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ng33m -> Christmas gifts (12/22/2013 9:33:32 PM)
I'm just wondering...how common or uncommon it is for dommes to give their personal subs christmas gifts?

Rawni -> RE: Christmas gifts (12/22/2013 9:47:59 PM)
I buy gifts throughout the year, for all sorts of reasons.

LafayetteLady -> RE: Christmas gifts (12/22/2013 9:50:00 PM)
If you are in an intimate relationship with them, why would you not give them a Christmas gift? Surely you expect one from them? Wait, I see you are a sub. so reverse that. Surely she expects one from you. Is she so narcissistic that she believes allowing you to be her sub is enough of a gift?

ng33m -> RE: Christmas gifts (12/22/2013 10:03:44 PM)
She is married and we are not intimate, but I do serve her in all other aspects, lots of housework, massages, not as much play as I would like and that bothers me as well since I've been with her for 20 months. I got her a great the gift the best gift she has gotten in a long time, I wish I recorded it so I could see ther facial expression over and over. We had to do it early cause her daughter came home from college, so I set up a little tree for her with several gifts underneath and suprised her when she got home from work and she opened them saving the best one for last which I wrapped in six seperate boxes, with little notes on each one. The first one after the orignal box reading "oh no he didn't" and the second one reading "yes he did" anyway it was very exciting, even now thinking about it makes me smile. I did get a hug though, but that's it

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Christmas gifts (12/22/2013 10:21:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ng33m I'm just wondering...how common or uncommon it is for dommes to give their personal subs christmas gifts? I give my sub gifts, at the holidays and otherwise. Why not? NBMG

MistressDarkArt -> RE: Christmas gifts (12/23/2013 12:08:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ng33m I got her a great the gift the best gift she has gotten in a long time, I wish I recorded it so I could see ther facial expression over and over. We had to do it early cause her daughter came home from college, so I set up a little tree for her with several gifts underneath and suprised her when she got home from work and she opened them saving the best one for last which I wrapped in six seperate boxes, with little notes on each one. The first one after the orignal box reading "oh no he didn't" and the second one reading "yes he did" anyway it was very exciting, even now thinking about it makes me smile. I did get a hug though, but that's it Your 'box in a box' sounds like a clever, lovely gift. Your dominant is married. It sounds as if her family comes first, and there is only a very small space left over for you. Thoughtful subs that actually serve without their dick getting in the way will be sought after much more than the legions of do-me types out there. If you're not getting what you need out of this relationship, someone else might be more compatible. Just a thought; maybe seek an unattached partner next. Best of luck :-) Welcome to the boards, btw.

shadowborn61 -> RE: Christmas gifts (12/23/2013 6:42:03 AM)
my Dad used to love christmas and he would wrap something you wanted very badly in a box for something you had no use or desire for with very thin wrapping paper or hide a large gift and put a note in a small box that told you where the next note would be and run you all over the house until finally you found the note that told you where the present was. One of my sons present this year my wife has wrapped then taken clear box tape and taped the entire package completely with that and then wrapped it again with wrapping paper. That should slow him down a little [;)]

DarkSteven -> RE: Christmas gifts (12/23/2013 7:43:38 AM)
If their subs are disobedient, they get fruitcake.

LafayetteLady -> RE: Christmas gifts (12/23/2013 11:53:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ng33m She is married and we are not intimate, but I do serve her in all other aspects, lots of housework, massages, not as much play as I would like and that bothers me as well since I've been with her for 20 months. I got her a great the gift the best gift she has gotten in a long time, I wish I recorded it so I could see ther facial expression over and over. We had to do it early cause her daughter came home from college, so I set up a little tree for her with several gifts underneath and suprised her when she got home from work and she opened them saving the best one for last which I wrapped in six seperate boxes, with little notes on each one. The first one after the orignal box reading "oh no he didn't" and the second one reading "yes he did" anyway it was very exciting, even now thinking about it makes me smile. I did get a hug though, but that's it Does her husband know about you? If not, then you are nothing but someone who offers her services she wishes not to do, like cleaning house. Although, most people who can afford a maid at least give them a cash bonus during the holidays. In my opinion, her not giving you a gift tells me you really don't mean that much to her.

