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Has anyone ever.... - 12/13/2013 8:33:12 PM   
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Alright, has anyone ever tried to argue with a 20 month old, blonde male child with a stubborn streak that defies definition and a damn good idea of personal property?

This evening, my wonderful nephew Damian entered my room and:

Grabbed 1, one, of my shoes, yelled "Mine!" and took off with it. I found it under his pillow on his bed.

A short time later, he entered my room, grabbed my cell phone, yelled "Mine" and took off out of the room with an evil maniacal laugh.

I followed in hot pursuit, taunted by that evil laugh and finally cornered him under the Christmas tree. I retrieved my phone, gave him a scolding, and returned to my room.

Just a few minutes ago, his mother announced it was time for him to go to bed.

He ran into my room, grabbed my comforter and a pillow, repeated the battle cry "Mine!" and took off toward his room. I discovered that he also had his grandmother's quilt, two of her pillows, the dog bed for Bear, my brother in law's dog that he had to leave here because he is now a trainer for the trucking company he works for, and every one of the dogs chew bones.

While retrieving my property, he glared at me from under his bangs (his mom will not let me get the boy a military high and tight haircut) which was eerily like the looks that the kid in the first Omen movie gave people.

Grandmother got her quilt after a short tug of war, his mother got bear's bed (damian was trying to lie in it while on his bed) and there is still a battle of wills going on about grandmother's pillows and the dogs' bones. Mom and grandmother are talking to him, the dogs are whining, and the little dude is laughing like a hyena on nos.

Can the terrible twos start early, I mean it has been almost thirty years since I dealt with a toddler, so I dont remember. (might be selective amnesia)

He also has tried to wear my pocket tees, my green bay hoodie, and my Braves baseball hat.

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RE: Has anyone ever.... - 12/13/2013 10:13:04 PM   
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The great thing about having dogs is that you can just let them sleep in the yard when they get like that, and nobody is going to call children's services on you.

Seems he's done a good job of beating bedtime though.

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RE: Has anyone ever.... - 12/14/2013 2:52:44 PM   
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I know you have mentioned the way Damian laughs.
I think at times you are amused by it (when it isn't directed at you).
I would suggest you don't do anything to encourage it.
He is old enough to learn it isn't "nice".

He is old enough to learn (albeit slowly perhaps) that taking things that aren't yours is wrong.

And yes, Damian is going through the terrible twos.
Being consistent is so important at this age.

Perhaps you could get him a Packers hoodie of his own... and a Braves hat.



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RE: Has anyone ever.... - 12/14/2013 4:26:53 PM   
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Perhaps you could get him a Packers hoodie of his own... and a Braves hat.




My sister and niece are Pittsburgh stinkers fans. As for baseball, they could care less.

I think most of this is a game to him. He has become so good at entertaining himself, or playing with the dogs, that he just decides that he wants someone else involved.

And tell me, have you ever known a child to be cooperative at bed time?


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RE: Has anyone ever.... - 12/14/2013 4:54:12 PM   
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A simple NO, no laughing. items taken back and him put to bed would work.

Yes as a grand parent its easy to find it funny, but in the long term it doesn't help the child learn boundaries.

Im not perfect, and when mini monster does some things, we all just collapse, but she knows the boundries.

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RE: Has anyone ever.... - 12/14/2013 5:14:44 PM   
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They can be taught to enjoy bedtime.

And in the meantime, even though he is enjoying his entertainments and may want to share them, you can still teach him there is a time and a place.

They don't teach themselves... or at least they shouldn't have to.

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RE: Has anyone ever.... - 12/14/2013 5:42:35 PM   
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I understand what everyone is saying, as I said, some of it is the desire for one of us adults to play with him.

His mother recently was switched to days, and when she was a closing manager, she spent the day with damian playing and just spending time with him.

My sis was also involved in his daily activities.

Lately, most days, I am helping neighbors deal with feral hogs, then come home, sleep a bit and go back out at night to try and eliminate some of them, so I am have not been around much to play his favorite game, "Gonna get the Damian." Which involves chasing him, catching him and tickling him, or what ever. If it is nice, he and I spent a lot of time outside.

My sis is doing holiday baking and making holiday fudge, candies and other things, she can get him to "help" for a while, then he wants to do something else.

As for bed time, we recently got him his own bed, and he has finally begun sleeping in his room alone. Before he was either with my sister or his mom. We are trying to get him to go to sleep by himself, or with one of the dogs that routinely slept next to his crib. It was shortly after this began that he began getting whatever he could to get as many people in his room as possible.

Once he is out, there is no problems, he sleeps through the night, or if the dogs wake him in the morning, depending on who got up with the dogs, is what determines what he does at that time. If I am the only one up, he gives me a smile, says "Morning PopPop" holds his arms up for a hug, and goes back to bed.

If he sees his mom getting ready to leave for work, or his grandma, he is awake and a 22 month old human version of the energizer bunny. Unless we somehow manage to get the dogs to accept the idea it is still dark and they should be asleep and not using the house as their version of the Indy 500 track.

If I go back to my room and go back to bed first, within five minutes he has climbed up on my bed, climbed over me, over Blu and under the covers next to the wall, with his arms around blu, who is also under the covers and sharing Damian's pillow.

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RE: Has anyone ever.... - 12/15/2013 6:46:34 AM   
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You folks need a bedtime routine. Meaning quiet games after dinner. Then bath, then in bed listening to stories being read. Every single day.
Children need a routine.

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How to get a child to go to sleep - 12/15/2013 7:19:46 AM   
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My parents read to all of us until we fell asleep. (I probably started reading myself to sleep after my brother was born when I was 7.) This instilled a love of reading in me that has served me well all my life.

Do you have Good Night Moon?

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RE: How to get a child to go to sleep - 12/15/2013 10:57:03 AM   
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could he be having some kind of issue with moving to his own bed...., the extra space? one of mine would want to have strange stuff surrounding him after he moved over to a bed... which is only a problem if he plays with them. when put to bed he could say gnite, but only have one toy under the blanket with him.... his favourite was an old remote control unit.
apart from the terrible twos starting which actually morphs into the teens pretty quick...
just a thought....
I was fairly strict with mine, they turned out well so far, but more than anything, be sure to use boundaries, but ENJOY the hell out of him, they are incredible years. Id do anything to go back then and enjoy them again...this time not so tired.

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