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My 3rd or 4th attempt so far - 12/13/2013 7:05:09 PM

dextersinister3

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That is, to successfully create an account, get the profile filled out, log out, and then not forget the password. :)

How much introduction would you like? Can you guide me where to start? I'm in South Bend, IN, which to my knowledge doesn't have a BDSM scene. (If it does, I'd like to be introduced some day.) I have so much I'd like to say, so much to ask, and it all wants to come rushing out of me. I'll try to be restrained. (I'd like to be restrained.)

I'm a novice sub. I have fantasies that probably far exceed my actual limitations, but still, they are fantasies I'm working toward making true. At one point, I was nearly 600 pounds after being athletic for several years and taking an injury. I'm now down to 355, and once I get down to 300, my doctor will refer me for a panniculectomy--a lap reduction. The reason I say all this is that I have been determined to make myself fit so I can be the whole sexual being I was meant to be, and that includes submission. I suppose I can post an ad in a category I haven't found yet, but I'll look. In the meantime, please be kind if I step on anyone's toes. After a lifetime of dreaming of living the scene, I'm intending to make it there, maybe even on my own terms. Please wish me luck!

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RE: My 3rd or 4th attempt so far - 12/13/2013 7:11:34 PM

DarkSteven

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*Chuckle* What a great, if ambidextrous, username! How do you come by your Latin?

Just letting you know, there's some info about panniculectomies here: http://www.collarchat.com/m_4538057/tm.htm

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RE: My 3rd or 4th attempt so far - 12/13/2013 8:00:15 PM

ChatteParfaitt

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Welcome to the discussion side Dexter. Good luck.

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RE: My 3rd or 4th attempt so far - 12/13/2013 8:19:10 PM

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There are 541 members in the Fetlife South Bend group. Their December munch is dedicated to collecting toys for Toys for Tots. You might be wise to join Fetlife (it is free). Use "South Bend" as your search term and you will be directed to the group. Join the group. You will then be able to find out what is happening in your city.

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RE: My 3rd or 4th attempt so far - 12/13/2013 10:24:01 PM

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Hello and welcome to the discussion side, nice to have you join us and best of luck to you.

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RE: My 3rd or 4th attempt so far - 12/13/2013 11:22:18 PM

dextersinister3

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Thank you all so much! That'll tell you what kind of novice I am: I had no idea Fetlife even existed. <smh>

ETA: Oh, and I come by my Latin second-hand. :)

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RE: My 3rd or 4th attempt so far - 12/15/2013 2:49:33 PM

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You are welcome. I noticed that the South Bend group now has 542 members.

By the way, do you now what a munch is?

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We are stardust, we are golden, and we got to get ourselves back to the garden.

Yes, I am crazy about feathered creatures. I have a dozen chickens, 3 ducks, 5 geese, and 2 parakeets.

Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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RE: My 3rd or 4th attempt so far - 12/16/2013 10:08:09 PM

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RE: My 3rd or 4th attempt so far - 12/17/2013 6:10:53 AM

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Hi Dexter, I am the one who started the pannus removal thread that DS mentioned. So far, no more rashes so I am going to work on my weight more after Christmas (get the ball out and the elliptical bike out of Mom's room, we live in a small trailer).

Check out the munches when you can. There are none in my area so when I can I go to one in Austin (depends on funds and if I am seeing my daughter).

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RE: My 3rd or 4th attempt so far - 12/18/2013 8:52:38 AM

m2whore

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How ddid this. post end. up in my thred???

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RE: My 3rd or 4th attempt so far - 12/18/2013 9:32:00 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: m2whore

How ddid this. post end. up in my thred???

This is NOT YOUR THREAD. Have you been drinking?

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We are stardust, we are golden, and we got to get ourselves back to the garden.

Yes, I am crazy about feathered creatures. I have a dozen chickens, 3 ducks, 5 geese, and 2 parakeets.

Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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