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RE: poachers...why - 12/27/2013 4:32:57 AM

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I suppose the OP could be asking if a "True Dom" naturally exerts himself over any/every one he desires; regardless of the situation. And I would suppose so. But then, I'm only a pig.

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RE: poachers...why - 12/27/2013 6:07:53 AM

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Oh my gosh, that is the cutest little piglet!

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RE: poachers...why - 12/27/2013 8:09:29 AM

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This "friend" wants naked pics of you so that he has a hold over you. Oblige and you can expect more demands to follow. He will threaten to send them to your family or boss.

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RE: poachers...why - 12/27/2013 9:57:43 AM

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Yes, I see this the same way as MissKittyDeVine. He wants you in some way and thinks the picture could be the key to getting it.

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RE: poachers...why - 12/27/2013 10:35:44 AM

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If you're looking for playmates, why would you judge him for wanting / trying to be one of them? If you playing with others isn't a betrayal, then why is it a betrayal for him to want to play with you? I'll admit, I'm confused - so is he too, it seems.

If you wanting to play with others doesn't stop you being a 'true' sub, why does him wanting to play with you call into question whether he is a 'true' Dom?

Perhaps I'm missing something here. It seems like you're attacking him for flimsy reasons. Was he aware that he wasn't supposed to want to do any play with you?

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RE: poachers...why - 12/27/2013 3:04:35 PM

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Umm no..He is a horny teen boy because he certainly acts like one

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RE: poachers...why - 12/27/2013 3:22:05 PM

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if youve known a guy for a long time and he's your friend and he tells you he's a Dom and tries to get you to send naked pics but you don't want to betray your current Master...why do guys do this? Is this a true Dom?

what kind of answer were you expecting?

is this...a legitimately vexing/confusing question for you?

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RE: poachers...why - 12/27/2013 3:29:41 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: orgasmdenial12

If you're looking for playmates, why would you judge him for wanting / trying to be one of them? If you playing with others isn't a betrayal, then why is it a betrayal for him to want to play with you? I'll admit, I'm confused - so is he too, it seems.

If you wanting to play with others doesn't stop you being a 'true' sub, why does him wanting to play with you call into question whether he is a 'true' Dom?

Perhaps I'm missing something here. It seems like you're attacking him for flimsy reasons. Was he aware that he wasn't supposed to want to do any play with you?

She's only looking for female playmates.

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RE: poachers...why - 12/27/2013 3:39:48 PM

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Some will do things like this to test whether you are true to your Dominant. If you do what he asks you fail the test of fidelity. It's a sport for this type,
just like some people like to tempt married spouses to see if they can get them to cheat.

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if youve known a guy for a long time and he's your friend and he tells you he's a Dom and tries to get you to send naked pics but you don't want to betray your current Master...why do guys do this? Is this a true Dom?

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RE: poachers...why - 12/27/2013 5:21:11 PM

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Oh my gosh, that is the cutest little piglet!

Isn't it! I see why people have pet piglets now, lol.

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RE: poachers...why - 12/27/2013 8:41:27 PM

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Supposed "friends", male or female, don't get a thing. Except to tell Mister Man about them. Not that I can't handle them, you bet your ass I can. It's a lot more fun, for me, to see their reaction to him.

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RE: poachers...why - 12/27/2013 8:51:05 PM

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Why do males try to get females to send them naked pics? Is that rhetorical?

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RE: poachers...why - 12/28/2013 2:20:13 AM

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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ORIGINAL: orgasmdenial12

If you're looking for playmates, why would you judge him for wanting / trying to be one of them? If you playing with others isn't a betrayal, then why is it a betrayal for him to want to play with you? I'll admit, I'm confused - so is he too, it seems.

If you wanting to play with others doesn't stop you being a 'true' sub, why does him wanting to play with you call into question whether he is a 'true' Dom?

Perhaps I'm missing something here. It seems like you're attacking him for flimsy reasons. Was he aware that he wasn't supposed to want to do any play with you?

She's only looking for female playmates.

Ah okay. Still, I'm not really seeing enough reason to call into question whether he is a Dom or not. So he's not what she's looking for in a playmate, why post a message?

I'll be honest, if I made overtures to a friend and they posted a message about me on collarme, asking if I was a 'true sub' I'd definitely be thinking one thing wasn't true - our friendship.

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RE: poachers...why - 12/28/2013 5:10:24 AM

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if youve known a guy for a long time and he's your friend and he tells you he's a Dom and tries to get you to send naked pics but you don't want to betray your current Master...why do guys do this? Is this a true Dom?

Well, there's no such thing as a "true dom"... the question I have is... "Is this your true dom?"

Sincerely, if you had a moment's doubt about whether to send pics to this chap then you're in a bit of a bind... if you were tempted, then the guy you were with aint your "true dom", and if you were only tempted a bit, then the guy who is asking for the pics isn't your true dom either.

If you didn't have a moment's doubt then it's easy... your current partner is your "true dom" and this guy is a sleaze.

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