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FelineRanger -> RE: how prickly are you when you first start talking to somebody online? (12/28/2013 10:21:30 AM)
I'm polite but straightforward both here and in the big, scary real world. Then again, I've only gotten one blatantly sexual message here and, sadly, that was from a dude [:(]

xxblushesxx -> RE: how prickly are you when you first start talking to somebody online? (12/28/2013 11:06:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dcnovice quote: I also don't talk about sexual things with strangers. Yep, coming from a phonesex girl that's pretty funny, isn't it? But it's true. Well, you gave at the office. [;)] lol I love my office!!

Lucylastic -> RE: how prickly are you when you first start talking to somebody online? (12/28/2013 11:09:31 AM)
Im very polite, altho some would disagree based on my posts. I dont tolerate idiots well, however I limit that to that one forum(P&R) well I try. I think books and movies are subjective and therefore try not to get heated about it, its just an opinion. I will discuss sex, but not about serving or becoming horny to fap. Im only here for the forums, and friends,Im lucky I only get the desperate ones emailing me helplessly. Well apart from friends....which is how I like it

OsideGirl -> RE: how prickly are you when you first start talking to somebody online? (12/28/2013 11:10:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FelineRanger I'm polite but straightforward both here and in the big, scary real world. Then again, I've only gotten one blatantly sexual message here and, sadly, that was from a dude [:(] Yeah....see.... I get messages like "Why don't you come over, so me and my friends can gangbang your face".

sloguy02246 -> RE: how prickly are you when you first start talking to somebody online? (12/28/2013 2:35:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel I have "astrology" as a hard limit in my profile. I have bowling and sky diving as my hard limits. I've been questioned on the sky diving, but never on the bowling...... Okay. I'll take the bait. Why do you have bowling as a hard limit? [sm=confused.gif]

ExiledTyrant -> RE: how prickly are you when you first start talking to somebody online? (12/28/2013 3:07:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear I'm a prickly pear. My written profile is short and to the point. I have a Dom, we're monogamous I'm here for the forums. It takes a maximum of 3 msgs to find out they haven't bothered reading it and want to make me theirs. I've reverted to snarky now. I'm getting msgs from men who are supposed to be grown ups. Who should be able to read simple declarative sentences. I know I'm asking for too much, not like I haven't been here for long enough. I never have a problem getting a msg from this side of course, it's the profile side that has a tendency to do me in. SnarkyBear just doesn't have the same ring to it. Exiled

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: how prickly are you when you first start talking to somebody online? (12/28/2013 5:06:39 PM)
That my dear Tyrant is because you know me as SweetieBear of course!![;)]

tj444 -> RE: how prickly are you when you first start talking to somebody online? (12/29/2013 8:07:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HipPoindexter i'm never really on Best Behavior when talking to somebody at a site like this I am fairly polite to anyone that I recognize from the forums.. and we can chat for however long that goes on.. but there is a bit of a wall up nonetheless.. The odds of me finding "the one" online is slim so I don't act like its gonna.. Most guys must have an age filter on cuz I don't get that many messages from strangers.. hahaha

Greta75 -> RE: how prickly are you when you first start talking to somebody online? (12/29/2013 9:44:08 AM)
Fast Reply I like to think it is just chemistry. I got some doms who message me and get offended at every word I say. And I feel so freak out by them because they seem so skittish and such huge chips on their shoulders! I don't need to be on eggshells. And then doms that, it's just instantaneously click and have great smooth flowing warm conversation with. Yea and I only mention doms because I only speak to doms, since I am seeking a dom of my own. So it's 100% chemistry.

