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new here, domme in training - 12/11/2013 8:12:10 AM

mizzshy

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I've recently started dating my pet, he has been a sub for 17 years and I am so very new to this. I'm looking for a little help. I've been doing a lot of online research and maybe I'm just going to the wrong places but it's not been very helpful. I'm looking to make a lifestyle change not just a playtime change :)

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RE: new here, domme in training - 12/11/2013 8:22:18 AM

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Hello and welcome to the discussion side of the site. There is a lot of good reading material here, maybe you will find the info it that you seek.

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RE: new here, domme in training - 12/11/2013 8:23:07 AM

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Hi. I dont quite got my head wrapped around lifestyle change as you perceive it, but you probably wanna slosh around a great deal in ask a mistress starting at the FAQs if I do at all perceive it correctly.

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RE: new here, domme in training - 12/11/2013 8:40:58 AM

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What I meant by lifestyle change is that I've been questioned if being Domme for me was just in the bedroom or the whole relationship. Thank you for the advice.

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RE: new here, domme in training - 12/11/2013 10:24:41 AM

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Hi, welcome to the discussion side of the site.

There are people here with lots of different types of experience, so jump right in to a conversation that interests you. Don't be shy about starting threads yourself with any questions you may have (generally, more specific questions get better answers than asking for general tips). Even though the boards are titled things like 'Ask A Mistress' people can and do post in any forum they like, so you will get a good range of viewpoints.

Maybe you could start a thread asking for the information you haven't found yet on websites. We don't bite though you will get straight-talking.

Look forward to seeing you around.

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RE: new here, domme in training - 12/11/2013 9:15:56 PM

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Welcome! Like learning anything new, take your time, ask lots of questions, experiment, practice, laugh a lot, and most importantly, listen to your heart. Best of luck!

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RE: new here, domme in training - 12/12/2013 6:29:34 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mizzshy

I've recently started dating my pet, he has been a sub for 17 years and I am so very new to this. I'm looking for a little help. I've been doing a lot of online research and maybe I'm just going to the wrong places but it's not been very helpful. I'm looking to make a lifestyle change not just a playtime change :)

http://www.akashaweb.com/goodgirl.html

Also, check out this book, and others in the BDSM Book List at the top of the General forum.

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/1890159190/ref=pd_sim_books_1/104-2331621-3850313?v=glance&s=books

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RE: new here, domme in training - 12/12/2013 7:49:12 AM

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Welcome to the discussion side, you'll find lots of information here.

If you have some specific questions, I'm sure the members will be happy to respond.

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