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Gone but not forgotten - 12/15/2013 6:36:11 AM

piggysqueals

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Greetings Everyone,

I am not new to the Lifestyle, nor am I uneducated as to the deeper aspects of the Lifestyle(s), and please do not attempt to treat me as such. While in some circles it is believed a person is considered to be "confused" if they say they are a "Switch"; as they simply do not know what they want in the Lifestyle(s), because they are to new or to under-educated to the deeper aspects of things; make no mistake I am neither and yet I consider myself to be a Switch. I served as a slave for a very long time in my life, and yet I am not one anymore, so please do not think of me as such or attempt to treat me as lesser than you. Yet on the other hand I am well enough educated and strong enough mentally, emotionally, and skilled enough to be a Pro, should I have chosen to pursue such a life, and yet because of my past I chose only to be someone's equal. Thus I do not wish to be addressed as a Dominant, so thus I choose the term "Switch" and I choose to be treated as an equal to those whom I choose deal with.

Hopefully people understand that I am not interested in getting to know any submissives, because no offensive to them, but I have nothing in which to offer them. I am here simply to look for some answers to things about the Lifestyle in the deeper aspects. So the only people I am interested in finding or getting to know would be people who are well educated Dominants (Master/Mistress's) who've been in the Lifestyle for years and know about the deeper psychological aspects of Lifestyle(s). I keep stating "Lifestyle(s)" because their are many facets and aspects to the BD/SM world from D/s to 24/7, and even S&M, and then the Fetishes themselves, and then their is the darkest aspects in which you won't find in public forums or outside of very closes circles and groups that aren't making webpages to make themselves known, who are extremely skilled in a lot of cases beyond what you find in most other places. Which is usually made up of Professionals and very rich people who don't worry about how much something is going to cost...

Hopefully people will be able to figure out for themselves if they are one of the types of people I am seeking out to learn some things from, because I am not interested in wasting my time or anyone else's by not being 100% upfront and 100% honest about why I am here and what I am searching to find by returning to the Lifestyle at this time. Thanks for taking the time to read this posting, and making your own decision if I am worth your time in turn as well.

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RE: Gone but not forgotten - 12/15/2013 6:42:25 AM

smartsub10

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Welcome to the forums, piggy.

Ask questions but please know that anyone including submissives will answer your question or contribute opinions. It's an open forum.

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RE: Gone but not forgotten - 12/15/2013 7:39:31 AM

ChatteParfaitt

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Welcome to the discussion side Piggy. There are all types on this forum, dom, sub, switch, with all levels of experience from brand spanking new to years of real time experience.

Most of them bring something beneficial to the discussion table, regardless of orientation or skill level.

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RE: Gone but not forgotten - 12/15/2013 8:11:16 AM

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I think I saw Kermit around here somewhere...

Welcome back!

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RE: Gone but not forgotten - 12/15/2013 12:14:46 PM

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I am well aware that anyone can answer the posts and such, I am just being upfront and honest in saying that I am not interested in a submissive, so they need not message me and beg to be mine, as already has happened in 30-mins of being here on this site.

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RE: Gone but not forgotten - 12/15/2013 12:21:17 PM

ChatteParfaitt

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Whatever you say here in the forums does not automatically get messaged to every possible match for you on the profile side. Very few from the profile side even visit the forums, and frankly many of them don't bother reading profiles.

You can state you're not looking all you want, as long as your profile is not hidden, you will continue to get messages.

I don't respond to 99% of the messages I receive unless they're from those I know from the forums. If you're really not interested, block and delete are your friends.

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RE: Gone but not forgotten - 12/15/2013 12:31:32 PM

kalikshama

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When I was looking, I spent very little space on what I didn't want, and never at the top of my profile. Instead, I focused on drawing what I did want to me, and I have succeeded in doing so.

Delete and Block are your friends. Good luck to you.

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RE: Gone but not forgotten - 12/15/2013 2:05:32 PM

Rasciallymisty

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Hello and welcome to the discussion side of the site which has now been explained a few times to you what its all about. I am sure if you are getting message its not coming from this side as you have a profile on the other side. There are some great discussions on this side maybe partake in a few.

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RE: Gone but not forgotten - 12/15/2013 4:33:27 PM

LittleGirlHeart

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That will happen no matter what you do or don't say. some guys and gals just do not read profiles, or thnk they're so special what you say or want doesn't apply to them.

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ORIGINAL: piggysqueals

I am well aware that anyone can answer the posts and such, I am just being upfront and honest in saying that I am not interested in a submissive, so they need not message me and beg to be mine, as already has happened in 30-mins of being here on this site.

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RE: Gone but not forgotten - 12/16/2013 1:37:33 PM

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Welcome to the forums! Definitely check out the sub-forums for discussion of some of the finer points of Lifestyle(s).

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