ng33m -> RE: Christmas gifts (12/23/2013 12:00:20 PM)
It was a lovly gift, not to brag, but it really was and I'm kind of proud about it, despite everything else going on and thanks for the welcome

ng33m -> RE: Christmas gifts (12/23/2013 12:02:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady quote: ORIGINAL: ng33m She is married and we are not intimate, but I do serve her in all other aspects, lots of housework, massages, not as much play as I would like and that bothers me as well since I've been with her for 20 months. I got her a great the gift the best gift she has gotten in a long time, I wish I recorded it so I could see ther facial expression over and over. We had to do it early cause her daughter came home from college, so I set up a little tree for her with several gifts underneath and suprised her when she got home from work and she opened them saving the best one for last which I wrapped in six seperate boxes, with little notes on each one. The first one after the orignal box reading "oh no he didn't" and the second one reading "yes he did" anyway it was very exciting, even now thinking about it makes me smile. I did get a hug though, but that's it Does her husband know about you? If not, then you are nothing but someone who offers her services she wishes not to do, like cleaning house. Although, most people who can afford a maid at least give them a cash bonus during the holidays. In my opinion, her not giving you a gift tells me you really don't mean that much to her. He knows, he's around a lot of the time, I help him outside as well and yes it feels like I don't mean all that much to her at times...

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Christmas gifts (12/23/2013 2:51:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ng33m I'm just wondering...how common or uncommon it is for dommes to give their personal subs christmas gifts? I found it unusual until I realized that CollarMe chooses one sub every 10 years and for that duration, all Dommes are required (each) to send a gift to that sub. I was chosen in 2009....so I have another 6 years to go. I've added to the garage twice now.

ng33m -> RE: Christmas gifts (12/23/2013 6:07:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie quote: ORIGINAL: ng33m I'm just wondering...how common or uncommon it is for dommes to give their personal subs christmas gifts? I found it unusual until I realized that CollarMe chooses one sub every 10 years and for that duration, all Dommes are required (each) to send a gift to that sub. I was chosen in 2009....so I have another 6 years to go. I've added to the garage twice now. It's a shame you didn't go bigger the first time, you might've saved yourself a few bucks

MistressDarkArt -> RE: Christmas gifts (12/23/2013 10:12:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ng33m quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie quote: ORIGINAL: ng33m I'm just wondering...how common or uncommon it is for dommes to give their personal subs christmas gifts? I found it unusual until I realized that CollarMe chooses one sub every 10 years and for that duration, all Dommes are required (each) to send a gift to that sub. I was chosen in 2009....so I have another 6 years to go. I've added to the garage twice now. It's a shame you didn't go bigger the first time, you might've saved yourself a few bucks Well done, ng. Lookie needs a good talking-back from time to time. [8D] He was about due.

ExquisiteStings -> RE: Christmas gifts (12/23/2013 10:30:50 PM)
LOLOLOL Dark Steven...Fruitcake ..the BANE of Yuletide Festivities!

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Christmas gifts (12/24/2013 4:13:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ng33m quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie quote: ORIGINAL: ng33m I'm just wondering...how common or uncommon it is for dommes to give their personal subs christmas gifts? I found it unusual until I realized that CollarMe chooses one sub every 10 years and for that duration, all Dommes are required (each) to send a gift to that sub. I was chosen in 2009....so I have another 6 years to go. I've added to the garage twice now. It's a shame you didn't go bigger the first time, you might've saved yourself a few bucks Who knew?

LafayetteLady -> RE: Christmas gifts (12/24/2013 7:30:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl quote: ORIGINAL: ng33m I'm just wondering...how common or uncommon it is for dommes to give their personal subs christmas gifts? I give my sub gifts, at the holidays and otherwise. Why not? NBMG [sm=offtopic.gif] Just wanted to say I love the new picture. Back to our regular prgraming.....

