his profile, you STILL don't believe him.


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RE: Hello, how come the mods haven't replied to me? - 12/11/2013 9:16:11 AM   
VideoAdminDelta


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Status: offline 		Support is the place to go with questions or concerns about profiles/accounts. If support does not handle your specific question, they will direct you to the appropriate person/department who can. Per policy, we do not disclose user information to others.

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RE: Hello, how come the mods haven't replied to me? - 12/11/2013 9:20:23 AM   
TooInvolved2


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RE: Hello, how come the mods haven't replied to me? - 12/11/2013 9:36:35 AM   
freedomdwarf1


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ORIGINAL: TooInvolved2
Thank you.

Of course, all of this is available at the bottom of every page in the "Privacy Policy" link - if you bothered to look!!

quote:

ORIGINAL: (excerpt from the Privacy Policy)...
It is our policy not to use or share the personal information about Visitors or Members in ways unrelated to those described in this Policy... <snip>

You were soo incensed with mistrust that you didn't even think to look at the site policy.
And someone of your age should really know better too.


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RE: Hello, how come the mods haven't replied to me? - 12/11/2013 9:42:32 AM   
LittleForDaddy31


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... Oh, wait.

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RE: Hello, how come the mods haven't replied to me? - 12/11/2013 9:48:24 AM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: LittleForDaddy31

Is there a link I can click on to remove cattiness?

... Oh, wait.


Yup, the little red X in the upper right hand corner.


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RE: Hello, how come the mods haven't replied to me? - 12/11/2013 2:42:41 PM   
stef


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ORIGINAL: TooInvolved2

Thank you.

You're welcome. I'm happy that I was able to answer your question.

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RE: Hello, how come the mods haven't replied to me? - 12/11/2013 4:41:01 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: TooInvolved2

Do you all give unsolicited psych advice like this a lot?


Only to those who need it.

(We're all paid professionals).

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RE: Hello, how come the mods haven't replied to me? - 12/11/2013 4:43:24 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

So, let's see if I've got this right:

1) You didn't contact the Moderators, you contacted Site Support and don't know the difference.

2) You came to the forums, which have nothing to do with the profiles on the other side, to complain about what is happening on the other side.

3) You don't see his profile, but still don't trust him.

4) You somehow think that Site Support would give you information about an account that isn't yours.

5) And you asked Site Support for that information because you don't trust him.

You may wish to work on your problem solving skills, patience levels and....probably end your relationship because I think you're probably beyond getting it to be healthy if you don't trust him to the level where you don't believe even what you're seeing.

I think it's hysterical that you can't see his profile and STILL don't trust him. You needs a third party to verify.


WHOAH the fuck WHOAH!!!!!!!

This person has asked for our help....I think a little consideration is called for here!!!!!

(Not that I actually give a fuck....but I was kinda hoping someone did....looks like the percentages are off for you bud!)

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RE: Hello, how come the mods haven't replied to me? - 12/11/2013 5:22:48 PM   
JstAnotherSub


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ORIGINAL: TooInvolved2

I asked a question last week but no reply... Are they usually slow? TIA

You must not know the secret handshake.

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RE: Hello, how come the mods haven't replied to me? - 12/11/2013 5:30:43 PM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie


quote:

ORIGINAL: TooInvolved2

Do you all give unsolicited psych advice like this a lot?


Only to those who need it.

(We're all paid professionals).
I'm an unpaid professional. Does that count?

quote:

ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

WHOAH the fuck WHOAH!!!!!!!

This person has asked for our help....I think a little consideration is called for here!!!!!


I was considerate. Not once did I type "WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU?"


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RE: Hello, how come the mods haven't replied to me? - 12/11/2013 5:46:38 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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Status: offline 		OP, you've received the answer to your original question. As for the rest, once a thread is created it takes on a life of its own and won't subside until everyone has their say. You can help it die a timely death by not responding further.

You can also try using this: and hope for the best.

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RE: Hello, how come the mods haven't replied to me? - 12/11/2013 5:50:18 PM   
freedomdwarf1


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ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt
You can also try using this: and hope for the best.

You're a spoilsport MDA!!

Ya knows we don't like letting the mouse run away until we've finished playing with them! 

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