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pretty new. - 12/24/2013 6:27:03 PM

bigjoe236

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Hello everyone, I am Joe, called Big Joe by my friends. i am new to living this type of lifestyle, though i have been interested for years. what perks my interest the most is a Master/slave relationship. i am trying to further my knowledge of the dichotomies of the Master/slave. Trying to learn what makes a good Master, and what is generally accepted as a good slave. ive read about bad Masters, and good Masters, and i dont want to end up a "bad" Master. so yeah, i look forward to getting to know many of you, and if you are an experienced Master, please, feel free to message me, and by *experienced* i dont want to hear *oh, my ex girlfriend 3 years ago acted like a slave in the bedroom once in a while* if you are going to give me that, piss off. I dont need it. what i need, is a mentor so to say.

other than that, i am living in south florida, and enjoy it very much. again, thank you all for reading, and or responding if that be the case.

>EDIT: Merry Christmas, and Happy Holidays!

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RE: pretty new. - 12/24/2013 6:38:24 PM

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Welcome to the forums. A lot of information available on the forums. Good search feature at the top right of the page if you have something in particular you wish to research.

There are lots of great books listed in the General BDSM forum. It's a sticky at the top of the page.

It's best to have a mentor you can meet with face to face. If you go to Fetlife.com you can find munches and groups that meet in your area. Watch and discover the dominants and masters you admire. Ask them for advice.

Also, and please do not get angry or take this wrong, it's not nice to have a picture of yourself with others in the picture unless you have their permission to post their pictures on a kink site. In this case I rather doubt you do. Why don't you see if one of your friends will take a nice picture of you on your phone or camera? With the holidays coming up everyone will be taking pictures so no one needs to know why you want the picture.

Again, welcome to the forums. If you have any questions right now you can go to one of the many forums and ask. There are a lot of people here with years of experience.

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Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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RE: pretty new. - 12/24/2013 6:47:09 PM

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thank you for the tips Peppermint, and I didn't even think about any of that, will work on getting a better pic soon.

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RE: pretty new. - 12/24/2013 6:51:48 PM

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ok, changed pic.

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RE: pretty new. - 12/24/2013 10:00:47 PM

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The new pic is great!!!

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We are stardust, we are golden, and we got to get ourselves back to the garden.

Yes, I am crazy about feathered creatures. I have a dozen chickens, 3 ducks, 5 geese, and 2 parakeets.

Revise that number. Just got 14 new chicks and 5 turkeys.

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RE: pretty new. - 12/25/2013 9:38:05 AM

bigjoe236

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Thank you!

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RE: pretty new. - 12/25/2013 7:19:16 PM

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hello and welcome its nice to have you join us, hopefully you will stick around and enjoy your time here.

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RE: pretty new. - 12/26/2013 2:54:07 PM

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Oh, I do hope so, Question though, what do the paddles above your name represent?

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RE: pretty new. - 12/26/2013 2:57:13 PM

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The paddles, cuffs, vanilla cone, only signify how many posts you have made over here in the forums. There is an explanation in the FAQ's

And. Welcome!!

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RE: pretty new. - 12/26/2013 4:07:56 PM

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thank you!

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RE: pretty new. - 12/27/2013 7:56:19 AM

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that I love being paddled hehehehehehe

LOL and what Fluff said

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RE: pretty new. - 12/27/2013 11:46:33 AM

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haha

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RE: pretty new. - 12/27/2013 12:09:09 PM

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