LafayetteLady -> RE: Christmas gifts (12/24/2013 7:35:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ng33m quote: ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady quote: ORIGINAL: ng33m She is married and we are not intimate, but I do serve her in all other aspects, lots of housework, massages, not as much play as I would like and that bothers me as well since I've been with her for 20 months. I got her a great the gift the best gift she has gotten in a long time, I wish I recorded it so I could see ther facial expression over and over. We had to do it early cause her daughter came home from college, so I set up a little tree for her with several gifts underneath and suprised her when she got home from work and she opened them saving the best one for last which I wrapped in six seperate boxes, with little notes on each one. The first one after the orignal box reading "oh no he didn't" and the second one reading "yes he did" anyway it was very exciting, even now thinking about it makes me smile. I did get a hug though, but that's it Does her husband know about you? If not, then you are nothing but someone who offers her services she wishes not to do, like cleaning house. Although, most people who can afford a maid at least give them a cash bonus during the holidays. In my opinion, her not giving you a gift tells me you really don't mean that much to her. He knows, he's around a lot of the time, I help him outside as well and yes it feels like I don't mean all that much to her at times... Well,, I'm glad he knows. In any case, do you want to continue your involved with someone you don't mean much to? You sound like a decent guy and a decent sub. Maybe fond someone who appreciates you all the time.

MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: Christmas gifts (12/24/2013 8:13:58 AM)
Not everyone is big on giving Christmas gifts, many don't even do Christmas. Some cannot afford to give everyone in their life a gift, and choose to limit it to only immediate family. What about birthdays? Sounds like your presence has been accepted by the husband, and that's a positive. quote: ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady quote: ORIGINAL: ng33m quote: ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady quote: ORIGINAL: ng33m She is married and we are not intimate, but I do serve her in all other aspects, lots of housework, massages, not as much play as I would like and that bothers me as well since I've been with her for 20 months. I got her a great the gift the best gift she has gotten in a long time, I wish I recorded it so I could see ther facial expression over and over. We had to do it early cause her daughter came home from college, so I set up a little tree for her with several gifts underneath and suprised her when she got home from work and she opened them saving the best one for last which I wrapped in six seperate boxes, with little notes on each one. The first one after the orignal box reading "oh no he didn't" and the second one reading "yes he did" anyway it was very exciting, even now thinking about it makes me smile. I did get a hug though, but that's it Does her husband know about you? If not, then you are nothing but someone who offers her services she wishes not to do, like cleaning house. Although, most people who can afford a maid at least give them a cash bonus during the holidays. In my opinion, her not giving you a gift tells me you really don't mean that much to her. He knows, he's around a lot of the time, I help him outside as well and yes it feels like I don't mean all that much to her at times... Well,, I'm glad he knows. In any case, do you want to continue your involved with someone you don't mean much to? You sound like a decent guy and a decent sub. Maybe fond someone who appreciates you all the time.

ng33m -> RE: Christmas gifts (12/24/2013 1:57:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady quote: ORIGINAL: ng33m quote: ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady quote: ORIGINAL: ng33m She is married and we are not intimate, but I do serve her in all other aspects, lots of housework, massages, not as much play as I would like and that bothers me as well since I've been with her for 20 months. I got her a great the gift the best gift she has gotten in a long time, I wish I recorded it so I could see ther facial expression over and over. We had to do it early cause her daughter came home from college, so I set up a little tree for her with several gifts underneath and suprised her when she got home from work and she opened them saving the best one for last which I wrapped in six seperate boxes, with little notes on each one. The first one after the orignal box reading "oh no he didn't" and the second one reading "yes he did" anyway it was very exciting, even now thinking about it makes me smile. I did get a hug though, but that's it Does her husband know about you? If not, then you are nothing but someone who offers her services she wishes not to do, like cleaning house. Although, most people who can afford a maid at least give them a cash bonus during the holidays. In my opinion, her not giving you a gift tells me you really don't mean that much to her. He knows, he's around a lot of the time, I help him outside as well and yes it feels like I don't mean all that much to her at times... Well,, I'm glad he knows. In any case, do you want to continue your involved with someone you don't mean much to? You sound like a decent guy and a decent sub. Maybe fond someone who appreciates you all the time. Not anymore I don't, I'm gonna talk to her thrusday and see if we can find some common ground and if not I'll do my best to not come around as much and try to find someone, it won't be easy to stay away though. lol I would describe myself as a decent guy/sub, I do a lot for both of them and it took them some time to find someone like me and sadly more and more I'm learning why.

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