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: how prickly are you when you first start talking to somebody online? (12/29/2013 10:26:52 AM)
How prickly am I when first talking with someone on the other side? I guess that depends on how prickly you find me in general. I don't suffer fools gladly, and frankly have neither the time nor motivation to respond to 99% of the messages I receive. The few I do respond to, I've found the same thing, male 'subs' open as all hell about their sexual fantasies, but don't ask them about their politics! I'm not actively looking, and if I was, I wouldn't look here. I'm not saying I wouldn't converse with someone who appealed to me, I just don't look. I've never done a search and then picked out people to message, for instance. Which means they message me, which makes the entire thing skewed towards those likely to message a fem domme they find physically attractive. Most don't read profiles, so they've no idea I'm married, that I switch, that under no circumstances would I have sex. Really it's all a fantasy thing to a high majority of people who actively use the other side, they don't need to talk about politics or religion, those things don't enter into their fantasy. I've come across a few quite shocked by the most basic of vanilla questions. For those who use this place as part of their search, asking lots of vanilla questions up front will weed out the fantasy only people right quick. Or at least that's been my experience.

miserae -> RE: how prickly are you when you first start talking to somebody online? (12/29/2013 1:47:32 PM)
quote: quote: ORIGINAL: HipPoindexter quote: ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel It depends on what their original message is. I have "astrology" as a hard limit in my profile. I put it there mostly as a joke. More than once I've had someone ask me about that and I replied, "It's because I think its bunk." One more than one occasion that person has tried to convince me of her superior intellect by saying how true it is. Then I start to get prickly. hmmm...interesting. cold, rational...you must be a virgo. ;) note: i have no idea what a virgo is supposed to be like. i'm just being a silly billy. Actually not a Virgo. Let's see if any people who actually believe in astrology can guess correctly. It's now only a 1:11 chance that they get it correct, not 1:12. I guarantee you they won't all be in agreement. Not even if I said I was born n December. Cold and rational is generally associated with Aquarians. Aquarians allegedly have a habit of treating people like science experiments, introducing stimuli to see what will happen so they can analyze the results. Once the analysis is complete and they've figured everything out, they move on. A Dec birthday would mean sag or capricorn though... If you believe in that sort of thing. I'm prickly everywhere in initial conversations, both in online interactions and 'real life.' I consider it part of my caustic charm! It's the filter that keeps idiots away! How rude. One could also analyze it as some deep seated fear of rejection, I suppose. In general I wonder sometimes that as society in general becomes more tolerant and so deathly afraid of even accidentally offending some fringe group that we all start to keep our opinions buried. We wouldn't want to offend! Or perhaps we all stay so busy moving from screen to screen we never develop opinions. Opinions mean thinking and lord knows that just gets you in trouble....

jlf1961 -> RE: how prickly are you when you first start talking to somebody online? (12/29/2013 2:02:45 PM)
Here lately, I am very nice and tell subs and slaves that contact me that their photo is on various porn sites and romance scam sites.

SweetAnise -> RE: how prickly are you when you first start talking to somebody online? (12/29/2013 2:07:43 PM)
I am generally to the point but nice about it. Unless I have come to CM tired and ready for bed. Then I definitely have fangs...

Ollieboomboom -> RE: how prickly are you when you first start talking to somebody online? (12/29/2013 8:00:19 PM)
I have to admit that I'm a bit prickly and polite. I've been through so many trolls, everyone is suspect until we are weeks into a conversation. So many "Masters" approach with crap, I've become jaded. My hope is the "one twue" Master gets through. HAHAHAHA. ~dovie~

littlewonder -> RE: how prickly are you when you first start talking to somebody online? (12/29/2013 8:25:00 PM)
nevermind wrong forum

VeryMercurial -> RE: how prickly are you when you first start talking to somebody online? (12/29/2013 9:47:26 PM)
It depends on the manner in which I am approached. I prefer to be nice and easy going, but that only works with some people. When pushed, I can be very mercurial and very prickly. :)

DommeWifey -> RE: how prickly are you when you first start talking to somebody online? (12/29/2013 10:32:51 PM)
It depends on how much spam or poorly written messages I have received that day. If I get too many I can be a bitch but I normally block or ignore. If I receive a good message from someone I'm not interested in I may respond just to say thanks.

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